Ngakhale lero, anthu ambiri sadziwa kusiyana pakati pa "Ndimakukondani" ndi "Ndimakukondani." Ngakhale anthu ambiri amawalakwitsa chifukwa chofanana, ziganizozi sizofanana.
Kukondana ndi wina ndi kukonda wina ndi zinthu ziwiri zosiyana, ndipo ndikofunikira kuti mudziwe kusiyana pakati pa zinthu ziwirizi.
Kutchulidwa pansipa pali kusiyana pakati pakukonda wina ndi kukhala mchikondi:
- Mukakhala mchikondi, mumamufuna munthu ameneyu
- Mukamakonda winawake, mumafunikira munthu ameneyu
Uku ndiye kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kukonda wina ndi kukhala mchikondi. Kukhala mchikondi ndikufuna kukhala ndi mnzake. Ndikukhulupirira kuti munthuyu ndi wodabwitsa kwambiri ndipo mumawafuna m'moyo wanu.
Mukayamba kukondana, mumamva kufunikira koti mumugwiritse ntchito munthu aliyense mwanjira iliyonse.
Mwachidule, kukhala mchikondi ndiko kukhulupirira kuti mukufuna wina kuti akhalebe wosangalala.
Mbali inayi, mukamakonda, simumangowafuna m'moyo wanu, koma mumafunikira. Muyenera kuti munthuyu azikhala mosangalala osati chifukwa choti muli ndi munthuyu koma chifukwa choti mukufuna kuwapatsa gawo lanu.
Chikondi choterechi nthawi zina chimafuna kuti muwasiye ndi kuwamasula.
- Mukakhala mukukondana ndi winawake; Malingaliro anu ali kumapeto
- Pamene mumakonda winawake; Mtima wanu wakhazikika
Mukakondana ndi munthu wina, mumakhala ndi malingaliro okwera omwe simukufuna kutsikirako. Zimakupangitsani kumva ngati kuti mukuyandama pamwamba pamtambo, ndipo simukufuna kusiya. Komabe, apa ndi pomwe vuto lagona; patapita nthawi, mumabwera.
Pamene mumakonda wina, palibe kutengeka kambiri pamenepo. Zimakhudza kwambiri malingaliro.
Mumaganizira za ena anu ofunika ndipo mumawafunira zabwino. Mumawakonda, ndipo zomwe zimabwera chifukwa cha izi ndizongokomera chabe.
Mukadutsa gawo lokondana ndi ena kuti muwakonde, muyenera kusiya kudzimva ndikukonzekera kukwera mafunde ochepa.
- Mukakondana ndi munthu, mumakonzekera kukwaniritsa cholinga
- Mukamakonda wina, cholinga sichilibe kanthu
Izi ndizomwe zimapangitsa kukondana ndi munthu wina kukhala wosangalatsa- mumangolakalaka zambiri. Mukufuna kucheza ndi anzanu ena ndi kuwadziwa bwino. Nthawi zonse mumangoyesetsa kupeza zochulukirapo ndipo mukufuna kupanga chibwenzi chachikulu.
Mukakhala mchikondi, palibe cholinga chomwe chilipo. Zomwe zimapangitsa izi ndikuti wafika kale kumapeto.
Izi nthawi zambiri zimawopsyeza maanja chifukwa nthawi zonse amayembekezera kupita patsogolo. Komabe, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti simungapite patsogolo ndikumanga kena kake kosatha. Chokhacho chomwe mungachite ndikupitiliza kugwira ntchito ndikutsitsimutsa zomwe muli nazo kale.
- Mukakhala pachibwenzi, mumaganiza kuti mumamukonda kwambiri munthuyo kuposa inuyo
- Mukamakonda munthu wina, mumamuganizira kwambiri kuposa momwe mukuganizira
Mukakhala mchikondi, mankhwala omwe ali mkati mwaubongo wanu amakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu wamkulu kwambiri padziko lapansi. Mukhulupirira kuti munthuyu ndiye chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri, ndipo chomvetsa chisoni ndikuti kumverera kumeneku kudzatha pokhapokha mankhwala osangalala atatha.
Kenako mudzasiyidwa mukumva kusokera komanso kusokonezeka.
Kukhala wachikondi kumadziwika mosavuta, koma kukonda, kumbali inayo, sikukupatsa zikumbutso zoterezi. Mukamakondadi wina ndi mnzake, nthawi zopatukana ndi kutayika zimatha kudzaza ndi nkhawa. Mumawakonda kuposa momwe mukuganizira, ndipo kulingalira za moyo wopanda iwo kudzakhala kovuta kwa inu.
Kukonda munthu ndichinthu chomwe chimafotokoza zomwe inu muli.
Mukamakonda winawake, mumayika tchipisi chanu chonse patebulo, mumamuwonetsa makadi anu onse, ndipo mumayembekezera zabwino zonse.
Mumawonetsa munthu wanu mbali yanu yomwe ili pachiwopsezo chachikulu, ndipo tsopano palibe kubweza.
Mukamakondana ndi munthu, mutha kusiya chikondi. Chikondi choterechi chimakupatsani mwayi wokonda mnzanuyo komanso ubalewo. Koma ukamakonda munthu, sungathe kuwona tsogolo popanda iye. Uku ndiye kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kukondana ndi wina ndi kukonda wina.