Zamkati
- 1. Khalani ndi udindo
- 2. Dziperekeni pantchitoyi
- 3. Dziperekeni mwapadera kuti muzikhala ndi nthawi yambiri yocheza ndi mnzanu
- 4. Kubwezeretsani kukondana ndikuwonetsa chikondi
Banja lililonse limakumana ndi zovuta, koma ngati mutalimbikira likhoza kukonzedwa. Kapenanso timauzidwa.
Tsoka ilo, nthawi zina, ziribe kanthu zomwe mungachite, simungathe kuzichita. Kumbali inayi, nthawi zina, mukamachita zomwe mukuyenera kuchita, mumagwiritsa ntchito chikondi chanu chonse ndi mphamvu zanu muubwenzi wanu, mumalandira mphotho ya khama lanu.
Ndiye, mungakonze bwanji banja lanu likangokhalira kugundana kapena kukumana ndi namondwe? Nawa maupangiri omwe angasinthe moyo wanu
1. Khalani ndi udindo
Ambiri aife timadana ndi gawo ili, makamaka ngati muli pamphepete mwa kupatukana kapena chisudzulo. Timakonda kuimba mlandu winayo chifukwa chilichonse chomwe chasokonekera muubwenzi wathu.
Sitikunena kuti simunapwetekedwe kapena kuti simunapangidwe. Mowona mtima, palibe nthawi zambiri momwe m'modzi yekha ndioyipa, pomwe winayo ndi woyera.
Chifukwa chake, ziribe kanthu zomwe zidachitika zomwe zidapangitsa kuti banja lanu likhale pamavuto, ndiye kuti pali zinthu zina zomwe mudachita kapena zomwe mumachita zomwe zidabweretsa zovuta m'banjamo.
Ndipo izi ndi zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana ngati gawo loyamba panjira yakukonzekera banja lanu. Zazikulu kapena zazing'ono, muyenera kutenga nawo mbali pazovuta zanu.
Dzifunseni mafunso okhudza khalidwe lanu, khalidwe lanu, ndi zochita zanu. Kodi munanena zoona? Kodi munali aulemu? Kodi mudangodandaula kuposa momwe zidafunikira? Kodi mumadziwa momwe mungalankhulire zosowa zanu ndi zodandaula? Kodi mudawonetsa chikondi ndi chisamaliro? Kodi mudadziletsa?
Zonsezi ndi zina zambiri, ndi zina zambiri, ndi mafunso omwe muyenera kudzifunsa tsiku lililonse mukamapita kuukwati wanu wathanzi. Chinthu choyamba ndicho kuzindikira ndi kuvomereza zolakwa zanu ndi zolakwa zanu. Mukachita izi, thandirani zomwe mwachita. Kenako kambiranani izi ndi mnzanuyo momasuka koma mokoma mtima.
2. Dziperekeni pantchitoyi
Mukamaliza kuthana ndi mavuto omwe anali anu, ndipo mukalumbira kuti musintha njira zanu kuti zinthu zikuyendereni bwino, muyenera kudzipereka kuchitanso zomwezo.
Udzakhala ulendo wautali, osapusitsidwa ndi malonjezo osavuta. Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti maanja omwe ali ofunitsitsa kudzipereka kuti apange zosinthazo ali ndi mwayi wopambana wopulumutsa banja lawo.
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji kuti zizichita?
Khalani okonzeka kusintha zizolowezi zanu zatsiku ndi tsiku, ndikukhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yogwiritsira ntchito banja lanu. Izi zikutanthauza zinthu zochepa. Mufunika nthawi kuti mugwiritse ntchito luso lanu lodzikulitsa komanso maluso anu olumikizirana, mwina werengani mabuku ena omwe angakuthandizeni. Muyeneranso kuchezera azachipatala a mabanja kuti akutsogolereni pochita izi.
3. Dziperekeni mwapadera kuti muzikhala ndi nthawi yambiri yocheza ndi mnzanu
Pomaliza, komwe mwina ndi gawo losangalatsa kwambiri pagawo ili - muyenera kuyesetsa kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yambiri, komanso nthawi yabwino kwambiri, ndi mnzanu. Onani ngati mungapeze zokonda zatsopano. Khalani madzulo opanda makompyuta kapena mafoni, nonse awiri. Yendani, kupita kumakanema, ndikukopana.
Onetsetsani kuti mwayika malo osafunikira ochulukirapo mpaka ubale wanu utakhala bwino.
4. Kubwezeretsani kukondana ndikuwonetsa chikondi
Chimodzi mwazinthu zoyambirira m'banja zomwe zimasokonekera mukakhala ndi mavuto m'banja ndizokondana. Izi zimachitika pazomwe zimachitika mchipinda chogona, ndikusinthana tsiku ndi tsiku, kukumbatirana, kupsompsona, ndi kukumbatirana. Izi ndizomveka, makamaka kwa azimayi omwe zimawavuta kugawana ndikulekanitsa kukondana kwakuthupi ndi ubale wonse.
Kubwezeretsa maubwenzi apabanja panu ndi gawo lofunikira pamalingaliro awa. Monga zam'mbuyomu, zidzafunika kuwona mtima kwakukulu, kutseguka, ndikudzipereka. Ndipo, ziyeneranso kubwera mosavuta pambuyo poti njira zoyambilira zasamaliridwa. Osakakamizidwa, ingotengani pang'onopang'ono momwe mungafunire ndikuyamba ndi kukambirana momasuka pazomwe zingachitike mu dipatimentiyi.
Fotokozerani zokonda zanu pabedi, khalani omasuka pazomwe mumakonda ndi zomwe simukuzikonda, zomwe mukufuna, ndi zomwe mukufuna. Tengani mwayi uwu kuti musangobwezeretsanso ubale wanu wakuthupi komanso kuukonzanso kuti nonse mukhale pamwamba padziko lapansi. Pangani icho kukhala ntchito yanu ya tsiku ndi tsiku kusinthana chikondi mwanjira ina yakuthupi, kaya ndikupsompsonana panjira yopita kuntchito, kapena kugonana kosangalatsa musanagone. Ndipo ukwati wanu ukhoza kunenedwa ngati mlandu wopulumutsidwa!