Zamkati
- Kuphunzira kudzikonda nokha - chikondi chachikulu kuposa zonse
- Dzipatseni nthawi yopuma
- 1. Muzikhululuka
- 2. Tsatirani zokonda zanu
- 3. Phunzirani kukana
- 4. Lembani zomwe mwachita tsiku ndi tsiku
- 5. Dzipatseni ngongole yoyenerera
Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kudzikonda ndikofanana ndi kudzikonda.
Timanyadira kuti sitikhala odzikonda, timayika ena patsogolo pathu, kuti sitiganiza zovulaza mwayi wa ena kapena mwayi kapena moyo womwe sitimavulaza ena - kaya mwamalingaliro kapena mwathupi.
Molimba mtima momwe zingamvekere, zimatha kuwaluma msana posachedwa. Pali mzere woonda pakati pokhala wopanda dyera komanso wofunika kwambiri kudzitsutsa.
Kukhala wotsutsa ndikuyesetsa kuchita bwino kuposa dzulo ndikofunikira; komabe, ntchito yapadziko lonse lapansi, nthawi zina, ndikutiweruza ndikutiwononga tsiku lililonse.
Siili yangwiro, koma ndi zomwe zili.
Kuphunzira kudzikonda nokha - chikondi chachikulu kuposa zonse
Kudzikonda ndikofunika kwa munthu aliyense.
Kuphunzira kudzikonda nokha ndikofunikira, ngakhale zikafika pamagulu. Ngati mwadukapo posachedwa kapena ngakhale kwakhala kwakanthawi, anthu amadziimba mlandu kuti mwina sawona momwe anzawo omwe anali pachibwenzi awo analili kapena chifukwa chamakhalidwe omwe abwenziwo anali nawo. Ndipo akayesa ndikupitirira kuchokera pachibwenzi, amalephera momvetsa chisoni.
Nthawi zambiri mumatha kupeza anthu akunena kwinakwake motere, "chifukwa chiyani ndimagwera mitundu ina ya anthu?"
Vuto limabuka pamene sitimadzipatsa nthawi yoti tidandaule.
Timalephera kumvetsetsa zomwe abambo athu akale anali nazo kapena zomwe timachita, ndipo timatsatiranso zomwezo chifukwa nthawi zonse timadziimba mlandu pazolakwika zomwe zimachitika panjira.
Dzipatseni nthawi yopuma
Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti simuli angwiro. Muyenera kutsika kuchokera kumunsi komwe mudadzipangira nokha.
Mtolo wadziko lonse lapansi suli paphewa panu, ndipo simuli ndi udindo pa chilichonse kapena choipa chilichonse chomwe chimachitika pafupi nanu. Anthu ali ndi udindo pazochita zawo. Ngati wina wapafupi nanu akusokonezani, si vuto lanu. Likhala vuto lanu, ngakhale mutapanda kuima ndikuganiza zophunzira momwe mungadzikondere nokha.
M'malo modandaula ndikumenya tchire, mvetsetsani ndikudzikhulupirira. Dzipatseni theka la nthawi yopuma yomwe mumapatsa ena, phunzirani kudzikonda nokha, ndipo phunzirani kumvetsetsa malire anu.
Pali matani ophunzirira kudzikonda nokha mabuku, makanema omwe alipo. Pali makalasi ndi masemina. Zomwe mupeze m'mabuku onse ophunzirira kudzikonda nokha ndizipatseni nthawi - gawo loyamba.
Nawa maupangiri ochepa omwe angakuthandizeni kuti muyambe ulendo wautali komanso wovuta wophunzira kudzikonda nokha -
1. Muzikhululuka
Monga tanenera, dzipatseni nthawi yopuma. Zindikirani kuti palibe amene ali wangwiro, ndipo aliyense amalakwitsa.
Palibe vuto mukulakwitsa. akutiuza kuti ndife anthu. Mfundo ndi yovomereza kuti mwalakwitsa, vomerezani, khalani ndi chisoni ngati pakufunika kutero, phunzirani pamenepo, ndikusunthira patsogolo.
2. Tsatirani zokonda zanu
Moyo ndikuti muziyesa china chatsopano kuti mudzitsutse nokha ndikukwaniritsa maloto anu.
Ngati mwangotuluka kumene muubwenzi kapena ngati mwakhala mukumasunga maloto anu kwakanthawi chifukwa chaudindo wanu, ino ndi nthawi yoti mukhale ndi nthawi yanokha.
Lowani kuti mubwerere kapena mulowe nawo digiri yomwe mwakhala mukufuna kwakanthawi.
Dzisamalire wekha pokhala wekha.
3. Phunzirani kukana
Khalidwe loyipitsitsa lomwe munthu angakhale nalo ndikukhala wokondweretsa anthu.
Palibe chovulaza; Choipa chokha chomwe amadza nacho ndi cha iye mwini. Poyesera kukondweretsa aliyense, okondweretsa anthuwo amadzichepetsera okha.
Mwachitsanzo, amalola kupita kokacheza ndi anzawo ali ndi tsiku lomaliza logwira ntchito lomwe likubwera pamutu pawo.
4. Lembani zomwe mwachita tsiku ndi tsiku
Ngati mukuvutikabe kudziona kuti ndinu ofunika, khalani ndi magazini yapadera kuti mulembe zomwe mwachita. Ndipo musayembekezere chilichonse chachikulu kuti chibwere.
Ingolembani zoyeserera zazing'ono zomwe zimachitika tsiku ndi tsiku. Komanso, onjezerani zolemba zingapo zolimbikitsa komanso zogwira ntchito apa ndi apo kuti musindikize mgwirizano.
Chifukwa chake, mtambo wakudawo ukadutsa, ndipo mukumva kuti mwapanikizika ndipo mwatsala pang'ono kuthyoka, ingotsegulani magaziniyo ndi kuiwerenga. Onani zomwe mwakwaniritsa, zomwe panthawiyo ziyenera kuti zimawoneka ngati zosatheka koma mudazichita.
Ngati mutha kuchita izi, ndiye kuti mutha kuyang'anira china chilichonse.
5. Dzipatseni ngongole yoyenerera
Chofunikira ndikulemba zomwe munthu wazichita, ntchito siyiyimira pamenepo.
Ndiudindo wanu kusangalala ndi zomwe mwachita chifukwa palibe amene angatero.Gawani zopambana zanu, zithandizeni nokha kupita kumalo apaderadera, ngakhale mutakhala nokha; ndipo koposa zonse, kondwerani za inu nokha.