Zamkati
- 1. Kulankhulana bwino ndi mothandiza
- 2. Kuvomereza kusiyana kwanu
- 3. Kukhudza kwa machiritso
- 4. Kukula pamodzi monga munthu mmodzi
Anthu ambiri okwatirana mwadzidzidzi amapezeka ali pamalo oti ubale wawo uyenera kuwongoleredwa - moyipa. Atha kukhala aliwonse mwa mamiliyoni omwe angayese chifukwa chomwe banja lawo silikugwira ntchito.
Ndipo atha kukhala kuti ndi ozizira ngati chipale chofewa kapena kuchita ndewu tsiku ndi tsiku zomwe zimapangitsa gehena kumveka ngati malo abwino kuthera tchuthi chanu. Koma, ngati mukufuna kupitiriza kukhala m'banja, bwanji osayesetsa kuti likhale losangalatsa?
Nayi maziko anayi aubwenzi wabwino uliwonse ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kuti mukonze ukwati wanu.
1. Kulankhulana bwino ndi mothandiza
Chofunika kwambiri paubwenzi uliwonse ndi kulumikizana. Kuyankhulana kolimbikitsa ndikofunikira mu bizinesi, maubwenzi, ndipo makamaka muukwati.
Komabe, muukwati, koposa machitidwe onse aanthu, kulumikizana nthawi zambiri kumakhala kosakwanira, kapena koopsa.
Pali kusiyanasiyana kambiri pakulankhulana kosavomerezeka, kuyambira pakudziletsa mpaka kukalipa.
Mosasamala kanthu za kulumikizana kwabwino m'banja lanu, zitha kusinthidwa. Ngakhale mabanja osangalala nthawi zonse amakhala ndi china choti agwire mderali. Ngati mukufuna kukonza ubale wanu, yambani kuwunika njira zolumikizirana m'banja mwanu. Mutha kuyesa mayeso kuti mudziwe njira yolankhulirana, mwachitsanzo.
Kenako, khalani ndi nthawi yophunzira kulankhulana bwino. Mwachitsanzo, pewani kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chotsutsana ndi "Inu" ndikusintha ndi ziganizo "Ine" m'malo mwake. Onani kusiyana pakati pa: "Mumandikwiyitsa" ndi "Ndimakwiya mukamanena izi".
Pali malamulo ambiri ofanana pakulankhulana bwino komwe mungachite ndipo muyenera kutsatira muubwenzi wanu kuti musinthe.
2. Kuvomereza kusiyana kwanu
Ngati banja lanu silinali lakale, mwina chifukwa choti mudamangika pakusiyana kwanu. Kapena mumakwiyitsidwa bwanji ndi kusiyana komwe muli, makamaka. Pamene mudayamba chibwenzi, zinthu mwina zinali zosiyana kwambiri. Munasangalatsidwa ndi chilichonse chokhudza yemwe mudzakhale naye pabanja.
Tsopano, zitadutsa zaka, simukuganiziranso kuti mnzanuyo ndiye wolimba mtima ngati kale. Mumakonda kukonda kwake kwaufulu, koma tsopano ndizomwe zimangokhala kusagwirizana pakati panu, makamaka ndi ana omwe akukhudzidwa.
Kuti ubale wanu ukhale wolimba, muyenera kuphunzira kuvomereza mnzanuyo payekha komanso kulemekeza zomwe mumasiyana. Munkamukonda iye pazonse momwe aliri, kumbukirani nthawi zija. Pofuna kukuthandizani kuthetsa mavuto omwe angabuke kuchokera kumakhalidwe anu otsutsana, bwererani ku upangiri woyamba m'nkhaniyi.
3. Kukhudza kwa machiritso
Mbali ina yomwe okwatirana ambiri angagwiritse ntchito zowonjezera ndi kukondana. Ndikupsinjika kwakanthawi ndi tsiku ndi tsiku, ambiri aife timataya chidwi (pun cholinga) ndikulakalaka komanso kukopa kwakuthupi komwe kunali kwakukulu atakumana.
Nthawi yabwino kwambiri yogonana m'banja ndiyamunthu payekha, koma kusinthana kwachikondi nthawi zonse kuyenera kukhala gawo laukwati.
Ngakhale moyo wanu wogonana uli wokhutiritsa nthawi zonse ndibwino kubwerera kuzinthu zoyambira.Koma, ngati mukumva zauma, muyenera kuyang'ana pazotsatira zotsatirazi. Yambani ndi kulimbikitsa maziko a ukwati wanu, ubwenzi wanu ndi kukondana. Palibe chifukwa chogonana.
Ndiye, chimodzimodzi monga momwe mudali kuyamba chibwenzi, yambani kugwirana manja ndipo mwina nthawi zina kupepesana pang'ono, osagonana. Pakapita nthawi pitirizani kuchita zogonana kapena zosagonana. Pokhapokha mutamva kuti chisangalalo chomwe chatayika chibwerera ku banja lanu pomwe muyenera kupita kukayambitsanso chilakolako chogonana.
4. Kukula pamodzi monga munthu mmodzi
Chinthu chimodzi chomwe nthawi zambiri chimanyalanyazidwa muukwati, makamaka mukakhala kuti mukusangalatsana, ndikufunika kwakukula kwa aliyense payekha. Anthu, mu zolinga zawo zabwino, amayamba kudziwona ngati gawo limodzi, la banja.
Izi ndizosangalatsa kumayambiliro aukwati, koma m'kupita kwanthawi zimayamba kukhala zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhutira muukwati.
Kukhala ndi malingaliro ofanana ndikofunikira muukwati, inde. Koma, sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kusiya zofuna ndi maloto anu. M'malo mwake, banja labwino limadziwika ndikulola onse okwatirana kuchita zomwe amakhumba.
Chifukwa chake, ngati mukufuna kukonza ubale wanu, lankhulani ndi mnzanu momasuka za zofuna zanu ndi zofuna zanu komanso momwe mungakwaniritsire. Ndipo kumbukirani kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake masitepe onse panjira.