Zamkati
- Magawo asanu oyankhulana
- Maanja sagwiritsa ntchito magawo anayi ndi asanu
- Kutanthauzira kolakwika pamlingo wachitatu
- Mulingo wagolide wolumikizirana - Mulingo wachinayi
- Gawo lachisanu - Njira yosangalatsa yolumikizirana
Tonsefe timamvetsetsa kufunika kwa kulumikizana mbanja, koma kodi mukudziwa njira zosiyanasiyana zoyankhulirana mbanja?
Popita nthawi, Anthu okwatirana amakhala ndi njira yolankhulirana yapadera. Nthawi zina banja limatha kulankhulana poyang'anizana basi — inuyo mumadziwa! —Ndipo uthengawo umamveka poyera.
Koma maanja ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito njira zisanu zoyankhulirana mbanja akamalankhulana.
Kutengera ndi zomwe takambirana, maanja atha kugwiritsa ntchito mulingo umodzi, iwiri, kapena isanu, kusakaniza malinga ndi zomwe banjali likufuna kunena.
Kusiyanasiyana komanso pafupipafupi momwe kulumikizana kumeneku kumayendetsedwa pokambirana kumakhudza kukonza kapena kukulitsa nkhani zoyankhulana m'banja.
Onaninso:
Magawo asanu oyankhulana
- Kunena mawu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri: Mawu omwe samatanthawuza kwenikweni, koma amateteza mafuta pamawu azokambirana. Chitsanzo cha izi chingakhale kusinthana kwachizolowezi monga "Muli bwanji?" kapena "Khalani ndi tsiku lopambana!" Awa ndi mawu omwe tonsefe timagwiritsa ntchito tsiku lililonse, zosangalatsa zomwe palibe amene amaganizira mozama, koma ife monga gulu timayamikirabe.
- Kulumikizana zopempha zochokera: Iyi ndi imodzi mwa njira zofala kwambiri zolumikizirana mbanja pakati pawo pamene akuyamba tsiku lawo: “Kodi mungatenge mkaka wina pobwerera kunyumba usikuuno?” “Galimoto imafunikira konzedwe. Kodi mungayitane garaja ndikuyikonza? ” Mulingo wolumikiziranawu umayenera kukhala wachangu komanso wosavuta. Palibe malingaliro ambiri operekedwa pakuyika kumverera kulikonse kapena kutengeka mu pempholi. Ndizothandiza ndikuwongolera ndikupanga ntchitoyo.
- Kunena malingaliro kapena malingaliro, mwina chowonadi kapena chokhudzika: Chitsanzo cha izi ndikuti, "Ndikuganiza kuti kungakhale kulakwitsa kuchotsa Katie kusukulu yaboma. Tsopano akuchita bwino kusukulu kuposa nthawi yomwe anali pasukulu yaboma. ” Mukatsegula zokambirana ndi mnzanu ndi malingaliro, mutha kuzisunga ndi umboni (pamenepo, malipoti) kapena momwe mukumvera (pankhaniyi, mutha kuloza mwana wanu kukhala wosangalala pokhala mwa iye sukulu yatsopano). Mulingo wolumikiziranawu umayenera kutsegulira zokambirana zambiri.
- Kugawana zakukhosi kwanu: Apa tikufikira kulumikizana kwakuya mkati mwa banjali, chifukwa mulingo uwu ukutanthauza kuti afikira pakulumikizana kwakuthupi, komwe kumawalola kuti azikhala omasuka komanso otetezeka wina ndi mnzake.
- Kulankhula ndi kumvana ku zosowa za wina ndi mnzake: Monga momwe ziliri ndi gawo lachinayi, maanja omwe amagwiritsa ntchito njira yolankhuliranayi mbanja amakhala ndi chidaliro chenicheni pakati pawo, kuwalola kuti azimvetserana wina ndi mnzake mwachidwi, ndikuvomereza kuti awamva ndi kuwamvetsetsa. Uwu ndi mulingo wokhutiritsa kwambiri momwe mungalumikizirane.
