Zamkati
- Zinthu zofunika kuziganizira musanakhale ndi mwana
- Momwe mungakonzekerere banja lanu kuti mukhale ndi pakati
- Mavuto aukwati nthawi yapakati
- Musanakhale ndi mwana - GANIZIRANI & Phunzirani !!!
Tikuyembekeza kuwonjezera kwatsopano kwa banja ndizosangalatsa. Ndi chochitika chachikulu muukwati uliwonse. Komabe, nthawi zonse awiri zimawavuta kwambiri kuti kuthana ndi mimba muukwati.
Matenda azaumoyo monga zovuta zamankhwala nthawi yapakati ndiabwino. Kwa amayi ambiri oyembekezera, kutenga mimba kumawadzaza ndi chisokonezo, mantha, chisoni, nkhawa, kupsinjika, komanso ngakhale kukhumudwa.
Zotere kusinthasintha kwakanthawi ya amayi achichepere amatha kusokoneza thanzi lam'mutu ndi thanzi la munthu aliyense ndipo zimakhudza banja lawo.
Komanso, werengani - Amuna amasamalira akazi awo; zilakolako za mimba
Tsopano, kutenga mimba msanga mu chibwenzi angathe zimadzetsa mantha mwa amayi achichepere, omwe ndi maluso oyenera oyankhulirana omwe amatha kuchokapo.
Koma ndikuyang'ana mbali yowala kwambiri ya chithunzicho, kumanga banja limodzi ili kutali kwambiri ndi zodabwitsa kwambiri kukumana nazo ndi munthu wina.
Ngakhale ndizodabwitsa, kuyembekezera mwana ilinso yesa. Maanja omwe ali ndi mwana amakhala ndi nkhawa. Amafuna kukhala makolo abwino, kuteteza mwana kukhala wotetezeka, ndikukonzekera kubwera kwake.
Koma ...
Mimba ndi banja zitha kubweretsa mavuto m'banjamo.
Mavuto ndizofala, makamaka mukamakhala ndi pakati paukwati, koma mukamayembekezera mwana, imeneyo iyenera kukhala nthawi yoti mubwere pamodzi.
Zinthu zofunika kuziganizira musanakhale ndi mwana
"Ndi mphamvu yayikulu imabwera ndiudindo waukulu," mawu / malangizo odziwika omwe Ben Parker adapereka kwa Spiderman wachichepere amalankhula zambiri zaudindo womwe makolo omwe akuyenera kukhala nawo ayenera kuchita.
Kukhala mayi sichoperewera kutenga udindo wa mkazi wapamwamba. Koma, funso nlakuti, kodi ndinu okonzeka kuthana ndi mimba muukwati? Akuluakulu amati atakwanitsa zaka makumi atatu, mwayi wokhala ndi pakati umachepa kwa amayi.
Komanso, werengani - Mimba yodabwitsa pa 40
Mwayi wopita padera, kupunduka kwa kubadwa, ndi zovuta zina zaumoyo zimawonjezeka poyembekezera amayi okalamba.
Koma, kupeza ali ndi pakati msanga mu chibwenzi angathe pangani kusiyana pakati pa awiriwa, zomwe zimabweretsa chisudzulo, nthawi zina.
Komabe, pali zinthu zambiri zofunika kuziganizira musanakhale ndi mwana. Chifukwa chake, musalole kuti chenjezo la amayi anu lifike pamtima panu. Mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti nthawi yanu yokhala mayi siyikutha. Kafukufuku wa 2017 akuwonetsa kuchuluka kwa kubadwa kwa azaka zapakati pa 30-34.
Chifukwa chake, musanayambe kuganiza zokhala ndi mwana, mungaganizirenso mfundo zotsatirazi -
- Kodi mwamaliza maphunziro anu?
- Kodi ndinu wachuma?
- Kodi ndinu oyenera mwakuthupi / mwamalingaliro kuti mukhale mayi?
- Kodi ndinu okonzeka kuthana ndi mimba muukwati?
- Kodi mudakali ndi ntchito yoti muchite?
Mayankho a funso pamwambapa akufotokoza chifukwa chake muyenera kudikira kuti mukhale ndi mwana.
