Zamkati
- Kusudzulana kosatsutsidwa
- Mgwirizano wapabanja
- Osalakwitsa kusudzulana
- Nthawi yozizira
- Kulemba ntchito loya
- Woyang'anira ntchito
- Posakhalitsa bwino:
- Kutumiza Kusudzulana
Chifukwa chake, banja lanu silikuyenda ndipo mukufuna chisudzulo. Ndizabwino kwambiri kusiya banja lomwe lalephera koma zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri zimawoneka ngati zovuta. Kusudzulana sikophweka, kwamaganizidwe ndi zachuma. Zitha kukhala ndi gawo lokhalitsa pachuma chanu ngati mungachite cholakwika. Komabe, pali njira zina zoperekera chisudzulo mwachangu.
Mukuganiza kuti 'ndingapeze bwanji banja mwachangu' - popeza zimangowononga ndalama zambiri masiku ano? Pali njira zosavuta komanso zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti banja lanu lolephera mosavuta komanso lopanda kanthu m'thumba lanu.
Tiyeni tiwone mwachidule njirazi.
Kusudzulana kosatsutsidwa
Njira imodzi yosudzulana mwachangu ndikusankha kusudzulana kosatsutsidwa. Zikatere, mnzanuyo timagwirizana pazosudzulana popanda vuto lililonse. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mwathetsa vuto lalikulu pakusudzulana kwanu, kukhazikika.
Izi zikachitika, kupeza chisudzulo kumakhala kosavuta ndipo zimachitika mwachangu. Ndikulimbikitsidwa kuti muwone tsamba la zamalamulo aboma kuti mumve zambiri. Muyenera kulengeza zinthu zina monga katundu wanu ndi ndalama zanu, koma ndi gawo la njirayi.
Mgwirizano wapabanja
Palibe amene amayembekeza kusudzulana akakwatirana. Komabe, popeza simungadziwe zamtsogolo, ndibwino kuti mukonzekere.
Kukhala ndi mgwirizano wapabanja musanakwatirane kumatha kukupulumutsirani ndalama komanso nthawi. Imatchulidwanso kagawidwe ka chuma ngati banja litha.
Ikufotokozanso chifukwa chothetsera banja ndi momwe adzachitire. Chifukwa chake, kukhala nazo kumatanthauza kuti mwakhazikika pazonse musanapulumutse nthawi yasudzulana.
Osalakwitsa kusudzulana
Ngati maanja sakufuna kukhala limodzi sizomveka kuwapatsa nthawi kuti aganizirenso chisankho chawo. Kusudzulana kosalakwitsa kumatha kufulumizitsa ntchitoyi ngati simukufuna kukhala ndi mnzanu chifukwa chakusiyana kwanu.
Mukasungitsa chisudzulo chopanda cholakwika nonse mumavomereza kuti palibe chomwe chingachitike kukonzanso zinthu. Nonse mwaganiza kuti musakhale limodzi ndipo khothi silingakufunseni kuti muganizirenso chisankho chanu.
Izi zithandizira kwambiri chisudzulo ndipo mudzachipeza mwachangu momwe mungathere.
Nthawi yozizira
Ngati mukufunsa kuti 'ndingapeze bwanji chisudzulo chofulumira' ndiye yang'anani nthawi yozizira mdziko lanu. Dziko lililonse limakhala ndi nyengo yozizira yosiyana. Ena amakhala nawo miyezi 6 pomwe ena amapitilira chaka. Musanadzaze chisudzulo ndibwino kuti muziyang'ana nyengo yozizira mdziko lanu.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti nthawi yozizira ndiyabwino kuposa zomwe mumafunikira kuposa kufunafuna mwayi woti muthe kusudzulana kudera lina.
Funsani katswiri kuti muwone ngati mungapeze njira yochokeramo. Kupatula apo, zilibe tanthauzo kungokhala ndi munthu chifukwa cha izi.
Kulemba ntchito loya
Pali maloya ndi maloya odzipereka osudzulana.
Ngakhale mutha kuganiza zosunga ndalama posalemba ntchito maloya, kuchita zina kungafulumizitse ntchitoyi.
Amadziwa zomwe zingakhale zabwino kwa nonse komanso momwe mungathetsere banja posachedwa. Chifukwa chake, yang'anani woyimira mlandu wabwino ndikuwapatsa ntchito. Khalani oona mtima nawo ndikugawana zambiri zakanthawi kuti izi zithandizire.
Woyang'anira ntchito
Oyimira pakati amabwera pamene simukufuna kupita kukhothi ndipo simukufuna kulembetsa loya. Amadziwa malamulo aboma osudzulana ndipo amatha kukuthandizani kuti mugwirizane popanda lamulo.
Mukangogwirizana chimodzi ndiye kuti musudzulana mwachangu. Nthawi zonse ndibwino kuti muthetse mgwirizano musanapite kukhoti kukapereka chisudzulo. Izi zimapulumutsa maola amunthu ndipo zimakuthandizani kuti musudzulane mwachangu.
Posakhalitsa bwino:
Pali malamulo ena aboma omwe amalola kuti mabanja achichepere athetse banja nthawi yomweyo kuposa anzawo achikulire. Izi ndichifukwa choti maanja achichepere amakhala ndi zinthu zazing'ono zoti angakhalire.
Chifukwa chake, mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, ngati mwangokwatirana ndikuwona kuti banja lanu silikhala nthawi yayitali chifukwa cha kusiyana komwe kumalamulira moyo wanu wabanja, ndibwino kuti muchoke mwachangu.
Kuupatsa nthawi yolingalira ndikukhala ndi chiyembekezo chosatheka kudzapangitsa kuchedwa kusudzulana.
Kutumiza Kusudzulana
Lero, mutha kulemberana maimidwe osudzulana mosavuta. Yang'anani pa tsamba lawebusayiti yanu ndikulemba fomu. Tumizani ndi chikalata choyenera ndipo ndi zomwezo. Ndiwotsika mtengo komanso mwachangu. Zimagwira bwino ntchito pamene onse awiri agwirizana kuti athetse mgwirizano.
Khothi silikufuna kuti nonse mukhale limodzi ngati simukufuna. Mukadzaza fomu yamtunduwu mukukonza ndondomekoyi ndikusunga nthawi kuti mupeze woyimira milandu woyenera.
Anthu ambiri amayang'ana njira zothetsera 'kusudzulana mwachangu?'. Ndizabwino kufunafuna mayankho popeza ndizopanda tanthauzo kukhala ndi munthu wina pomwe mukudziwa kuti nonse simungakhale limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali. Kusudzulana mwachangu kumakupatsani nthawi yokwanira kuti muyambirenso moyo wanu. Malingaliro omwe atchulidwawa adzakuthandizani ngati mukufuna kutuluka muubwenzi womwe walephera mwachangu.