Zamkati
- Chitani chilungamo
- Pangani banja lanu kukhala patsogolo
- Lemekezani ubale wawo ndi amayi awo
- Yamikirani zinthu zazing'ono
- Sankhani zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri
- Khalani nawo
- Sinthani zoyembekezera zanu
Kukhala mayi wopeza ndi vuto lalikulu kuposa ena onse. Ikhozanso kukhala chokumana nacho chopindulitsa modabwitsa. Ngati mungapeze njira yothanirana ndi zovuta zomwe mutha kulimbitsa ubale wolimba ndi ana amzanu ndikukhala banja logwirizana.
Kukhala mayi wopeza sichimachitika mwadzidzidzi. Zimatengera kuleza mtima ndi kudzipereka kuti ubale watsopano uzigwira ntchito. Ndi kwachibadwa kuti malingaliro azisangalalanso mbali zonse ziwiri, ndipo chibwenzicho chimatha kuyamba msanga.
Ngati ndinu amayi opeza kapena mukufuna kukhala m'modzi, nazi maupangiri okuthandizani kuyendetsa gawo lanu latsopanoli popanda kuda nkhawa momwe mungathere.
Chitani chilungamo
Kuchita zinthu mosakondera n’kofunika kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino ndi ana opeza, makamaka ngati muli kale ndi ana anu. Khalani pansi ndi bwenzi lanu ndipo muvomereze malamulo oyendetsera limodzi ndi malangizo kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino kwa aliyense wokhudzidwayo. Ngati nonse muli ndi ana, ndikofunikira kuti aliyense azikhala ndi malamulo ofanana, malangizo, gawo, nthawi yochita zosangalatsa ndi zina zambiri.
Kukhala wachilungamo kumathandiza kukhazikitsa maziko olimba a ubale wanu watsopano ndi ana opeza.
Pangani banja lanu kukhala patsogolo
Banja limatenga nthawi ndikudzipereka, makamaka pakusintha kwakukulu. Kukhala banja lopeza ndi kusintha kwakukulu kwa aliyense. Tsopano kuposa kale lonse, ana anu opeza amafuna kuti banja lanu likhale lofunika kwambiri. Khalani nawo nthawi yambiri ndikuwathandiza kuti awone kuti amakukondani.
Dziwani kuti mwina sangawonetse kuyamika kwawo nthawi zonse - ino ndi nthawi yovuta ndipo atenga nthawi kuti akuchezereni - koma muziwapanga kukhala oyamba zivute zitani.
Lemekezani ubale wawo ndi amayi awo
Ana anu opeza angaope kuti mukuyesa kulanda amayi awo, ndipo sakufuna mayi watsopano. Ali ndi amayi omwe amawakonda. Mutha kuthana ndi mavuto ambiri mtsogolo mwa kulemekeza ubale wawo ndi amayi awo.
Auzeni momveka bwino kuti simukuyesa kulowa m'malo mwa Amayi awo kapena kubwereza ubale wawo ndi iwo. Mukumvetsetsa kuti zomwe ali nazo ndizapadera komanso zapadera - mukuyang'ana kuti mupange ubale wanu nawo. Lolani ubale watsopanowo ukhale wogwirizana nawo.
Pewani chiyeso chilichonse chonena zoipa za amayi awo, ndipo limbikitsani abambo awo kuchita zomwezo. Konzekerani mgwirizano ndi ulemu, osatenga nawo mbali pamphwando.
Yamikirani zinthu zazing'ono
Pakusintha ubale wapabanja lolera komanso zovuta zonse zomwe zimabwera nawo, ndikosavuta kutaya tsamba lazinthu zazing'ono.
Mwinamwake mmodzi wa ana opeza anu anakukumbatirani musanapite kusukulu. Mwinanso anapempha kuti awathandize homuweki kapena anasangalala kukufotokozerani za tsiku lawo. Zinthu zazing'ono izi ndizizindikiro kuti akuphunzira kukukhulupirirani ndikuyamikira zomwe mumapereka m'miyoyo yawo. Mphindi iliyonse yolumikizirana ndi kulumikizana ndiyapadera.
Zingamveke zopanda pake ngati pali mikangano ndi zinthu zazikulu zoti muchite, koma popita nthawi mphindi zazing'onozo zimapanga ubale wachikondi komanso womasuka.
Sankhani zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri
Mukamayesetsa kukhala mayi wopeza, mupeza kuti pali zinthu zambiri zoti mukambirane ndikusankha. Kuyambira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito tchuthi mpaka nthawi yogona ndi nthawi yachakudya pazomwe TV ikuwonetsa kuti banja lanu lingawonere, pali zambiri zoti muziganizire.
Zina mwazinthuzi zimatha kudzaza msanga pamene banja lanu latsopanoli lipanga mawonekedwe ake ndi m'mbali mwake. Mutha kuthandizira kukonza zinthu posankha zomwe zimakukhudzani ndikuyang'ana.
Simusowa kuti mupambane mfundo iliyonse - imani pamalo anu pomwe china chake chili chofunikira kwambiri kwa inu, koma khalani okonzeka kunyengerera nanunso. Izi zimapangitsa ana anu opeza kuti nawonso muziyamikira malingaliro awo, ndikuti sizinthu zonse zomwe ziyenera kukhala nkhondo. Kupatula apo, nonse muli mgulu limodzi.
Khalani nawo
Kukhazikika muubwenzi watsopano wokhala kholo ndikovuta. Ana anu opeza akudutsa munthawi yovuta komanso yodetsa nkhawa, ndikusintha kwakukulu kwakukulu. Pakadali pano, akuyenera kudziwa kuti ali ndi anthu omwe angawatembenukire, achikulire omwe adzawathandiza zivute zitani.
Adziweni ana anu opeza kuti munthu wamkulu ameneyo ndi inu. Khalani nawo nthawi zonse, m'masiku abwino ndi oyipa. Kaya ndi vuto lakunyumba kapena kusowa chitetezo chifukwa cha kusintha komwe kukuchitika, adziwitseni kuti mulipo. Pezani nthawi yocheza nawo ndipo ngati ali ndi nkhawa, mvetserani mwatcheru ndikupatsa nkhawa zawo malo ndi ulemu womwe akuyenera.
Sinthani zoyembekezera zanu
Ziyembekezero zosatheka za moyo wanu watsopano zimangobweretsa nkhawa komanso ndewu. Zinthu sizingayende bwino kwambiri, ndipo zili bwino. Mukupezabe malo omwe mungakwaniritse, ndipo ana anu opezawa akupezekabe komwe akufuna kuti mugwirizane nawo. Poyamba, mwina sangakonde kuti mukhale oyenerera.
Kudzakhala masiku abwino ndi masiku oyipa, koma osataya chiyembekezo. Chigawo chilichonse chovuta ndi mwayi wina woti muphunzire ndikukula limodzi, komanso kuti muphunzire zambiri za zosowa za wina ndi mnzake.
Kukhala kholo lopeza si chinthu chanthawi imodzi. Ndi njira yomwe imafunikira kudzipereka, chikondi ndi kuleza mtima. Khalani achilungamo nthawi zonse, achikondi komanso othandizira ndipo perekani ubale wanu watsopano nthawi yakukula ndi pachimake.