Zamkati
- 1. Anthu amasintha chifukwa cha chikondi
- 2. Ubale ndi bwenzi lachiwerewere
- 3. Ubale ndi munthu amene amakugwiritsani ntchito kuti apange nsanje
Ndani sakonda kuwonera kanema wokonda kugona ali pabedi la banja ndi ma popcorn ndikumwa masana Lamlungu laulesi. Ma com-com amakuseketsani, amakupangitsani kulira, chonsecho amakupangitsani kukhala osangalala komanso owala. Ndizabwino kuwonera. Kuphatikiza kwa nkhani yotentha pamtima, kuzizira kwa umagwirira pakati pazotsogola ndi nthabwala ndizomwe zimakhala zabwino mu rom-com ndipo ife monga omvera, timakondwera nazo bwino.
Koma kodi mudayamba mwadzifunsapo ngati pali kusiyana m'mene maubwenzi amawonetsedwa pazenera zasiliva komanso momwe aliri. Khulupirirani kapena ayi hollywood ili ndi mphamvu yakusonkhezera anthu ndipo makanema achikondi awa 'osalakwa' amakhudza zomwe anthu amaganiza ndikuyembekezera kunja kwa maubale m'moyo weniweni.
Makanema achikondi nthawi zambiri amapangidwa mozungulira anthu awiri, omwe amayenera kukhala limodzi. Chilengedwe chimawakankhira iwo palimodzi ndipo zonse zimagwera m'malo mwamatsenga. Pakutha pa kanema azindikira kuti ali mchikondi ndipo akuyenera kukhala limodzi. Koma kodi izi zimachitikadi? Maubwenzi samangochitika paokha ndipo chilengedwe sichimakulimbikitsani kutchula dzina la munthu amene muyenera kukhala naye. Muyenera kugwira ntchito kuti mupange ndikusunga maubale, sizongokhudza kukondweretsedwa komanso chidwi, komanso za khama komanso kudzipereka. Izi sizimaperekedwa kwenikweni pazenera, zomwe zimamveka chifukwa anthu amapita makanema kuti akasangalale ndipo osawona zovuta zenizeni m'moyo. Makanema amawoneka ngati opanda vuto, osangalatsa m'miyoyo yathu koma komabe iwo mosazindikira amasokoneza momwe timawonera maubale athu. Kukongola ndi adrenalin kuthamangira komwe timakumana nako kudzera mu rom-coms kumatipangitsa kumva kuti tifunikira kukhala ndi zomwezi m'miyoyo yathu yachikondi, zimawonjezera mopanda chiyembekezo paubwenzi.
Nawa malingaliro ena osagwirizana omwe ma com-coms akhala akufalitsa kwanthawi yayitali:
1. Anthu amasintha chifukwa cha chikondi
Pali n-nambala yamafilimu aku hollywood pomwe mnyamata woyipa amakondana ndi msungwana wabwino ndikusintha kwathunthu kuti akhale naye. Makanema odziwika ngati Ghost of Atsikana Akale, Made Of Honor ndi Madeti Oyamba 50, onse ali ndi mtsogoleri wamwamuna yemwe amasewera mwachilengedwe mpaka atakumana ndi mtsikana yemwe amayenera kukhala naye. Amasandulika kukhala munthu wamanyazi komanso wosazindikira ndipo msungwanayo amaiwala chilichonse chokhudza umunthu wake wakale ndikumana naye.
Zowonadi zake, palibe chomwe chingakhale kutali kwambiri ndi chowonadi. Makanema oterowo akhala akupukusa miyoyo yachikondi ya atsikana ambiri kwanthawi yayitali tsopano. Anthu sasintha kukhala wina aliyense kupatula zawo. Inde, pakhoza kukhala anthu omwe angaganize kuti asintha kuti akope mtima wa wokondedwa wawo, koma sizikhala choncho.
2. Ubale ndi bwenzi lachiwerewere
Masiku ano, dongosololi lakhala lotchuka kwambiri. Anthu amakondana kwambiri ndi anzawo, omwe alibe ubale wapadera ndipo izi sizikukhudzana ndi chibwenzi chawo. Koma m'mafilimu ngati Abwenzi okhala ndi maubwino ndi No Strings Ophatikizidwa otsogolera amuna ndi akazi ndi abwenzi omwe amagonana osakondana koma pamapeto pake amayamba kukondana. Izi zimapereka chithunzi kwa anthu kuti omwe amakhala anzawo ogonana pamapeto pake amayamba kukondana. Pali achichepere ambiri omwe amavomereza makonzedwe abwenzi ogonana awa akuyembekeza kuti anzawo nthawi ina adzawagwera. Koma izi sizingachitike ndipo zitha kuwasiya ali ndi nkhawa panthawiyo.
3. Ubale ndi munthu amene amakugwiritsani ntchito kuti apange nsanje
Anthu amagwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana kuti abwerere ndi anzawo akale ndipo imodzi mwayo ndikuwapangitsa kuti achite nsanje poyandikira pafupi ndi munthu wina. Samakhala pamodzi ndi munthu wina, amangonamizira ndikuyika chiwonetsero cha wakale. Munthu winayo alibe chilichonse choti apindule nacho. Koma m'makanema ngati A Lot Like Live komanso Addicted to Love, akuwonetsa kuti ngakhale akudziyesa kuti ali mchikondi, awiri omwe akutsogolawo amakondana. Chifukwa chake ndikudziwa izi anthu omwe amakondana mwachinsinsi ndi munthu amavomereza kutenga nawo gawo pamasewera awa onamizira. Zomwe samazindikira ndikuti bwenzi lawo mwina sangabwezere zomwe akumva, zomwe zingawachititse kumva kuwawa.
Izi ndi zochepa chabe zosewerera makanema achikondi, zomwe zatipangitsa kuti tisakhale momwe maubale enieni ayenera kukhalira. Izi zimabweretsa kukhumudwitsidwa ndi mkwiyo, ndipo zimatisiya ndi zokumana nazo zosafunikira. Khalani ndi ziyembekezo zenizeni ndipo musalole makanema kusokoneza chibwenzi chanu.