Zamkati
- Limbikitsani maanja kuti azichita misonkhano momasuka komanso moona mtima
- 1. Muuzeni mnzanu musanamufotokozere za banja lanu
- 2. Khalani osapita m'mbali komanso oona mtima
- 3. Yembekezerani kumvera chisoni, apo ayi musatalikirane
- 4. Musamadzinamize
- 5. Pezani thandizo
Chimodzi mwamafunso omwe makasitomala amafunsira, omwe akuyamba chibwenzi chatsopano, nthawi zambiri amafunsa momwe mungauzire mnzanu watsopano za zovuta ndi zovuta zomwe mumakumana nazo osawakhumudwitsa kapena kuwawopseza.
Ndi liti pamene mumawauza kuti amayi anu atha kuthetsa banja lawo lachitatu, abambo anu ndi chidakwa chomwe chikuyambiranso ndipo mwataya m'bale wanu pangozi yagalimoto?
Limbikitsani maanja kuti azichita misonkhano momasuka komanso moona mtima
Akatswiri akuwonetsa kuti kulimbikitsa malo omwe amalimbikitsa kuwona mtima ndikuwonekera poyera ndi njira yabwino yoyambira chibwenzi chatsopano. Kukhala womasuka, woona mtima komanso wosatetezeka kumalimbikitsa wokondedwa wanu kuchita chimodzimodzi.
Kusakhulupirirana komwe kumayambitsidwa ndi kusakhulupirika kapena kubisa chidziwitso chofunikira kumatha kuwononga maziko olimba omwe mabanja ambiri akuyesetsa kuti apange. Kukhazikitsa zovuta zam'banja ndi zovuta kumabwera mophweka ngati chikhalidwe cha kuwona mtima chakhazikitsidwa kale muubwenzi.
Maanja akuyenera kukhala ndi misonkhano yanthawi zonse, pafupifupi mwezi uliwonse ndipo makamaka kawiri pamlungu kuti awone ngati ali pachibwenzi. Kufunsa mafunso ngati - 'Kodi zikuyenda bwanji? Kodi pali chilichonse chomwe mukuda nkhawa, kapena chomwe tiyenera kukambirana? ', Zimathandizira kulimbikitsa kukambirana momasuka za zovuta zonse ndi kupambana komwe maanja amakhala nako pamaubwenzi awo.
Sachedwa kwambiri kuyamba izi ndipo nthawi zina kukumana ndi banja ndi mwayi wabwino kuyamba. Pansipa pali malangizo othandizira kutsegula kukambiranako -
1. Muuzeni mnzanu musanamufotokozere za banja lanu
Ngati mukufuna kudziwitsa mnzanu ku banja lanu, auzeni zomwe mukufuna ndikukambirana nawo zambiri za banja lanu kuti ziwakonzekeretse ndikuwathandiza kukhala omasuka.
Kukhazikitsa nthawi yoti mulankhule kapena kuyambitsa izi mwachilengedwe mukakhala bwino ndi njira zabwino.
Chitani izi osachepera masiku angapo pasadakhale kuti mnzanu akhale ndi nthawi yoganizira izi ndikufunsa mafunso mtsogolo.
2. Khalani osapita m'mbali komanso oona mtima
Khalani achindunji komanso owonamtima, osavala zinthu za shuga chifukwa mnzanu atha kuphunzira kuti asakukhulupirirani.
Izi ndi zowononga kwambiri kuposa zomwe mungakhale ndi nkhawa kuyamba nazo.
3. Yembekezerani kumvera chisoni, apo ayi musatalikirane
Kumbukirani kuti anthu ambiri adataya mabanja awo, uchidakwa, kusudzulana ndi zina zotero. Mnzanu wabwino nthawi zonse amamvetsetsa izi ndikukhala womvera komanso wolimbikitsa kwa inu.
Koma, ngati alephera kumvetsa ululu wanu, ndiye kuti ndi belu lokuchenjezani za iwo komanso mwayi wanu wokhala ndiubwenzi wokhalitsa nawo.
4. Musamadzinamize
Kudzinenera nokha ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zoyipa kwambiri zomwe mungachite muubwenzi, makamaka koyambirira.
Abwenzi amadzinamiza, kusocheretsedwa, ndi kukwiya zomwe pamapeto pake zimapangitsa ubalewo kukhala wovuta kuyambira pachiyambi.
Dziwani kuti ndinu ndani komanso komwe mwachokera. Izi ndizomwe mukufuna kukhala pachibwenzi.
5. Pezani thandizo
Ngati pali zinthu zina zokhudza inu zomwe zimakuchititsani manyazi kapena kukupatsani zifukwa zochitira manyazi, kupeza chithandizo pamikhalidwe yotere ndi chinthu cholimba mtima kwambiri chomwe mungachite.
Izi ndichakuti zikuthandizani kuposa kukhala osakhulupirika pachibwenzi.