Zamkati
Kukhala wosewera limodzi ndi mnzanu kungathandize kwambiri kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino.
Ndiye, nchiyani chimapangitsa maubale kugwira ntchito?
Anthu ambiri omwe ali pabanja mosangalala nthawi zambiri amati "kuchitira zinthu limodzi" ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuti banja likhale losangalala. Ambiri aife tivomereza kuti tikufuna kutumiza uthenga kwa anzathu kuti tili kumbali yawo. Ukwati uli pafupi kukhala mgwirizano. Kugwilizana pamodzi muukwati ndikofunika kwambiri kuti banja likhale losangalala ndi labwino.
Popeza kukhala limodzi ndi mnzanu kumatha kusintha kwambiri ubale wanu ndi mnzanu, muyenera kuwerenga kuti mupeze njira zabwino zowonetsera mgwirizano ndi mgwirizano muukwati wanu komanso kukhala wosewera limodzi muubwenzi.
Malangizo momwe mungakhalire ogwirizana pachibwenzi
Maso ali otseguka
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti nthawi zambiri anthu amakhala ndi chidziwitso chambiri akamayang'ana limodzi ndi munthu yemwe akumumverayo.
Kutenga nthawi kukhala womvetsera mwachidwi sikungokuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso chofunikira kwambiri chomwe mnzanu akuyesera kuti alankhule nanu koma kungakhale ndi phindu lalikulu popewa kusamvana kwanu mtsogolo.
Sikuti kulumikizana kumangokulira bwino, konse, kuchokera pakumvetsera mwachidwi, koma kumatsimikizira mnzanu kuti mumamuganizira.
Gawani maudindo kutengera luso
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti maanja nthawi zambiri amalankhula bwino pakugwira ntchito zapakhomo akapatsidwa ntchito kutengera umunthu wawo.
M'malo moyesa kugawana maudindo, mofananamo, mungafune kusamalira madera ena, bola ngati aliyense wa inu ali wokhutira komanso womasuka ndi zomwe akufunsidwa kuti muchite. Kugwirira ntchito limodzi muubwenzi kumafunikira kulumikiza zolinga, kukulitsa chifundo ndi kumvana.
Anthu nthawi zambiri amalankhula kuti ali ndi nthawi yosavuta yopanga zizolowezi zopindulitsa ngati awona kuti achita bwino.
Sewerani nthawi yomweyo
Amuna ndi akazi ambiri nthawi zambiri amawauza kuti akukakamizidwa kuti azisangalala limodzi ndi akazi awo. Zosangalatsa zanu zosiyanasiyana, komabe, nthawi zambiri zimasangalatsidwa mukakhala ndi mnzanu, ngakhale mutakhala kuti mukuchita zosiyana.
Mwachitsanzo, maanja ambiri osangalala akuti amachita zinthu zofananira nthawi yomweyo monga kuwerenga pabedi pomwe mnzake akuwonera TV pamutu, kuti asasokoneze amene akuwerenga. Kukhala wothandizana m'banja kumafuna kuti mukhale waluso.
Pali njira zambiri zopangira zojambula kuti muzitha kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza wina ndi mnzake mukuchita zinthu zosiyanasiyana.
Kuyesetsa kupeza njira zopezera wina ndi mnzake kukhala osangalala ndikusangalala ndi kusiyana kwanu, limodzi, zitha kulimbikitsa kulumikizana.
Momwe mungakhalire ogwirizana ndi wokondedwa wanu, osafuna kuti mnzanuyo azinyalanyaza zokonda zawo chifukwa choti mukuchita china chake atha kutumiza uthenga woti mukufuna kuti aliyense akhale wosangalala komanso wofunitsitsa kugwira ntchito limodzi kuti apeze njira chitani chomwecho.
Zochita zamagulu zamaanja
Malo ogwirira ntchito angapo amatsimikizira kufunikira kwakumanga magulu kuti alimbikitse mgwirizano wamagulu ndi zokolola. Kaya ndikuthekera kolumikizana bwino, kuthandizana pulojekiti ndikulimbikitsa anzanu, ntchito zomanga magulu zimapanga ntchito yabwino.
Momwemonso, zochita za maanja zitha kudabwitsa banja. Pali zochitika zingapo zogwirizana za anthu apabanja zomwe zingapangitse chidwi chanu kwa wina ndi mnzake ndikupangitsa kuti mukhale osangalala komanso okondana m'moyo wanu wabanja.
Zosankha pazochita zomanga timagulu ta anthu apabanja ndizosatha!
- Kulingalira bwino muukwati kumathandizira kukulitsa chifundo, kumvera ena chisoni, ndi mgwirizano m'banja. Kuchita yoga kapena kusinkhasinkha pamodzi ingakhale yankho lanu ku funso loti, "momwe mungagwirire ntchito limodzi ndi mnzanu."
- Pezani zabwino za kuyenda ngati banja. Nthawi zina, chisangalalo cha moyo chimafika kwa inu ndipo mumasiyidwa osaphunzitsidwa za zinthu ndi moyo wamba. Kuyenda ndikosangalatsa komanso njira yothandiza kwambiri yopezera mphamvu, kudzaza moyo wanu, kukhazika mtima pansi ndikukhazikitsanso ubale wanu ndi mnzanu. Chifukwa chake, tulukani kumalo anu abwino ndikukhala limodzi.
- Kuchita ntchito zachifundo kapena zodzifunira yomwe ili pafupi ndi mtima wanu ndi njira yabwino yopezera malingaliro, kuyandikira wina ndi mnzake ndikuwonetsa kufunika kothokoza komanso kukhutira m'moyo. Kugwirira ntchito chifukwa kungabweretsenso kufanana kwa tanthauzo m'moyo.
- Kuphunzira mtundu watsopano wovina kapena kutenga nawo mbali kuphika limodzi, Zitha kuthandizira kwambiri pakuthandizira mgwirizano. Mumaphunzira kusankha zinsinsi, mayankho ndikuyesetsa moona mtima kuti mugwire ntchito limodzi ndi anzanu ena ndi chidwi chanu chonse.
- Kugonana komanso kukondana kumatha kutenga mpando wakumbuyo m'moyo wanu, kusiya malo ocheperako kapena malo osangalalira ndi mnzanu. Ngati ndandanda yanu ndiyothinana kwambiri kuti musakwanitse kutenga thumba, muyenera kulemba pensulo sabata iliyonse kuti mugonane, kukonzekera kugonana ndi njira imodzi yabwino yoyesera zinthu zatsopano pakati pa mapepala, yesetsani, ndipo sangalalani ndi mnzanu pabedi pamene mukulemba nthawi yabwino pamodzi.
- Momwe mungakhalire ogwirizana ndi mnzanu, imodzi mwamalangizo ozizira kwambiri ndikupanga fayilo ya kudzisamalira chizolowezi cha nonsenu, komwe mumachita masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kupanga DIY spa kunyumba.
Malangizo awa okhalira wosewera limodzi muubwenzi angakuthandizeni kukhazikitsa mzimu wothandizana muukwati, kukulitsa mphamvu zanu zogonana, kuwona kusewera wina ndi mnzake, komanso kukulolani kuti muphunzire, kukula, ndikusintha limodzi.