Zamkati
- Njira 4 zakuwongolera banja lanu osalankhula
- 1. Muzikhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yoganizira kwambiri za mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu
- 2. Kukumbatira mnzako kangapo kasanu ndi kamodzi patsiku
- 3. Ganizirani za zabwino
- 4. Dziperekeni ku zomwe zikuwonetsa chikondi
- Mfundo yofunika
Kusamalira ubale wabwino ndi mnzanu kumatha kukhala kovuta nthawi zina.
Momwe mungaganizire kuti mumakonda wokondedwa wanu, zimangotengera mphindi imodzi kuti kusamvetsetsana pang'ono kuwononge zinthu. Munkhaniyi, tikugawana maupangiri amomwe mungasinthire banja lanu osalankhula za izi.
Pali njira zambiri zosinthira ukwati wanu.
Choyamba, onse mwamwamuna, komanso mkazi, ayenera kukhala okonzeka kupulumutsa banja lawo poika malire awo ndikupatsanso banja lawo mwayi wina.
Kwa mayi yemwe akufuna kuchita mbali yayikulu pakukonzanso ukwati wake, ayenera kuyang'ana momwe angakhalire mkazi wabwino ndikuwongolera banja lanu. Mavuto atha kukhala kuti adayamba ndipo pakapita nthawi, adachuluka kwambiri kotero kuti nthawi yakwana kuti muchitepo kanthu kuti muthe kuthana ndi mavutowo, kuwopa kuti chibwenzicho chimatha.
Akazi ambiri amadandaula za amuna awo, osawapatsa nthawi.
Zikatere, muyenera kudziwa zoyenera kuchita amuna anu akakunyalanyazani. Zingakhale zoopsa kuwona amuna anu akukunyalanyazani. Nkhondo pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndizofala, ndipo mwina chifukwa cha zifukwa zambiri. Zitha kukhala chifukwa cha mavuto azachuma, kubera kwa okwatirana, kusasamala, ndi zina zambiri.
Tiyeni tipeze njira zothetsera ukwati wanu.
Njira 4 zakuwongolera banja lanu osalankhula
Dziwani izi; Zingakhale zovuta kuwongolera banja lanu osalankhula za izi popeza ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri chomwe chimafunikira kulumikizana pang'ono.
Komabe, sizosatheka, ndipo pano tikuyenera kukudziwitsani njira zothetsera ukwati.
1. Muzikhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yoganizira kwambiri za mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu
Njira imodzi yabwino yothetsera ukwati wanu ndikutenga nthawi ndikulingalira za mnzanu.
Muyenera kutenga nthawi kuchokera pantchito yanu ndikukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi mnzanu. Mwanjira imeneyi, mudzakhala ndi chiyembekezo chokwanira za mnzanuyo ndipo mutha kuwona mosamala zomwe akuchita ndikumvetsetsa malingaliro ake. Izi zitha kukhala zothandiza kwambiri pakusintha maukwati.
2. Kukumbatira mnzako kangapo kasanu ndi kamodzi patsiku
Izi zingawoneke ngati zazabwana, koma iyi mwina ndi imodzi mwanjira zabwino kwambiri zokuthandizira ukwati wanu osalankhula za izi.
Kukumbatira mnzanu kangapo masana kumakulitsa chikondi pakati pa awiriwa ndikuthandizaninso kuti muzimasuka. Kukumbatirana ndiyo njira yabwino yolumikizirana ndi mnzanu pomwe palibe kulankhulana pakatikati.
Kukumbatirana ndi njira yosagonana komabe ndi imodzi mwazizindikiro zowoneka bwino komanso zolimbikitsa zomwe muyenera kuchita kwambiri.
3. Ganizirani za zabwino
Ngakhale kuyenera kukhala kunyalanyaza kwakukulu pakhomopo chifukwa chakumenyana ndi kusamvana pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu, zingakhale zosavuta ngati mungoyang'ana mbali yowala kwambiri.
Mutha kupatula mphindi zochepa ndikuyang'ana machitidwe abwino a mnzanu m'malo mozindikira ndikusankha zizolowezi zoipa. Izi sizingowonjezera mgwirizano wa nonse awiri, komanso ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yosinthira banja lanu osalankhula za izi.
Izi ndichifukwa choti muyenera kuwona mwakachetechete kenako ndikuyang'ana mphamvu zanu pazabwino zaubwenzi wanu ndi mnzanu.
4. Dziperekeni ku zomwe zikuwonetsa chikondi
Ngakhale zingakhale zovuta kusiya kudzidalira ndikuyang'ana kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi mnzanu, muyenera kudziwa momwe mungapangire ubale. Ganizirani za zomwe mumachita zomwe wokondedwa wanu amakonda ndikupangira kuchitidwacho.
Ndizomwezo, ndipo simuyenera kunena chilichonse. Muyenera kusonyeza chikondi kudzera muzochita. Mutha kuthandiza mnzanuyo pantchito zatsiku ndi tsiku, pomutumizira nthawi zina kapena mwina pomupatsa minofu mnzanu kumapeto kwa tsiku lotopetsa!
Chifukwa chake, mukawerenga njirazi, muyenera kukhala omveka momwe mungasinthire banja lanu osalankhula za izo. Malangizo achangu komanso osavuta awa kuti banja liziyenda bwino lingakhale lothandiza kwambiri.
Mfundo yofunika
Muyenera kuti tsopano mwapeza lingaliro labwino lamomwe mungasinthire banja lanu osalankhula za izo. Zimakhala zovuta kukhala m'nyumba imodzi ukwati wanu utatha.
Komabe, kumapeto kwa tsikulo, zonse ndizokhudza chikondi. Ndipo zonsezi ndizothetsa zovuta zanu ndikudzukanso.
Ingokumbukirani kuti njira yabwino yosamalira ubale wabwino ndikusunga ma egos anu pambali osamenyera pazinthu zazing'ono. Mukakhala okhwima, mumakonda wokondedwa wanu, ndinu wokhulupirika kwa iwo, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zosavuta kusamalira ubale wanu. Maukwati onse amafunikira kunyengerera ndi kudzipereka, popeza, popanda izo, maanja sagwira ntchito.