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- Wotchuka amakhulupirira kuti sikuyenera kukhala zowona
- Ubale ulibe malo okayikira
- Khulupirirani zachibadwa zanu m'malo mokhala ndi zipolopolo
Malinga ndi Harry waku Harry Met Sally, abambo ndi amai sangakhale abwenzi chifukwa gawo logonana nthawi zonse limasokonekera.
Ma 80-rom-coms amajambula zomwe timakhulupirira - abambo ndi amai sangakhale abwenzi
Izi zikuwoneka kuti ndikumapeto kwa pafupifupi ma 80s rom com nawonso, pomwe munthu wamkulu amazindikira kuti chikondi cha moyo wake si mwana wankhuku yemwe amakonda kupitiliza kuchita nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi, koma m'malo mwake ndi BFF wake wokhulupirika yemwe modabwitsa khanda akamachotsa magalasi ake ndikutsitsa tsitsi lake.
Ngati ndi choncho, ndipo abambo ndi amai sangakhale mabwenzi enieni chifukwa amangokhalira kukondana, kodi tiyenera kuchita chiyani pamene anzathu apamtima ali ndi abwenzi omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo?
Kodi timakakamizidwa kufotokoza chilombo cha maso obiriwira chomwe sichimalola chibwenzi chake kukhala ndi ufulu wocheza ndi azimayi anzawo?
Wotchuka amakhulupirira kuti sikuyenera kukhala zowona
Choyamba, ndikofunikira kuti mubwerere m'mbuyo ndikuzindikira kuti moyo si ma rom-com a 80, osangalatsa momwe zingakhalire. Kungoti pali chikhulupiriro chakuti amuna ndi akazi sangakhale “abwenzi”, sizitanthauza kuti izi ndi zoona.
Kodi pali abwenzi awiri padziko lapansi pano omwe amapusitsana? Kumene. Komabe kodi pali abwenzi padziko lapansi pano omwe angakonde kudzidulira maso awo m'malo mongodumphaduka?
Inde alipo! Pali maubwenzi amitundu yonse omwe alipo, ena omwe amakopeka kwambiri kuposa ena.
Zowona ndizakuti, tikukhala pagulu la anthu osiyanasiyana omwe ali ndi maubale ovuta omwe sali ofanana kwambiri. Kuganiza kuti kuphatikiza kulikonse kwa anzanu kumakondana mwachinsinsi ndikulingalira kuti tikukhala pagulu la FanFiction.Net.
Ngati wina wanu wamkulu atha kukhala ndi abwenzi ogonana omwe amakonda, sikulakwa kuganiza kuti pali ndakatulo komanso zamatsenga zomwe zimangokhala pakati pawo.
Zachidziwikire, pali kuthekera kuti bwenzi lanu limakopeka ndi abwenzi ena achikazi, momwemonso kuti mutha kukopa ocheperako anzanu achimuna. Izi sizitanthauza kuti ali mchikondi ndi anthu awa, ndichokopa chaumunthu chomwe tonsefe timasungilira ena, ngakhale siomwe timakhala anzathu.
Ndi gawo chabe la moyo lomwe tiyenera kuvomereza.
Ubale ulibe malo okayikira
Ngakhale izi, wina wanu wamkulu adasankha kukhala nanu pazifukwa, ndipo ngati angafune kukhala ndi mnzanu amene mukumudandaula uja, adzakhala nawo kale. Apa ndipamene kudalirana kumabwera, ndipo muyenera kudzifunsa nokha, kodi ndinu okonzeka kukhulupirira mnzanuyo pongofuna kuti akhale nanu?
Ngati yankho ndi ayi, ndipo mukumva ngati kuti simungakhulupirire mnzanu ndi BFF yawo, mwina ndi nthawi yoganiza zothetsa chibwenzicho. Palibe chifukwa chokondana ngati mukumva ngati kuti simungakhulupirire wokondedwa wanu. Zachidziwikire kuti izi ndizosavuta kuzichita kuposa kuchita.
Ubale si malo okhumudwitsa komanso okayikira.
Ngati kusakhulupirika komwe muli nako kwa mnzanu ndikolimba kuposa chitetezo chomwe mumakhala nacho nawo, itha kukhala nthawi yolingalira zosintha kuti mupeze chikondi ndi thanzi labwino.
Komabe, ngati mnzanuyo amangokhalira kucheza ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo ndipo mukuwona kuti ndi mlandu, mungafune kudziwa chifukwa chake mukumva choncho.
Kuti muwonetse kuti bwenzi lanu likufuna kugona ndi mkazi aliyense, yemwe amakumana naye ndikuti amuna onse ndianthu osakondera omwe timakonda kuwatsata.
Mungadabwe kuti ndi anyamata angati kunja uko omwe amafuna kudzipereka komanso chitetezo m'malo momangokhala ndi ufulu wogona ndi aliyense amene akuganiza kuti ali ndi tsitsi labwino kapena kumwetulira kokongola.
Ngati chibwenzi chako sichikufuna kukhala nanu pachibwenzi, akadakhala atasiyana kale. Zosavuta monga choncho!
Khulupirirani zachibadwa zanu m'malo mokhala ndi zipolopolo
Kukopa kunja kwa chibwenzi kumaonekera.
Ndizoti mnzanuyo asankhe kuchitapo kanthu pa chidwi chomwe muyenera kukhala nacho. Khalani ndi moyo wanu, yang'anirani maubwenzi anu komanso chisangalalo chanu musanakhazikitse nkhawa zanu zonse kwa iye.
Dzidalire kuti mudziwe ngati ndiubwenzi wamba, kapena ngati ndi nthawi yoti mutsanzike.