Zamkati
- Kodi mungatani kuti banja lanu likhale logwirizana komanso losangalatsa?
- Njira zomwe mungapangire kuti banja likhale losangalatsa
- Kudabwa mnzanu
- Koma nayi nsonga
- Khazikitsani zolinga limodzi
- Onetsetsani kuti nthawi zonse muzikhala ndi mlandu wina ndi mnzake
Palibe kukayika kuti kukwatira ndi gawo limodzi lokongola kwambiri muubwenzi, koma nthawi ikamadutsa zinthu zimatha kukhala zosasangalatsa. Ndikulingalira kuti mukufuna kupewa izi kuti banja lanu likhale losangalala. Nthawi zina kumakhala kosavuta kuyankha, momwe mungapangire kuti banja likhale lokometsera, komabe pamafunika kuyesetsa kuchokera mbali zonse kuti zinthu ziyende. Nazi njira zitatu zosungira ukwati kukhala wamoyo.
Kodi mungatani kuti banja lanu likhale logwirizana komanso losangalatsa?
Pitirizani kukhala osangalatsa muukwati pochita china chachilendo.
Gawo losasangalatsa limayamba nthawi zonse mukazindikira kuti palibe chomwe chikusintha, nonse mumachita zomwezo tsiku lililonse. Sikoipa kukhala ndi chizolowezi limodzi, koma nthawi zina sizoyipa mwina ngati mungachite zosiyana ngati mukufuna kuti banja likhale losangalatsa.
Kodi mungatani kuti musinthe? Choyamba, mutha kudzifunsa nokha zinthu monga: Ndi liti liti lomwe munapita tsiku? Kupita kukadya? Ndi liti pamene mudapita kumakanema? Yambani ndi zinthu zofunika poyamba. Kenako, mungadzifunse, ndi zinthu ziti zatsopano zomwe inu nonse mungayesere kuti banja likhale losangalatsa? Zitsanzo zina zikungoyenda modzidzimutsa, kutenga kalasi limodzi, kapena kuyamba ntchito yatsopano limodzi.
Njira zomwe mungapangire kuti banja likhale losangalatsa
Kuyembekezera mwachidwi zochitika zatsopano ndi zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala ndi zala zakumanja, zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala tsiku lomwe likubweralo.
Muukwati wanu, simungalole kuti kunyong'onyeka kutengapo gawo paulendowu, malingaliro osasangalatsa omwe amachititsa kuti chisangalalo chiwonongeke. Onetsetsani kuti inu ndi mnzanu mulembe mndandanda wazinthu zomwe mukufuna kuchitira limodzi, ndiye mukayamba kuzindikira kuti muyenera kuchita chinthu chatsopano, sankhani china chake pamndandanda ndikuyesera limodzi ndipo mudzakhala bwino njira yopezera banja chisangalalo.
Kudabwa mnzanu
Ndani sakonda zodabwitsa? Zodabwitsa ndiye msuzi wachinsinsi kwambiri wosungitsa ukwati kukhala wosangalatsa.
Izi ndizofotokozera zokha, koma apa pali chinthu choyenera kukumbukira. Choyamba, kudabwitsidwa sikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuwononga akaunti yanu yonse yakubanki pachinthu china kapena kupita kudziko lina. Palibe chifukwa chochitira zimenezo. Mutha kudabwitsa mnzanu kwaulere! Zitsanzo zina zitha kuphika chakudya chomwe amakonda kapena kukhala ndi kanema usiku nonse awiri.
Zomwe zimadabwitsanso ndizofunikira kuti musunge mnzanu nthawi zonse. Komanso, mukawona nkhope zawo, nthawi zonse zimakhala zamtengo wapatali! Zomwe amachita ndi zomwe mumakonda kwambiri.
China chimodzi chomwe mungachite ndikuti, m'malo mongotumiza mameseji osangalatsa, siyani zolemba komwe mukudziwa kuti adzawapeza, onetsetsani kuti muwadziwitse kuchuluka kwa momwe mumawakondera komanso momwe mumawayamikirira. Muzolembedwazo, mutha kulembanso zomwe mumakonda za munthuyo, mtundu wabwino, lingaliro lazomwe zikudabwitsani, pafupifupi chilichonse chomwe mungafune.
Wokondedwa wanu adzazindikira momwe mukufuna kuti banja lanu ligwirire ntchito ndipo ayamikiranso khama lomwe munapanga muzodabwitsa. Ndipo ndani akudziwa, mwina mudzadabwanso mtsogolo!
Koma nayi nsonga
Osapanga zodabwitsazi pafupipafupi, ngati mutero, angayembekezere zinthu kamodzi kanthawi, mudzachotsa chodabwitsa. Chinsinsi chake ndi kuwagwira nthawi yomwe samayembekezera.
Khazikitsani zolinga limodzi
Mfundo iyi ikupatsani nonse m'malingaliro ogwirira ntchito limodzi ngati gulu kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chomwe mwapanga.
Nthawi yoyamba nonse kuti mukhale pansi kuti muganizire za izi mwina ndi nthawi yakunyumba. Khalani limodzi pabedi, khofi wa awiri, ngati simukonda khofi mutha kumwa tiyi kapena kapu yabwino ya vinyo, chilichonse chomwe mungakonde, ndikungolankhula zina zomwe nonse mungakonde kuchita limodzi. Iyi ndi imodzi mwanjira zodalirika zamoto zopezera banja chisangalalo.
Kodi mukufuna kusintha zina ndi zina kunyumba kwanu? Kodi mukufuna kukhala ndi mwana? Kodi mukufuna kuyamba ntchito kubizinesi yakunyumba? Kodi mukufuna kupita kwinakwake limodzi? Zinthu zonse zomwe nonse mukufuna kuchita, lembani.
Kenako mutha kuyamba ndikusankha zolinga zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa poyamba. Kumbukirani kuti ena atenga nthawi yochuluka kukwaniritsa kuposa ena, koma ndizabwino kwambiri, anyamata mukugwira limodzi kuti muthandizane kukwaniritsa china chake chodabwitsa. Ngati mukufuna kupanga mapulani, khalani omasuka kutero.
Onetsetsani kuti nthawi zonse muzikhala ndi mlandu wina ndi mnzake
Kumbukirani kuti izi ndi mgwirizano, nonse muyenera kuthandizana kuti muchite bwino. Izi zidzakupangitsani inu nonse kusangalala ndi zomwe zidzachitike muukwati wanu.
Chidziwitso chomaliza. Monga ndidanenera koyambirira, kuti banja likhale losangalatsa pamafunika kuyesetsa mbali zonse zaubwenzi, koma ndi chikondi, chilichonse ndichotheka, ndikunena zowona?