Zamkati
- Ovomerezeka - Sungani Njira Yanga Yokwatirana
- Nkhani zina zimangokhala paubwenzi wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
- Mavuto azokwatirana ndi ma gay
- Maudindo amuna kapena akazi sangakhale omveka bwino
- Ana ochokera pachibwenzi chakale
- Kukhala ndi mwana limodzi
Maubale a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ndi chithumwa chawo komanso mavuto awo. Mavuto azibwenzi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amaphatikizapo kuvomereza makolo, kusakhulupirika kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kapena zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana kungotchulapo ochepa.
M'dziko langwiro, maubale athu sangakhale opanda mikangano komanso opindulitsa maganizidwe ndi matupi athu, koma sitikhala m'dziko langwiro. Ngati mwalumikizidwa ndi winawake mwachikondi, mavuto angabuke mukamaphunzira kuphatikiza miyoyo iwiri pamodzi.
Izi ndizabwinobwino ndipo utha kukhala mwayi wabwino wopanga maluso ofunikira omwe angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi mavuto anu osati m'banja lanu komanso m'malo ena amoyo.
Mukakumana ndi mavuto azibwenzi za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndi njira ziti zomwe mungasinthire kuti akhale mwayi wophunzira?
Werengani kuti mumvetse bwino za maubale omwe ali pachibwenzi ndipo fufuzani mayankho pamafunso ena okhudzana ndi chiwerewere omwe mungakhale nawo.
Ovomerezeka - Sungani Njira Yanga Yokwatirana
Nkhani zina zimangokhala paubwenzi wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
M'dera lomwe limalamuliridwa ndi chikhalidwe cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mutha kukumana ndi mavuto amgonana omwe amachokera kunja kwa chibwenzi chanu.
Zina mwazovuta zomwe zimafotokozeredwa ndi zakusavomerezeka kwam'banja (makamaka kwa makolo), kunyansidwa pakati pa anthu, makamaka ngati mumakhala m'dera lina momwe kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumadziwika kuti ndi kwachilendo, komanso kusankhana (kopitilira muyeso kapena kosazindikira) kuntchito.
Zonsezi zakunja kumangowonjezera mavuto am'banja la amuna okhaokha ndipo zimatha kubweretsa zovuta mkati mwa chibwenzi chanu.
Mnzanuyo sangagwirizane ndi momwe mumagwirira ntchito momwe makolo anu amaganizira zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kapena amakwiya mukakhala kuti simukuyimira nokha pagulu lanyansi kapena kuchitiridwa tsankho kuofesi.
Ndikofunikira kuthana ndi mavuto omwe akukhudzana ndi mavuto amiseche limodzi ndikupeza njira zabwino zowasamalirira asanayambe kumenya nkhondo zowononga ubale.
Chofunikira ndikulumikizana ndi mnzanu m'njira yoperekera kumvetsetsa ndi kulandira kuti mupeze yankho limodzi. Mukufuna kukumana ndi ziwopsezo zakunja ngati gulu.
Mwinanso mungafikire magulu anu othandizira a LGBT, omwe mwakhala muli komwe muli, kuti akuthandizeni (ndi zovomerezeka) zamomwe mungathetsere mavutowa ndi mavuto ena ndi banja lachiwerewere.
Mavuto azokwatirana ndi ma gay
Mavuto azibwenzi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatha kukulira m'modzi wa inu akatuluka ndipo m'modzi wa inu satuluka. Kutuluka ndi njira yofunikira yodzifunira kuti ndinu ndani komanso kukhala ndi moyo weniweni.
Koma bwanji ngati mumakonda munthu amene samakhala bwino ndi anthu akudziwa omwe amakonda kugona naye?
Izi zitha kukhazikitsa njira yothetsera chibwenzicho, popeza mnzake yemwe ali kunja kwa chipinda amadziwa kuti chikondi chenicheni chimayamba ndikudzikonda, ndipo kudzikonda kumayamba ndikukhala momwe mulili, kuphatikiza kugonana.
Ngati mukuwona kuti wokondedwa wanu akufuna kutuluka koma sakudziwa komwe angayambire, muthandizeni momwe zingathere. Gawani nawo zomwe mwakumana nazo.
