Zamkati
- 1. Kusowa chidwi
- 2. Zochitika zidzataya kufunikira kwake
- 3. Kusakhala pachibwenzi
- 4. Kupewa kugonana
- 5. Khalidwe lachinsinsi
- 6. "Ndipatseni malo"
- 7. Zosintha pamachitidwe azachuma
- 8. Wokondedwa wanu sangakhale womasuka kukhala nanu pakati pa anzawo
- 9. Kukonzanso ndi kuthetseratu
- 10. Kudziteteza mopambanitsa
Ndi chibadwa cha anthu kukhulupirira kuti zomwe tili nazo zidzakhala kwamuyaya. Komabe, sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse.
Pali nthawi zina ngakhale kuti chilichonse chikuwoneka kuti ndichabwino, chilichonse chimangogwa popanda chenjezo. Zambiri zimatha kuyambitsa chibwenzi - mabodza, kusamvana, zinsinsi, ndi zina zambiri.
Komabe, zomwe zimawononga ubale ndikubera.
Chomwe chimapangitsa kuti kubera ndi koopsa pachibwenzi ndikuti kumangodalira kukhulupirirana. Nthawi zambiri, zipilala zomwe zimalimbikitsa ubale ndi chikondi, kudalirana, ndi ulemu. Komabe, kubera kumatha kuwononga onse atatu mwamodzi. Kudalirana kukangotha kumene kuchokera pachibwenzi, zimatenga malingaliro achikondi ndi ulemu limodzi.
Tsopano, munthu angatsimikize bwanji kuti mnzake sakuwabera popanda kukhala wokhumudwa kwathunthu? Kodi ndi zizindikiro ziti zomwe mnzanu akupita, kapena wayamba kale kukunamizirani?
Tiyeni tiwone zina mwazizindikiro zomwe zingakuthandizeni.
1. Kusowa chidwi
Mbendera yofiira yoyamba mwina ndiyo kusintha kwa chidwi. Chomwe chidwi cha chidwi cha mnzanu chidzachoka kwa inu kapena zinthu zokhudzana nanu. Zinthu zomwe adaziwona kale kapena kuzisamala mwadzidzidzi ziribe kanthu kwa iwo.
Nthawi zina, amatha kukhala opanda chidwi.M'malo mwake, amangoika chidwi chawo pawokha. Makamaka mawonekedwe awo.
Mutha kuyamba kuwona zamakhalidwe omwe simunawonepo, mwachitsanzo, kusintha kwakukulu pakusankha mafashoni. Kuvala mitundu ndi masitaelo omwe samakonda kale ndikukhala ozindikira momwe akuwonekera. Komabe, mutati mufunse mafunso omwewo, sangasangalale nazo.
2. Zochitika zidzataya kufunikira kwake
Zochitika monga masiku okumbukira kubadwa, zikumbutso, za Valentine, ndi zina zambiri, zidzasiya kufunika kwawo. Zachidziwikire, izi mwina ndi zolakwika.
Komabe, kusiyana pakati pa kulakwitsa kwenikweni ndi kusachita chidwi kudzaonekera. Ngati mnzanu walakwitsa, adzakumverani chisoni ndikuyesetsa kuti mukwaniritse zomwezo.
Ngati sizili choncho, mudzawona malingaliro osasamala komanso kusowa chidwi. Ndipo mkhalidwe wosasamala wawowu ndichimodzi mwazizindikiro khumi zomwe wokondedwa wanu apitako, kapena akunyengerera kale.
3. Kusakhala pachibwenzi
Chomwe chimafotokozanso za kubera ndi kusowa kwaubwenzi wapamtima kwa anzawo.
Atha kumachitabe zachiwerewere; komabe, simungamve ngati "zachikondi" ndi "chikondi" muubwenzi wanu.
4. Kupewa kugonana
Nthawi zina, obera amapewanso kugonana. Iyi ndi njira ina yosonyezera kusowa chidwi kapena kusasamala. Adzayesera kudzipatula pakati pawo. Kodi nchifukwa ninji amachita izi? Ndi chifukwa mwina sangathe kudzithetsa.
Chifukwa chake, kudzipatula ndi njira yotsatira komanso chizindikiro chotsimikizika chakuti wokondedwa wanu akupita kapena akukunyengererani kale.
5. Khalidwe lachinsinsi
Iyi ndi mbendera yonyezimira yofiira, makamaka ngati mnzanuyo anali womasuka kale kwa inu; Chilichonse kuyambira pakompyuta yawo mpaka foni yam'manja sichikhala choletsa.
Amatha kukhumudwa ngakhale mutayesa kufunsa mafunso osavuta monga "Mwaswera bwanji?" kapena "Mukupita ndi ndani?
6. "Ndipatseni malo"
Inde, ichi ndi chinthu china chomwe mungamve.
Mwadzidzidzi wokondedwa wanu akhoza kukhala ndi chidwi chokhala ndi malo akeake. Osati danga lomwe aliyense amafunikira koma mtundu womwe umakutetezani ku moyo wawo.
7. Zosintha pamachitidwe azachuma
Mutha kuzindikira kuti wokondedwa wanu wayamba kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri osati chifukwa choti wakwezedwa. Ayi, izi ziziwonjezeranso ndalama zambiri. Zitha kukhala zovala zatsopano kapena zinthu zodzisamalira, kapena ndalama zina zosadziwika.
Chinthu chimodzi ndalama zonsezi ndizofanana - zidzangoyang'ana kwa wokondedwa wanu yekha.
8. Wokondedwa wanu sangakhale womasuka kukhala nanu pakati pa anzawo
Nthawi zambiri, abwenzi amadziwa zambiri kuposa iwe. Chifukwa chake, kukhala nanu limodzi kungakhale kovuta kwa mnzanu. Mutha kukhala kuti mumva zomwe wokondedwa wanu akufuna kubisa.
Chifukwa chake, ayesa kukusiyanitsani ndi anzawo.
9. Kukonzanso ndi kuthetseratu
Wokondedwa wanu akhoza kukuthandizani nthawi zambiri kapena kukulepheretsani pafupipafupi.
Izi zigwiranso ntchito pamwambo wapadera. Potsirizira pake, amacheza nanu kanthawi kochepa kwambiri, ndipo chilichonse chimabwera nthawi iliyonse mukafuna kusonkhana.
10. Kudziteteza mopambanitsa
Chizindikiro china chomwe onyenga amakonda kuwonetsa ndi chakuti mukamayankhula nawo pazinthu zomwe zatchulidwa pamwambapa, amadzitchinjiriza kwambiri ndikukhala ankhanza.
Palinso kuthekera kwakuti atha kukupalamulirani. Makhalidwe ngati awa nthawi zambiri amawonetsedwa ndi anthu omwe ali ndi chobisa.
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