Kungakhale kovuta pang'ono kudutsa BDSM yonse ndi mawu otemberera zikafika Makumi Asanu a Mvi. Mukamaliza ndikulira "oh mai!" kapena kumangokhalira kunena kuti bukuli ndi kanema ndizowopsa kwa anthu, pali zochepa zabwino zomwe mungaphunzire zomwe zingathandize banja lanu.
Musanafike ku maphunzirowa, ndikofunikira kutsimikizira kuti izi sizopanga ndende ya kinky mu chipinda chanu kapena chilichonse chazomwezo. Ndi za kutsegula maso anu ku maphunziro ena kuchokera Makumi Asanu a Mvi zomwe zipangitse banja lanu kugwedezeka mkati ndi kunja kwa chipinda chogona.
1. Ganizirani Kwambiri
Ngakhale machitidwe achikhristu atha kukhala kuti nthawi ina amakhala osagwirizana, pali china choyenera kunenedwa chokhudza chidwi chanu pa wokondedwa wanu. Simuyenera kuchita kuyang'anitsitsa kwambiri, koma mukakhala limodzi, zonse zomwe mukuyang'ana ziyenera kukhalira wina ndi mnzake ndikulumikizana munthawiyo. Osayang'ana foni yanu, kuyiwala za zosokoneza zomwe zikukuzungulira, ndipo chitani khama kuti muyang'ane m'maso ndikulumikizana. Zimapanga kukondana komwe kungapindulitse banja lanu
2. Musaweruze
Kupanga ubale wopanda chiweruzo ndikofunikira m'mbali zonse zaukwati. Zachidziwikire kuti a Christian ndi Ana anali ndi malingaliro ndi malingaliro osiyana kwambiri atakumana, koma onsewa sanaweruze anzawo. Palibe aliyense wa inu amene ayenera kuchita manyazi kuuza ena zakukhosi kwake kuopa kuweruzidwa. Landirani ndi kukondana wina ndi mnzake chifukwa cha momwe mulili.
3. Khalani Omasuka M'chipinda Chogona
Izi zili pomwepo osaweruzana. Pankhani yaubwenzi, muyenera kukhala otseguka momwe zingathere kuti nonse mukhale omasuka kugawana zomwe mukufuna ndi zosowa zanu. Zomwe mumaganizira sizingakhale zomveka, koma siziyenera kukulepheretsani kukhala omasuka kuti muphunzire zomwe akufuna ndikuwona kunyengerera. Kulankhulana momasuka pankhani ya chibwenzi ndikofunika kwambiri kuti banja likhale losangalala. Kuphatikiza apo, kuyesa zinthu zatsopano kungakhale kosangalatsa nonsenu!
4. Dziwani Kufunika kwa Chikondi ndi Chikondi
Zachidziwikire, trilogy idali yachiwerewere, koma sizokhudza kugonana pakati pa Christian ndi Ana okha, panali chikondi chenicheni. Amuna ndi akazi ali ndi mlandu wolola kuti chikondi ndi chiwonongeko chithe pambuyo paukwati. Aliyense amafuna kumva kuti amakondedwa komanso kupembedzedwa. Kutenga nthawi yogwiranagwiranagwirana, kuyamikirana wina ndi mnzake ndikukondana kumachita izi. Osangopsompsona ndi kukumbatirana nthawi yakugonana ndiyomwe yesetsani kuwonetsa chikondi ndi chikondi kangapo patsiku, kaya ndi kupsompsonana pamphumi kapena kukumbatirana mutatha tsiku lovuta.
5. Pangani Ubwenzi Wapamtima Patsogolo
Kukondana sikuyenera kukhala chilichonse, koma sikuyenera kutenga zopsereza monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi zambiri m'banja. Pangani chibwenzi kukhala choyambirira muubwenzi wanu ngakhale mutakhala otanganidwa motani m'moyo. Kodi mukufunikira chilimbikitso china kupatula kukhala wathanzi lamaganizidwe ndi malingaliro? Ubwenzi wapamtima ndi mwala wapangodya wamabanja athanzi, chifukwa chake pezani njira yochitira ukwati wanu, ngakhale mutakhala otopa bwanji kumapeto kwa tsikulo.