Titha kulingalira za magulu asanuwa ngati makwerero opezera gawo lomwe mabanja achimwemwe, athanzi mwauzimu amalakalaka.
Maanja sagwiritsa ntchito magawo anayi ndi asanu
Awiri omwe kulumikizana kwawo kumakhalabe gawo limodzi kapena awiri, mwachitsanzo, angakhale banja lomwe lingapindule chifukwa chokhala nthawi yayitali kuphunzira njira yolumikizirana.
Zingakhale zosakhutiritsa bwanji kuchepetsa kukambirana ndi mnzanuyo kungogwirana mawu ndi malangizo.
Komabe pali mabanja omwe amagwera mumsampha wogwiritsa ntchito gawo limodzi kapena awiri nthawi yotopetsa, amatero sabata lopenga kuntchito, kapena nyumba yodzaza ndi anthu tchuthi.
Okwatirana amakhala ngati zombo zomwe zimadutsa usiku, ndikumangokhalira kulankhulana mawu ochepa.
Nthawi zotanganidwa izi, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti ngakhale mumakhala ndi nthawi yochepa yokwanira kukhala pansi ndikulankhulana bwino, kuyang'ana ndi mnzanu, ngakhale kwa mphindi 5-10, kuti muwone momwe akukhalira momwe kuwonetsa chikondi chanu ndi kuyamikira mnzanu.
Kutanthauzira kolakwika pamlingo wachitatu
Nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito poyambitsa zokambirana zabwino ndipo ikhoza kukhala njira yabwino kwambiri yotsegulira zokambirana zomwe zipitirire mpaka kumagulu omwe akumva malingaliro, ndipo inu ndi mnzanu mukumverana ndi chisamaliro.
Mungafune kutero samalani kuti musakhale pa mulingo wachitatu, chifukwa zimatha kukhala ngati kulangiza mnzanu osati zokambirana zabwino za nthawi ndi nthawi.
Kumbukirani, mukamapereka lingaliro, nthawi zonse ndibwino kuyika ochepa "Mukuganiza bwanji?" ndiponso “Kodi izi ndi zomveka?” kuti mupereke zokambiranazo kwa mnzanu.
Mulingo wagolide wolumikizirana - Mulingo wachinayi
Ndichinthu chomwe mabanja akufuna kuyesetsa kuchita. Kufika pamlingo uwu kumatanthauza kuti mwamanga ubale wotetezeka, wolimba, komanso wolimba, womwe umapatsana zosowa za wina ndi mnzake ndikufotokozana moona mtima.
Ngakhale palibe banja lomwe lingathe kulankhulana pokhapokha mulingo wachisanu, mutha kuzindikira banja lomwe lafika pamlingo uwu mwa momwe amamvera wina ndi mnzake, komanso momwe amawonera malankhulidwe a wina ndi mnzake, kuwonetsa kuti akhala akumvetsera mwatcheru zomwe mnzakeyo ali kugawana.
Gawo lachisanu - Njira yosangalatsa yolumikizirana
Mulingo wachisanu ndi umboni wa kukondana komanso kutonthoza m'banja. Ndi mulingo wofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito mukazindikira kuti mkangano wayamba, ndipo mukufuna kuwonjezera mavuto omwe ali pafupi.
“Ndikukuwuzani kuti mwakhumudwa, ndipo ndikufuna kudziwa momwe ndingathandizire. Chikuchitika ndi chiani?" Iyi ndi njira yabwino yobweretsera zokambiranazo pamlingo wachisanu zinthu zikayamba kutentha.
Kaya chilankhulo chanu chachinsinsi chili ndi mnzanuyo, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito magawo anayi kapena asanu osachepera mphindi 30 patsiku.
Izi zikuthandizani kuti nonse muzimva kuthandizidwa ndikumvetsetsa, zinthu ziwiri zofunika kwambiri kuti banja likhale losangalala.
Kudziwa chifukwa chake kulumikizana ndikofunikira m'banja komanso momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana zolumikizirana m'banja kungathandize kwambiri kulimbitsa mgwirizano pakati pa anthu okwatirana ndikupangitsa kuti banja likhale losangalala.