Zamkati
- Kuphatikizana / Kusagwirizana
- Kudziwa mtundu wa kugonana
- Cubical kumasulidwa
- Zolinga zogonana
- Pambuyo pa kugonana
- Kugonana pakamwa
- Kuyankhulana ndi kugonana
- Masiku ozungulira
- Chitetezo
Mawu oti kugonana kwa ambiri a ife ndichamanyazi kapena mutu wachinsinsi kuti tibwere pafupi kapena kukambirana. Pokhapokha mutakhala pamalo obisika kwambiri ndi mnzanu wapamtima ndiye kuti nkhaniyi ndi yomwe mukukambirana za masewera omaliza a mpira pagulu. Osati pano, chifukwa mukufuna kuphunzira zambiri za inu nokha, machitidwe achinsinsi a mnzanu komanso kufunikira kokhala pachibwenzi.
Kuphatikizana / Kusagwirizana
Pamene malingaliro a munthu ali ofanana ndi kugonana kwawo, amawoneka kuti ndi ogwirizana. Mgwirizano Wathupi Wathunthu (Wogonana Wosakanikirana Komanso Wakuthupi) uli ndi lingaliro, umakhala ndikumverera kwakuthupi, komwe kumabweretsa kumverera kwamalingaliro. Pomwe Mgwirizano wamaganizidwe (Otengeka Ndi Maganizo Ogonana) uli ndi lingaliro; zimapanga kutengeka, komwe kumabweretsa kumverera kwakuthupi.
Zomwe zimachitika pakakana - thupi limamva kupweteka kwenikweni mthupi lawo ndipo mwina limakhala ndi ululu mobwerezabwereza. Zotengeka zimamva momwe zimakhalira koma zimagwira ntchito kupyola, poyamba ndikukana, kenako malingaliro ndi kulingalira.
Kudziwa mtundu wa kugonana
Nthawi yoyamba yomwe anthu awiri agonana ndi omwe angawonetse mtundu wakugonana pakatikati paubwenzi komanso momwe angakhalire pachibwenzi. Kuyambitsa zogonana - zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe zimakhalira. Mkazi wamaganizidweyu ndikosavuta kugona pabedi kuposa thupi chifukwa safuna kuyambitsa mkangano ponena kuti "ayi". Mosiyana ndi zakuthupi, malingaliro amatha kusiyanitsa chikondi ndi kugonana. Ali ndi zifukwa ziwiri zosiyana zogonera limodzi ndipo nthawi zambiri onse amalephera kulumikizana m'derali. Thupi limakhala lokhazikika ndi mawonekedwe akuthupi. Mkazi wathupi ali womasuka kuchotsa zovala zake. Mkazi wamkazi wamalingaliro amafuna kuvula.
Amuna ndi akazi matupi athu amakonda kukonda kugonana ndipo amamva kukondoweza mthupi lawo lonse. Kutengeka kwamwamuna ndi wamkazi kumakonda kugonjera ndipo kumayang'ana kukondoweza kumaliseche.
Thupi lidzafika pachimake mwachangu kuposa momwe zimakhudzira chifukwa kutentha kwa thupi lawo kumakhala kwachilengedwe kuposa kwamalingaliro. Zakuthupi zimathanso kugwira mwamphamvu kuposa momwe zimakhudzira. Zomwe amafunikira zimafunikira "kutentha" komanso njira yofatsa.
Cubical kumasulidwa
Cubical amatanthauza kuchuluka kwa kumasulidwa kwamphamvu. Wamwamuna wamwamuna nthawi zambiri amatulutsa kamphindi kakang'ono kuposa kamphongo, choncho amatha kumasula kangapo usiku umodzi. Ndizoyesayesa kubisira zomwe ali nazo. Maganizo amamasulidwa, nthawi zambiri kamodzi usiku komanso zochulukirapo.
Zolinga zogonana
Cholinga chakuthupi ndikutalikitsa kugonana chifukwa amasangalala kuyandikira kwa icho. Cholinga chakumverera ndikutulutsa kumasulidwa ndipo mwina ataya chidwi chopitilira apo. Amayi achikazi amakhumudwitsidwa ndikuchulukitsa kugonana.
Pambuyo pa kugonana
Thupi lidzafuna chidwi ndi / kapena kuyandikana mutagonana. Zotengeka zimafuna kudutsika ndikugona kapena kupita kwina.
Kugonana pakamwa
Kutengeka kwamwamuna ndi wamkazi kumakhala kosavuta pakupereka ndi kulandira kugonana mkamwa kuposa kwakuthupi. Maganizo amasangalala kulandira kugonana m'kamwa chifukwa kumakula kwambiri.
Amthupi nthawi zambiri samakondwera kulandira zogonana mkamwa. Amakonda kugonana chifukwa zimawapatsa mphamvu zowongolera kukondoweza kwawo ndikuwalola kuti azitha kukhudza, kusuntha komanso kuyika bwino.
Kuyankhulana ndi kugonana
Kuwonongeka kwa kulumikizana kulikonse kungabweretse mavuto muubwenzi; komabe, kulumikizana molakwika pankhani yakugonana ndikofala. Thupi limamva kwambiri panthawi yogonana, amaganiza kuti wokondedwa wawo amamvanso chimodzimodzi. Monga wothandizira, limbikitsani onse kuti azindikire chilankhulo cha wina ndi mnzake.
Masiku ozungulira
Zomwe zimachitika pamasiku atatu:
- Tsiku 1 - Palibe mwayi wogonana
- Tsiku 2 - Atha kutenga kapena kusiya
- Tsiku 3 - Peak kukondoweza
Izi nthawi zina zimakokomezedwa mpaka masiku asanu ndi awiri, komabe, kwa wamwamuna wokonda kutengeka, ndizofanana. Zofunika zawo pantchito zitha kukhala chinthu chokha chosinthira kapena kuthana ndi zochitikazo. Kwa amayi okonda kutengeka, kuzungulira kumayamba kuzungulira tsiku lachinayi la msambo wawo ndi "kukondoweza kwakukulu", kenako "Palibe mwayi wogonana" pambuyo pake.
Thupi limayenda mozungulira tsiku limodzi ndipo limakhala lokonzekera zogonana pafupifupi nthawi iliyonse.
Chitetezo
Anthu pawokha, omwe amachita mosemphana ndi zomwe amagonana (subdominant), atha kukhala ndi "chitetezo". Chitetezo, malinga ndi Kugonana kwa E&P, nthawi zambiri chimayambitsidwa ndi malingaliro olakwika pazomwe amachita. Sakuvomereza kapena kumvetsetsa zakugonana kwawo. Pakuthandizira, ngati kasitomala akuchita ngati wokonda, ndiye kuti awachitireni motengeka, ndikuchitirani omwe akuchita monga thupi.
Chifukwa choti wina akuchita zachiwerewere, sizitanthauza kuti ali ndi chitetezo. Atha kukhala pafupi ndi pakati pazowonekera (akulemba zochepa pamndandanda wamafunso).
Chitetezo chitha kuwoneka m'machitidwe amtundu wa kasitomala kapena pamiyeso yolemba pamanja. Kuwaphunzitsa pa E&P kudzawathandiza kuvomereza zomwe akuchita monga "zachilendo" kwa iwo. Mutha kuwatsogolera kukhala ndi kuvomereza mikhalidwe yawo chithandizo chamankhwala chikamapita. Samalani kuti musawakakamize kapena kuwalemba mayina, aloleni adzipangire okha pazokhudza zaubwenzi komanso maubale.