Mukakhala zana motsimikiza kuti mwakonzeka kukhala mayi, muyenera kutero yambani kukonzekera kuti lowetsani gawo lotsatira za moyo wanu, mwachitsanzo, umayi. Ndipo sitepe yoyamba yopita ku umayi ndiyo yambani kudzudzula ukwati wanu ndipo konzekerani molingana.
Momwe mungakonzekerere banja lanu kuti mukhale ndi pakati
Sakani "kukonzekera mimba yanu" ndipo mupeza kuti pali upangiri wambiri kunjaku. Zosiyanasiyana ndizabwino, koma kukonzekera ukwati wanu wamwana kumakhala kosavuta.
Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa kuti padzakhala zovuta zing'onozing'ono (kutenga pakati kumatha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo). Mukubweretsa moyo padziko lapansi! Amuna ndi akazi amayankha mosiyana ku nkhani yakukhala makolo.
Mkazi akaphunzira kuti ali ndi mwana panjira, nthawi yomweyo amapita kwa amayi pamene amuna amafuna kupereka ndikuyamba kuyang'anitsitsa zachuma chifukwa cha izi.
Komanso, werengani - Udindo wofunikira wa abambo panthawi yoyembekezera
Kuti mukonzekere banja lanu, dzipereka kuyankhula nthawi iliyonse pamene wina ali ndi vuto, khalani ndi nthawi yabwino limodzi, gwiranani ntchito limodzi, ndi kupanga mfundo kwa sungani zinthu zachikondi.
Nthawi zina kukula Zolinga za makolo zimapangitsa kuti chikondi chisokonezeke. Khalani ndi masiku, khalani ndi nthawi tsiku lililonse yolankhula, ndikuchitira mwana zinthu monga kukongoletsa nazale, kuti muchepetse mavuto omwe amabwera mukakhala ndi pakati m'banja.
Mavuto aukwati nthawi yapakati
Moyo ungakhale wopepuka komanso wosakhazikika mukafunika kuthana ndi mimba mbanja. Ndipo, mumaganiza kuti 'kukhala mayi' ndizovuta?
Pali zochitika zina zomwe zidalipo kale maukwati zimapitilira mpaka pakati. Zachidziwikire, izi sizabwino, koma mavuto a m'banja pa mimba kuyenera kuchitiridwa posachedwa pomwe pangathekele.
Pamene banja likuyembekezera kukhala ndi mwana, nkofunika kuti abwere pamodzi chifukwa cha banja komanso mwanayo. Mutha kuyika zinthu molongosoka mukatha kukambirana kwambiri ndi mnzanuyo kapena pewani chochitika chonse choyipa kuti musawongolere pochita zofunikira.
Kupatula apo, ino ndi nthawi yokonda moyo, osati kukangana.
Ngati mukuyenera kuthana ndi mimba m'banja ngati pro, ganizirani izi:
- Yambitsani kukambirana - Kuthetsa mavuto aliwonse ndi kuchepetsa mavuto poyambitsa zokambirana.
- Oona Mtima - Khalani owona mtima ndipo muuzeni mnzanu zomwe zikukuvutitsani ndikuwalimbikitsani kuti nawonso azichita zomwezo.
- Konzani vutoli nthawi yomweyo - Muzu wavuto ukaululika, konzani.
- Konzani zochita - Bwerani limodzi ndi pulani yoti muchite limodzi, dziperekeni, ndipo gwirani ntchito kufikira mutapeza chigamulo.
Onaninso: Malangizo a abambo oyamba nthawi yapakati.
Musanakhale ndi mwana - GANIZIRANI & Phunzirani !!!
Ndi osavuta kuthana ndi mimba muukwati. Udindo wolera mwana wakhanda uli m'manja mwa makolo onse awiri. Osati amayi okha, komanso a mwanayo abambo nawonso ayenera kusintha moyo wawo ndikudzipereka kusamalira wakhanda pamodzi ndi mkazi wake monga gulu.
Chifukwa chake, osayesezera kukhala 'mamuna wodzikonda' panthawi yapakati, m'malo mwake, limbana phewa ndi phewa ndi mkazi wako kuti muthandizire banja lanu.
Tivomerezane; Banja lililonse limakhala ndi mavuto ochepa. Koma, kuphunzira momwe mungachitire ndi pakati paukwati m'banja kungakuthandizeni kudutsa gawo lovutali la moyo. Ndi kwathunthu kwa inu ndi mnzanu ku sungani maziko.