Zamkati
Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikuluzikulu za ubale ndikupangitsa kuti lawi la chikondi liyake komanso chisangalalo chikhale chamoyo. Kugwira ntchito molimbika sikungopeza kulimba mtima kuti muthe mawu amatsenga atatuwo koma ndikupatsanso ubalewo nthawi zonse. Poganizira za abambo ndi amai ndi mitundu yosiyana, ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse malingaliro ena, kupeza zomwe mungagwirizane ndikusunga khama mbali ziwiri.
Bukulo Amuna Amachokera Ku Mars, Akazi Amachokera Ku Venus amalankhula za momwe amuna amaganizira komanso zosowa zosiyanasiyana za mkazi. Monga mkazi, mungafune mankhwala amatsenga kuti mumvetsetse zomwe amuna anu angaganize, kuti azimulakalaka nthawi zonse ndikumupusitsa.
Tiyeni tisiye nthanoyo.
Kuti mufufuze mumtima mwake ndikudziwa zomwe abambo anu akuganiza, lamuloli ndikumvetsetsa malingaliro ake. Mwamaganizidwe, abambo ndi amai amaganiza mosiyana, ndipo muubwenzi, zimakhala zofunikira kuti mugwiritse ntchito izi. Chifukwa chake, mumupusitseni ndi malingaliro otsatirawa, ndipo onetsetsani kuti sangasiye kukuganizirani.
Lolani Anu Osamala
Chiwopsezo chiri pakusankha kukhala wofotokozera ndikuyika mtima wako momwe zilili. Ku University of Houston Pulofesa Brené Brown's 2010 TEDxHouston, Mphamvu Yakuwopsezedwa, akuti,
Kukhala osatetezeka ndi a chiopsezo tiyenera kutenga ngati tikufuna kulumikizidwa.
Timalimbikitsa kukhala osatetezeka mokwanira kuti tidziwitse za inu nokha ndikuchotsa zovuta zonse. Kupwetekedwa, kuchita mantha kapena kukhala achimwemwe ndi gawo la moyo wathu ndipo sipayenera kukhala manyazi pofufuza. Komabe, osakulipilira kuti mupange malo mumtima mwake.
Palibe chitsimikiziro chokhazikitsidwa mwala momwe mungapangire kuti munthu wanu akhale wamisala, koma Kufotokozera zosangalatsa zanu, zolinga zanu, ndi zokhumba zanu momasuka kumathandizira kwambiri kulimbitsa mgwirizano. Chiwopsezo chimakopa. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomangira ubalewo ndipo izi zimapangitsa kuti abambo anu aziganiza kuti ali ndi mphamvu pachibwenzi monga momwe mumachitira.
Pokhala osatetezeka, mumamuyandikira mochenjera ndi inu ndikumuthandiza kutulutsa chithumwa chake chachinyamata. Ndipo ngati mukuganiza kuti zingamupangitse bwanji kuti azikumbukirabe za inu, akuyenera kutsimikiziridwa kudzera m'zizindikiro zanu kuti nawonso atsegule mtima wake. M'malo mongokhala chingwe m'manja mwanu, gwirani chingwe chimodzi kumapeto kwake. Adzayamikira.
Zotsatira za Mirroring
Ngati mukufuna kuti mwamuna wanu azikuganizirani, imodzi mwanjira zabwino ndikumugwira kumuyerekeza pamlingo wosazindikira. Izi ziwonetsa kuyesetsa kwanu kwa iye ndipo nthawi yomweyo, kuwonjezera chinthu chosangalatsa muubwenzi. Awona kukondana uku kosangalatsa modabwitsa ndipo sadzaganiza za iwe.
Mirroring imachitika kwambiri pamisinkhu yosazindikira. Imakhala chizolowezi chogwirizana ndi nthawi ndikumanga maziko olimba. Mukakhala ndi lingaliro lotsimikizika la momwe amaganizira, nonse mumayamba kuwonetserana pamalingaliro.
Kuwonetserana kwamaganizidwe, komabe, kudzatenga nthawi yake yokoma pamene nonse muyamba kuwerenga malingaliro a wina ndi mnzake ndikuwona momwe mukuwonetsera. Sitiyenera kukhala ndi changu chilichonse. Onetsetsani kuti simukuyesera kufuna kuti iye akukondeni. Osakhala wotsatsa wotsutsa.
Khalani Owona Kwa Inu
Chomwe amuna amayamikira kwambiri mwa akazi ndi kuwona mtima. Ngati mukufuna kuti aziganiza za inu nthawi zonse, muyenera kudziwonetsera nokha moona mtima komanso moona mtima. Kusakhala woona kwa inu nokha ndi chimodzi mwazolakwika zomwe amayi amakonda kuchita.
Mwamuna safuna kuti mkazi aganize momwe amachitira, kuti azikonda zinthu zomwe amakonda, kuti azichita momwe amachitira. Ngati ndi choncho, amadzakwatira. Amuna safuna kuti akazi apondereze malingaliro awo chifukwa akhoza kutsutsana nawo; m'malo, Amuna amakonda akazi omwe amatha kufotokoza malingaliro awo komanso omwe ali pachiyambi.
Chimodzi mwamaubwino okhalabe oona mtima ndikuti chidzamupatse mpata wofotokozera malingaliro ake. Akapeza danga lomwe angakhulupirire inunso, adzakhala akuganizira za inu nthawi zonse.
Amuna safuna kudziwa azimayi omwe amangokhalira kuganiza zodzionetsera. Chifukwa chake, kuti mwamunayo aganize kuti ndinu amene, khalani owona.
Khalani Okoma Mtima
Kukoma mtima ndi khalidwe losangalatsa ena, kafukufuku akuwonetsa. Kafukufuku akuwonetsanso kuti kukoma mtima kumalumikizidwa ndi kuthekera kopanga mgwirizano. Monga wolemba ndakatulo wotchuka Maya Angelou adati:
Anthu amaiwala zomwe wanena, anthu amaiwala zomwe mudachita koma sadzaiwala momwe mudawapangitsira kumva.
Chifukwa chake patsiku loyamba, lachiwiri, lachitatu kapena tsiku lililonse, sangazindikire ndikukumbukira kavalidwe komwe mudavala koma amakumbukira ngati mukadakhala okoma mtima ndi aulemu naye komanso munthu wina aliyense amene mudacheza naye. Chifukwa chake khalani okoma mtima ndipo dziwani kuti nthawi zonse amakuganizirani mwanjira yabwino kwambiri.
Kutenga komaliza
Amuna amawona akazi odzidalira komanso okonda malingaliro kukhala otsitsimula komanso osagonjetseka. Ngati mukufuna kuti amuna anu aziganiza kuti ndinu osiyana, dzifotokozerani momwe mulili. Ngati akuyembekeza kudzachita izi, kusewera, kudziyimira pawokha, komanso kukondana ndi zina mwazikhalidwe zina zomwe angayamikire.
Nthawi zina, kufotokoza kwanu momveka bwino komanso kosaphika kumakupangitsani kukhala omwe muli. Chifukwa chake khalani mkaziyo, chitani momwe mukufunira ndipo muloleni awone ulemerero wanu wonse pamodzi ndi zolakwa zanu ngati mukufuna kuti azikuganizirani nthawi zonse.