Kumbukirani kuti polimbana ndi mavuto amiseche, kulumikizana ndichinsinsi. Auzeni kufunikira kofunikira kuti thanzi lanu lamisala likhale ngati amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Auzeni kuti mukudziwa kuti kutuluka ndi ntchito yovuta, koma kukhalabe pafupi ndizovuta kwambiri, ndikuti ubale wanu sungaphulike pokhapokha nonse mutakhala ngati anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Tsimikizirani mnzanu kuti mudzakhala mukuwathandiza pamene ayamba ntchito yovutayi. Yesetsani magulu othandizira a LGBT kuti mumvetsere momwe adasamalirira mavuto awo okwatirana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndikugawana nanu.
Maudindo amuna kapena akazi sangakhale omveka bwino
M'mabanja ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, maudindo omwe amuna amakhala nawo akhoza kukhala kuti kulibiretu kapena madzi. Ndizabodza kuti maubale omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ndi bwenzi limodzi "lachimuna" komanso wina "wamkazi".
Amayi awiri palimodzi atha kubweretsa kuubwenzi zikhalidwe zazimayi zomwe zimangoganizira mopitirira muyezo ndikuphimba malingaliro awo. Amuna awiri atha kubweretsa zikhalidwe zamamuna zofananira zokhala okonda zogonana komanso osalumikizana ndi malingaliro awo.
Izi zitha kubweretsa kuwerengetsa komwe kumalangiza kwambiri mbali imodzi, osapindula ndi malingaliro otsutsana.
Kubweretsa munthu wachitatu kuti adzakuthandizeni kukambirana za mavuto am'banja lachiwerewere kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zitha kukhala zothandiza kuti mupeze "chidutswa" chomwe banja lanu likusowa.
Ana ochokera pachibwenzi chakale
Mmodzi kapena nonse mwina mutha kukhala ndi ana kuchokera pachibwenzi choyambirira.
Monga banja lirilonse losakanikirana, kumanga umodzi wophatikizika ndi ulemu ndi kovuta ndipo kumafuna kuleza mtima ndi kulankhulana kwabwino.
Musanachite, ndi kwanzeru kukambirana malingaliro anu pakulera ana, maphunziro, ndi momwe mungaphatikizire yemwe anali naye pachibwenzi chatsopano ichi.
Ndikofunikira kuyika zabwino za mwana kapena za ana patsogolo, ndipo chifukwa cha izi, muyenera kudziwa kuti mnzanuyo ali patsamba lomwelo kuti mupewe mavuto amgonana.
Kukhala ndi mwana limodzi
Ndizofala kwambiri kuwona maanja ogonana akulera limodzi.
Kukhala makolo oyamba ndi chimodzi mwazisankho zazikulu kwambiri pamoyo wanu, kaya ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Koma palinso zopinga zina zomwe zingabwere kwa okwatirana okhaokha, kuphatikiza:
Kwa okwatirana okhaokha:
- Ndani apereke umuna? Mnzanu, wachibale, banki ya umuna?
- Ngati abambo amadziwika, kodi angaphatikizepo chiyani pamoyo wa mwanayo?
- Ndi mayi uti yemwe angakhale mayi wobereka (kutenga mimba)?
- Udindo wakulera komanso momwe mumaonera udindo wanu wachimuna ndi mwana
- Momwe mungalerere mwana kuti muchite zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha: kuphunzitsa kulolerana komanso kuzindikira kwa LGBT
- Kuvomerezeka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndi zomwe zingachitike mutasungidwa mutasiyana
Okwatirana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha:
- Kodi dziko lanu kapena dziko lanu limalola maanja ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuti atenge ana?
- Kodi mungaganize zogwiritsa ntchito bwenzi lanu kukhala lolekerera? Ndani wa inu angapereke umuna?
- Udindo wakulera komanso momwe mumaonera udindo wanu wachimuna ndi mwana
- Momwe mungalerere mwana kuti muchite zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha: kuphunzitsa kulolerana komanso kuzindikira kwa LGBT
- Kuvomerezeka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso zomwe zingachitike mukasungika mukasiyana
Amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, maubwenzi onse amakhala ndi mavuto awo. Chifukwa chake, musaganize kuti ndinu wopatula ngati mukukumana ndi mavuto azogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Koma ndi kulumikizana kwabwino, komanso kufuna kupeza mayankho ogwira mtima, mavuto amgonana anu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha atha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kulimbikitsa kulumikizana kwanu komanso kukulitsa kulumikizana kwanu.