Zamkati
- Njira yomwe makolo onse amatha kumbuyo
- Ubwino wa lingaliro lamabuku
- Mauthenga 6 ofunikira makolo ana amafunika kumva
- 1. Uku sikulakwa kwanu.
- 2. Amayi ndi abambo adzakhala makolo anu nthawi zonse.
- 3. Mudzakondedwa nthawi zonse ndi amayi ndi abambo.
- 4. Izi ndizokhudza kusintha, osati za mlandu.
- 5. Ndinu ndipo mudzakhala otetezeka nthawi zonse.
- 6. Zinthu zidzayenda bwino.
Ana ndi chisudzulo, zikaphatikizidwa, zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri kwa makolo osudzulana.
Kholo lililonse losudzulana limakumana ndi vuto lalikulu: momwe mungalankhulire ndi ana anu za chisudzulo chanu! Ndi imodzi mwazovuta kwambiri zokambirana zomwe kholo lililonse limakhala nazo. Izi ndichifukwa zimakhudza kukhudzidwa kwakukulu.
Kukonzekera kulankhula ndi ana za chisudzulo kumatha kukhala kovuta chifukwa cha zopinga kuchokera kwa ana anu komanso mnzanu.
Ngakhale ana anu atadzaza ndi mantha, mantha, nkhawa, kudziimba mlandu, kapena manyazi, omwe mukwatila posachedwa angakhale okwiya, achisoni, okwiya, komanso akuimba mlandu.
Ngati zokambiranazo sizikuyendetsedwa bwino, zimatha kukulitsa malingaliro, zomwe zimapangitsa mkwiyo, kudziteteza, kukana, nkhawa, kuweruza, komanso chisokonezo kwa aliyense amene akukhudzidwa.
Izi ndi zifukwa zomwe, pazaka 10 zapitazi, ndakhala ndikulimbikitsa makasitomala anga kuti azigwiritsa ntchito njira yomwe ndidapanga zaka zopitilira makumi awiri zapitazo zothandiza mwana wanu kusudzulana
Zimaphatikizapo kupanga buku la nkhani yabanja ngati njira yothetsera "nkhani zakusudzulana" zowopsa. Zimathandiza makamaka mukamayankhula ndi ana azaka zapakati pa 5 mpaka 14.
Ndinagwiritsa ntchito lingaliro la m'mabuku ndisanathetse banja langa ndipo ndidapeza kuti ili ndi zambiri zabwino kwa makolo onse ndi ana awo. Ndinaika zithunzi za banja lathu pazaka zonse zaukwati wanga.
Ndidawaika mu chithundu cha zithunzi chophatikizidwa ndi mawu othandizira omwe ndidalemba. Ndidangoyang'ana nthawi zabwino, zokumana nazo zambiri pabanja, komanso zosintha zomwe zakhala zikuchitika zaka zapitazi.
Njira yomwe makolo onse amatha kumbuyo
Uthenga womwe uli m'buku la nkhani umafotokoza kuti moyo ukupitilira ndikusintha:
- Panali moyo ana anu asanabadwe komanso pambuyo pake
- Ndife banja ndipo tidzakhalabe koma tsopano mwanjira ina
- Zinthu zina zisintha kubanja lathu - zinthu zambiri sizikhala chimodzimodzi
- Kusintha kumakhala kwachilendo komanso kwachilengedwe: makalasi kusukulu, abwenzi, masewera, nyengo
- Moyo ukhoza kukhala wowopsa pakadali pano, koma zinthu zidzasintha
- Makolo onse awiri akugwirizana kuti zinthu zikhale bwino kwa ana omwe amawakonda
Powakumbutsa ana anu kuti makolo awo anali ndi mbiri limodzi asanabadwe, mumawapatsa mwayi wowonera moyo wopitilira ndi kukwera, kugwedezeka, komanso kutembenuka.
Zachidziwikire, padzakhala zosintha patsogolo chifukwa chakupatukana kapena kusudzulana. Zosinthazi siziyenera kukambidwa mwatsatanetsatane mukamacheza koyambirira.
Nkhaniyi ndiyokhudza kumvetsetsa ndi kuvomereza. Zatengera makolo onse kukambirana ndikuvomera pa zonse nkhani zakulera pambuyo pa chisudzulo chisanachitike chisudzulo.
Kumbukirani kuti ana anu sindiwo ali ndi udindo wopanga chisankho pa chisudzulo. Sayeneranso kukumana ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi mavuto akuluakulu.
Musawaike pamtundu wosankha pakati pa makolo, kusankha yemwe ali woyenera kapena wolakwika, kapena komwe akufuna kukhala.
Kulemera kwa zisankhozi, komanso kudziimba mlandu komanso nkhawa zomwe zimakhala nawo, ndi zolemetsa kwambiri kwa ana.
Ubwino wa lingaliro lamabuku
Kugwiritsa ntchito buku la nkhani lomwe lidalembedweratu kupereka nkhani zakusudzulana kwa ana anu sikungokuthandizani kuti mumvetse momwe mungalankhulire modekha ndi ana anu za chisudzulo, koma Ilinso ndi maubwino ambiri kwa aliyense m'banjamo.
