Zamkati
M'zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu, ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito ndi maanja, nditha kunena molimba mtima kuti ambiri aiwo ali ndi vuto lomweli. Onsewo akuti sangathe kuyankhulana. Zomwe akutanthauza ndikuti onse amadziona kuti ali okha. Amamva kuti sakulumikizidwa. Sali gulu. Nthawi zambiri amandiwonetsa izi munthawi yeniyeni. Amakhala pakama panga - nthawi zambiri kumapeto kwake - ndipo samayang'ana maso. Amayang'ana pa ine m'malo moyang'anana. Kusungulumwa kwawo ndi kukhumudwa kwawo kumabweretsa mpata pakati pawo, kuwakankhira kutali wina ndi mnzake m'malo mowabweretsa pafupi.
Palibe amene amayamba chibwenzi kukhala wosungulumwa. Kungakhale kumverera kopanda chiyembekezo. Tikulemba kuti tiyembekezere kulumikizana kwenikweni - kumverera kwaumodzi komwe kumathetsa kusungulumwa kwathu pamlingo waukulu. Pamene kulumikizana kusweka, timakhala otayika, okhumudwitsidwa komanso osokonezeka.
Amuna ndi akazi amaganiza kuti aliyense ali ndi kiyi wachikiyi yemwe sangathe kusankha. Nazi nkhani zina zabwino. Pali fungulo - mafungulo asanu pamenepo!
Mutha kuyamba kuyandikira pafupi ndi mnzanu lero pogwiritsa ntchito mafungulo awa asanu kuti akulumikizana bwino.
1. Chidwi
Mukukumbukira masiku oyambirira aja aubwenzi? Pamene zonse zinali zatsopano komanso zosangalatsa komanso zatsopano? Zokambiranazo zinali zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa. Munali kulakalaka zambiri. Ndicho chifukwa munali ndi chidwi. Mumafunitsitsadi kudziwa munthu yemwe ali patebulopo kwa inu. Chofunikira kwambiri, mumafuna kudziwika. Mwanjira ina yake pakakhala chibwenzi, chidwi ichi chimangokhala. Nthawi ina - nthawi zambiri, molawirira - timaganizirana wina ndi mnzake. Timadziuza tokha kuti tikudziwa zonse zomwe tiyenera kudziwa. Musagwere mumsampha uwu. M'malo mwake, pangani cholinga chanu kuti muzichita zinthu popanda kuweruza. Dziwani zambiri m'malo momenya nkhondo zambiri. Pezani zatsopano za wokondedwa wanu tsiku lililonse. Mungadabwe kuti mukudziwa zochepa bwanji. Yambitsani mafunso anu ndi mawu awa: Ndithandizeni kuti ndimvetsetse .... Nenani izi mwachidwi chenicheni ndikukhala omasuka kuyankha. Mafunso owerengera samawerengera!
2. C.chifundo
Chidwi chimatsogolera ku chifundo. Ndimaika chithunzi cha bambo anga patebulo langa. Pachithunzichi, bambo anga ali ndi zaka ziwiri, atakhala pamiyendo ya agogo anga aakazi, akuwombera kamera. Kumbuyo kwa chithunzichi, agogo anga aakazi alemba kuti, "Ronnie akupereka moni kwa bambo ake." Makolo a abambo anga adasudzula ali ndi zaka ziwiri. Pachithunzichi, akusunthira bambo ake - bambo yemwe sadzawawonanso. Chithunzi chomvetsa chisoni chija chimandikumbutsa kuti abambo anga adakhala zaka zawo zoyambirira opanda. Kufunitsitsa kwanga kuchita chidwi ndi nkhani ya abambo anga kumandipangitsa kumumvera chisoni. Timapeza chifundo kwa anthu pamene tavutikira kuti timvetse ululu wawo.
3. Ckutulutsa
Tikakhazikitsa malo otetezeka, achifundo, kulumikizana kumabwera mwachilengedwe. Kodi mumadziwa kuti maanja ambiri opambana sagwirizana pazonse? M'malo mwake, pazinthu zambiri, nthawi zambiri amavomereza kuti sakugwirizana. Koma amalankhulana bwino, ngakhale akutsutsana. Pogwiritsa ntchito chidwi kuti apange mkhalidwe wachifundo, amapanga malo omwe kulumikizana kumakhala kotetezeka ngakhale zitakhala zovuta. Mabanja opambana amadziwa momwe angapewere "nkhondo zowonetsa." Amasiya kufuna kuwongolera. Amafunsa, amamvetsera, amaphunzira. Amasankha kuyankhula zazinthu zovuta ngakhale zovuta popanda kulingalira komanso mopanda chiweruzo.
4. Collaboration
Ganizirani za gulu lamasewera kapena gulu kapena gulu lililonse la anthu lomwe limafunikira mgwirizano kuti ligwire bwino ntchito. Pa gulu labwino, pali mgwirizano wothandiza wambiri. Mgwirizano umatheka chifukwa cha ma C atatu oyamba. Chidwi chimabweretsa chifundo, zomwe zimabweretsa kulumikizana. Ndi zinthu zofunika izi zomwe tili nazo, titha kupanga zisankho ngati gulu chifukwa ndife gulu. Ndife odzipereka kumvetsetsa kwathu wina ndi mnzake ndipo tili mbali imodzi, ngakhale sitigwirizana.
5. Ckulumikizana
Simusowa kukhala katswiri wodziwa kuti ndi mabanja ati omwe ali mulesitilanti omwe akhala nawo nthawi yayitali kwambiri. Ingoyang'anani pozungulira. Omwe samayankhula adasiya kulumikizana. Tsopano yang'anani pozungulira kachiwiri. Tawonani maanja omwe ali okondana wina ndi mnzake? Mabanjawa akugwiritsa ntchito ma C anayi oyambilira - chidwi, chifundo, kulumikizana, komanso mgwirizano - ndipo akumva kulumikizana! Adakhazikitsa malo otetezeka oti azigawana malingaliro ndi nkhani zawo. Kulumikizana ndi zotsatira zachilengedwe pomwe takhala ndi nkhawa kuti tikhala ndi chidwi tikapeza chifundo m'mitima yathu, pomwe tidagawana mozama, komanso tikakhala gulu.
Nthawi yotsatira chibwenzi chanu chitasungulumwa, dzitsimikizireni kuti muyambe kufunsa mafunso osiyanasiyana ndikukhala omasuka kuyankha. Kukumba mozama kuti mumve chisoni. Nenani malingaliro anu ndikugawana nkhani yanu. Sakani ndikuwonetsa ngati membala m'malo molimbana ndi mnzanu. Sankhani kuvomereza ndikuyamikira mgwirizano wanu mokwanira kuti muzidalira m'malo mokankhira kutali. Musanazindikire, mudzakhala olumikizidwa ndipo kusungulumwa kowopsa kumasinthidwa ndikulumikizana kwakuya, kutsimikizira komwe mudasainira poyamba.