Zamkati
- Zomwe mungachite musanakwatirane- Malangizo othandiza kulera ana
- Yambani kukonzekera tsiku lalikulu
- Khazikitsani machitidwe oyenera koyambirira
- Lembani akaunti yanu yakubanki
- Onani zinthu moyenera
Zomwe mungachite musanakwatirane- Malangizo othandiza kulera ana
Maukwati achiwiri atha kukhala achimwemwe ndi chisangalalo poyambira banja lanu latsopano. Mukalowa m'mabanja awiri ndikofunikira kukambirana za gawo la kholo lililonses ndi ziyembekezo musanapite limodzi. Mwachitsanzo, udindo wa kholo kwa mwana aliyense ndi uti, kodi munthu aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi ana ake omwe? Mwachidziwitso izi zikuwoneka ngati pulani yayikulu, komabe, njirayi imagwira ntchito kawirikawiri. Kodi mungakhale pansi ndikuwona mwana akuthamangitsidwa ndi magalimoto? Ndife anthu ndipo timavutika kuti tisatenge nawo gawo tikawona wina amene timamukonda atakwiya.
Kukhala ndi zokambirana zamtunduwu zakulera kwanu ndi kukhazikitsa malire kungathandize kuchepetsa kusamvana ndikupatsani mapu oti mutsatire mtsogolo.
Yambani kukonzekera tsiku lalikulu
Musanakhale limodzi lankhulani momasuka za nzeru zanu zakulera. Mumalera bwanji mwana wanu? Kodi khalidwe lovomerezeka kuchokera kwa mwana ndi lotani? Kodi mumalimbitsa bwanji machitidwe oyenera ndikulanga machitidwe osayenera? Ndi njira ziti zomwe mwakhazikitsa kale? Mwachitsanzo, makolo ena ali bwino ndi TV mchipinda chogona pomwe ena alibe. Ngati mungasunthire pamodzi ndipo mwana m'modzi yekha ndi amene amaloledwa pa TV zimatha kubweretsa mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo.
Ganizirani za komwe mwana wanu amakhala, komwe amakhala, ndi zochitika zina zoyipa kwambiri, ndikuwunika momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito limodzi. Ngati mungakonzekere ndikupatsa aliyense m'banjamo maudindo ndi udindo, ngakhale makolo omwe ali ndi mitundu yosiyana yakulera akhoza kukhala kholo limodzi moyenera.
Khazikitsani machitidwe oyenera koyambirira
Khazikitsani zizolowezi zabwino pazolumikizana. Konzekerani nthawi sabata iliyonse kuti muzikhala pansi monga banja ndikukambirana zomwe zikuyenda bwino, ndi zomwe zingafune kusinthidwa. Palibe munthu amene amafuna kumva zomwe akuchita bwino, Chifukwa chake ngati mungayambe kukhala ndi chizolowezi chodyera limodzi ndikulankhula momasuka za tsiku lanu, ndiye kuti ana anu atha kulandira mayankho mtsogolo. Ngati muli ndi mwana amene amakwiya chifukwa cha ubale wanu watsopano, kapena osalankhula kwambiri poyambira, yesani kusewera masewera pa chakudya chamadzulo.
Lembani malamulo am'banja ndikuti mukhale nawo kulikonse komwe aliyense angawone. Ndibwino kuti mukhale pansi ndi ana anu ndikukambirana momwe banja lililonse lingakhalire ndi malamulo osiyanasiyana ndipo popeza nonse mukukhalira limodzi mukufuna kukhazikitsa malamulo atsopano ndi malingaliro ochokera kwa aliyense. Funsani ana zomwe akuganiza kuti ndizofunikira kukhala m'nyumba yolemekezeka.
Sungani malamulowo mophweka ndikusankha limodzi pazotsatira zosatsatira malamulowo. Ngati aliyense akutenga nawo mbali podziwa malamulo ndi zotsatirapo zake mumakhala ndi mgwirizano wobwereranso pomwe sizikutsatiridwa.
Lembani akaunti yanu yakubanki
Kodi mungapite kukagula zinthu popanda ndalama kubanki? Kulera ana a wina popanda china kubanki sikugwira ntchito. Tikakhala ndi mwana pamakhala masiku ndi usana wodzazidwa ndi zikutokota, chisangalalo cha zochitika zazikulu komanso kulumikizana kwamphamvu. Timafunikira mphindi izi kuti tikwaniritse akaunti yathu yakubanki yoleza mtima komanso kusasinthasintha. Ndikofunika kuti kholo lirilonse likhale ndi nthawi ndi mwana wake watsopano woti apange ubale ndikulimbitsa ubale.
Yesetsani kupatula nthawi mlungu uliwonse kuti muchite zinthu zabwino kuti ikafika nthawi yoti mutsimikizire malamulo am'banja, mudzakhala ndi akaunti yabwino yosunga chipiriro kuti muthane ndi zomwe mwanayo akuchita, ndipo mwanayo adzamva kuti akukondani mokwanira kuti azilemekeza malire ake. Mukawona kuti mwanayo akukunyalanyazani nthawi zonse, akumenyera malamulo am'banja, kapena kuchita izi zitha kukhala chisonyezo choti kulumikizana pakati pa kholo lopeza ndi mwanayo kuyenera kuwunikidwanso. Kusagwirizana ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera komanso zomwe mumachita ndi gawo lofunikira pakupanga mgwirizano wotetezeka.
Onani zinthu moyenera
Anthu sasintha mwadzidzidzi. Zitenga nthawi kuti aliyense azolowere nyumba yatsopano. Kodi mudapitako kusukulu kapena kumsasa wachilimwe? Panali mphindi zodzaza ndi chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo, komanso kupsinjika kokhudzana ndi kuthana ndi anthu atsopano m'moyo wanu. Kuphatikiza mabanja kungakhale chimodzimodzi; wodzazidwa ndi chisangalalo ndi kupsinjika. Apatseni aliyense nthawi ndi malo kuti athane ndi malingaliro ndikulemekeza malingaliro aliwonse omwe angakhalepo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwana wanu akunena kuti amadana ndi kholo lawo latsopano amuloleza mwana wanu kuti afufuze zomwe zimayambitsa kumverera kumeneku komanso zomwe zingamuthandize kuti akhale bwino ndi chibwenzi chatsopanocho.
Patsani mwana wanu zida zofotokozera zakukhosi kwake munjira yabwino. Mwachitsanzo, mungamupatse magazini yapadera yomwe ingagwiritsidwe ntchito kujambula kapena kulemba. Magaziniyi itha kukhala malo otetezeka pomwe chilichonse chitha kufotokozedwa ndipo mwana wanu atha kusankha ngati angafune kugawana nanu. Ngati pakadutsa miyezi 6 mupeza kuti pali zovuta zambiri kuposa mgwirizano zitha kukhala zabwino kukambirana ndi katswiri.