Zamkati
- Kukonzekera tsiku lanu lapadera
- Nchifukwa chiyani izi zili zofunika?
- Wanu, wanga, ndi wathu
- Choyimira moyo
- Chikondi ndi verebu
Ukwati ndi wachikondi, wokongola, komanso watanthauzo. Anthu amachokera kutali kuti adzaone mgwirizano wa anthu awiri omwe akudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake. Ndi chidwi chonse pa kukongola kwa tsikulo, ndikosavuta kuiwala ukwati womwe umatsatira mwambowo.
Kukhala ndi banja lalitali komanso lokhalitsa ndichinthu chosowa komanso chosangalatsa. Ndi ntchito yovuta. Ngakhale kukonzekera ukwati kuli kovuta, mudzakumana ndi zinthu zambiri pamoyo wanu zomwe ndizovuta kwambiri. Mukumana ndi zovuta zomwe zingayese kulimba kwa kudzipereka kwanu kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Kukonzekera tsiku lanu lapadera
Sitikukuwuzani kuti musakhale ndi ukwati wamaloto anu. Komabe, tikukulimbikitsani kuti muchite zambiri momwe mungakonzekere ngati gulu momwe mungathere. Uwu ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi popereka ndikutenga.
Yambani posankha zomwe mukufuna ngati mphatso zaukwati. Yambitsani kaundula wa Target. Chandamale (monga masitolo ena ambiri) ali ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Ali ndi zinthu zapakhomo, zinthu zamasewera, zovala, ndi zodzikongoletsera. Palibe chomwe chingalembetse kutentha kwaubwenzi wanu ngati kuyamba kaundula.
Kodi m'modzi wa inu akufuna mphamvu zonse posankha? Kodi m'modzi wa inu amangokhala chabe ndikupatsanso? Kodi mungagwirizane zomwe zingakhutiritse aliyense wa inu? Kodi ndinu wofunitsitsa kuyesa?
Nchifukwa chiyani izi zili zofunika?
Pali nkhani yakale ya akazi okhudza sabata yomwe musanakwatirane. Anthu amakonda kunena zomwe mumachita sabata imeneyo ndizomwe mudzachite kwa moyo wanu wonse. Pali chowonadi kwa ichi, ndipo ndichowonadi chomwe chidzasintha momwe mumamvera za wina ndi mnzake.
Mukamayang'ana mipando ndipo mwamuna wamamuna wanu adzati, "Chilichonse chomwe mukuganiza", chikuwoneka chosamala komanso chokoma. Zaka khumi panjira pomwe mukuganiza zoperekanso ndalama kunyumba kuti mulipire ngongole zamankhwala kapena kugulitsa galimoto yanu kuti mulandire chiwongola dzanja chochepa ndipo akuti, "Chilichonse chomwe mungaganize" chimakupanikizani kwambiri. Mumayamba kuipidwa ndikupanga zisankho nokha ndikumadzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa pomwe wina sachita monga momwe mumaganizira.
Zilinso chimodzimodzi ngati wina akufuna kuti musankhe. Akafuna kukhazikika pabalaza ndipo mukukana lingalirolo popanda kulingalira ndikuyika gawo limodzi, atha kukana. Koma pamene moyo ukupitirira, adzakhumudwa kuti amaika theka la zinthuzo ndipo satha kunena momwe nyumba yake imawonekera komanso momwe amamvera.
Wanu, wanga, ndi wathu
Zachidziwikire, pali pakati pamsewu. Muyenera kukhala ndi zisankho zomwe ndi zanu zokha zoti mupange, ndipo akuyeneranso kutero. Palinso zosankha zomwe ziyenera kupangidwa ngati banja.
Sungani kavalidwe kabwino kaukwati. Ili ndi lingaliro lanu. Chisankho chake ndikusankha zovala zam'manja komanso kuti akhale munthu wabwino kwambiri. Uwu ndi ukwati wake nawonso, Komabe, komwe mudzakwatirane kapena kumene mudzakwerere kokasangalala muyenera kulingalira nonse pamodzi.
Choyimira moyo
Ukwati wanu ndi nthawi yabwino kuyamba kupanga pulani ya momwe mudzagwirire ntchito monga banja. Apa ndipomwe mumayamba kukumana ndi zovuta limodzi ngati gulu ndikusankha nkhondo zanu.
Chikondi chenicheni sichimakhala agulugufe ndi maluwa nthawi zonse. Funsani banja lomwe lakhala pabanja kwazaka zambiri ndipo likuwuzani. Chinsinsi chokhala ndi banja losangalala sikuti ndimomwe mumagwirirana ngati zinthu zili bwino. Ndikugwirana ndi kukankhana ngakhale pamene mukufuna kuchoka. Ikuyimirira phewa ndi phewa dziko likamakumenyani mutu.
Chikondi ndi verebu
Chikondi sichinthu chomwe chimagweramo kapena kugweramo. Sichiyesa kukula kwa daimondi kapena kutentha kwa chibwenzi. Ndi mneni. Chikondi ndichinthu chomwe mumachita. Kukusonyeza ulemu, ulemu, kukoma mtima, ndi kuthandizira ngakhale simukumva izi.
Nthawi zonse zomwe mumachita zachikondi osazimva, malingaliro amtendere amakula kwambiri. Iwo ali matalala, koma sanapite. Ndiye tsiku lina mumazindikira kuti chikondi chanu chasandulika chinthu chomwe simumaganizira kuti chingakhale. Simungalingalire moyo wanu popanda wina ndi mnzake. Simukudziwa komwe mumathera ndipo akuyambira.
Umu ndi momwe ukwati umamangidwira ndiye chifukwa chake kuli koyenera kuchita chilichonse chomwe mungayesetse kukhala nawo.
Lauren Webber
Lauren Webber ndi mayi, wokonda maswiti, komanso wolemba wolimba wa Blueprint Registry. Nthawi zambiri amagawana maupangiri ake okwatirana m'malo ogulitsira osiyanasiyana komanso blog yake ya Dainty Mom.