Ubwino wa lingaliro lamabuku ndi awa:
- Mumayamba ndikuphatikiza makolo onse patsamba limodzi ndi mapangano othetsa njira zokambirana za makolo ndi akatswiri
- Mwapanga kalembedwe, chifukwa chake simuyenera kuchita chibwibwi pokambirana
- Ana anu amatha kuwerenga mobwerezabwereza m'masiku ndi miyezi ikubwerayi pakafunsidwa mafunso, kapena adzafunika kulimbikitsidwa
- Simuyenera kukhala ndi mayankho onse pomwe mumalankhula ndi ana
- Mukugwiritsa ntchito mawu ogwirizana, ozikidwa pamtima, ophatikizira, kotero kuti chisudzulo chomwe chikubwera sichikumveka ngati chowopsa, chowopsa, kapena chowopsa
- Mukukhalanso chitsanzo chabwino ndipo mukukhazikitsa maziko osudzulana okhudzana ndi ana momwe aliyense amapambana
- Makolo onse awiri ali ndi chidwi cholimbikitsana kuti azilankhulana bwino, mwaulemu komanso mogwirizana
- Mabanja ena amapitiliza buku la nkhani pambuyo pa chisudzulo ndi zithunzi zatsopano ndi ndemanga ngati kupitiliza kwa moyo wabanja
- Ana ena amatenga bukuli kuchokera kunyumba ndi nyumba ngati bulangeti yachitetezo
Mauthenga 6 ofunikira makolo ana amafunika kumva
Kodi ndi mauthenga ati ofunikira kwambiri omwe mukufuna kufalitsa mu buku lanu la nkhani?
Awa ndi mfundo zisanu ndi chimodzi zomwe ndikukhulupirira kuti ndizofunikira, mothandizidwa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi akatswiri asanu ndi m'modzi amisala omwe ndidawafunsa pasadakhale.
1. Uku sikulakwa kwanu.
Ana amadziimba mlandu makolo akakhumudwa. Ana ayenera kudziwa kuti ndi osalakwa ndipo sayenera kudzudzulidwa pamlingo uliwonse.
2. Amayi ndi abambo adzakhala makolo anu nthawi zonse.
Ana amafunika kulimbikitsidwa kuti, ngakhale banja litatha, tidakali banja. Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri ngati wokondedwa wina ali pachithunzichi!
3. Mudzakondedwa nthawi zonse ndi amayi ndi abambo.
Ana amatha kukhala ndi mantha kuti m'modzi mwa makolo awo kapena onse awasudzule mtsogolo. Amafuna kuwatsimikizira mobwerezabwereza makolo za nkhawa imeneyi.
Akumbutseni ana anu pafupipafupi za momwe mayi ndi bambo amawakondera nthawi zonse, ngakhale atasudzulana. Mtsogolomu. Amafuna kuwatsimikizira mobwerezabwereza makolo za nkhawa imeneyi.
4. Izi ndizokhudza kusintha, osati za mlandu.
Yang'anani pazosintha zonse zomwe zimachitika m'moyo: nyengo, masiku okumbukira kubadwa, masukulu akusukulu, magulu amasewera.
Fotokozani uku ndikusintha kwamabanja athu - koma tidakali banja komabe. Onetsani mgwirizano wogwirizana popanda chiweruzo. Ino si nthawi yodzudzula kholo linalo chifukwa chothetsa banja.!
5. Ndinu ndipo mudzakhala otetezeka nthawi zonse.
Kusudzulana kumatha kusokoneza chitetezo cha mwana. Ayenera kuwatsimikizira kuti moyo upitirira, ndipo mudakalipo kuti muwathandize kuzolowera zosinthazo.
6. Zinthu zidzayenda bwino.
Adziwitseni ana anu kuti makolo onse akuchita zomwe akufuna kuti zichitike kwa achikulire kuti zonse zikhala bwino milungu, miyezi, ndi zaka zomwe zikubwera.
Kenako tulukanipo ndikuchita zosankha zokhwima, zodalirika, zachifundo m'malo mwawo podziyika nokha ndi kuwalimbikitsa zosowa zawo zamaganizidwe ndi malingaliro.
Osalankhula zoyipa zakuti posachedwa mudzakhala wokwatirana ndi ana anu mosasamala zaka zawo. Mchitidwewu umapangitsa mwana aliyense kumva kuti ayenera kutenga mbali, ndipo ana amadana ndi kutenga mbali.
Zimapangitsanso kuti azidziona ngati olakwa ngati amakonda kholo linalo. Pamapeto pake, ana amayamikira ndikudzimva otetezeka ndi kholo lomwe silimayang'ana za kholo linalo.
Nthawi zambiri ndimauza makasitomala anga ophunzitsa, "Ngati simukanakhala ndi banja losangalala, khalani ndi banja losangalala."
Izi zimakwaniritsidwa bwino pakuchita zochitika zanu zonse molingana ndi zomwe zili zoona 'zabwino kwambiri kwa onse.'
Ngati simukudziwa zomwe zingatanthauze banja lanu, pezani thandizo la akatswiri. Simudzanong'oneza bondo chifukwa chosankha mwanzeru.