Zamkati
- Kulandila
- Kudzidalira
- Kukambirana
- Kuwona
- Kudziimira pawokha
- Kumanga ego
- Kuzindikira zochitika zowunikira gasi
Muubwenzi, sizikhala za 'Ine', 'Ine' ndi 'Ine ndekha'. M'malo mwake, ndi za 'Ife', 'Ife' ndi 'Tokha'. Komabe, pamakhala nthawi zina pomwe munthu amatha kukondana ndi wina yemwe anali mgululi. Kukhala nawo nthawi yocheza ndikovuta, kukhala nokha kukhala paubwenzi ndi iwo.
Koma nthawi zina umakondana ndi munthu yemwe ndi wankhanza. Poyamba, zikuwoneka kuti sizikukuvutitsani koma mukamagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yambiri, mumazindikira kuti zikuvutadi. Popeza kuti mumakondana komanso muli pachibwenzi, mukungofuna kubweretsa izi chifukwa chotsutsana. Pokumbukira izi, timabweretsa kwa inu mayankho amomwe mungakhalire ndi wamankhwala osokoneza bongo ndikuchita nawo.
Kulandila
Tonsefe tikufuna kukhala ndi munthu wangwiro wamaloto athu, koma zenizeni ndizosiyana. Ngakhale tikufuna kusintha zizolowezi zochepa zofunikira, tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti zinthu zina sizingasinthike. Ndi gawo la chikhalidwe chawo komanso kukhalapo kwawo.
Njira yabwino kwambiri yochitira izi ndikupanga mtendere nawo. Tikamawalandira mwachangu momwe alili, posakhalitsa timakonza miyoyo yathu.
Sikoyenera kuti tizisinthire tokha m'malo mongozilandira ndi mtima wonse. Ndizovuta koma ndichinthu choyenera kuchita.
Kudzidalira
Sizovuta kukhala ndi munthu yemwe samachita manyazi kukuwonetsani zochitika zambiri. Ndizopweteketsa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina zimatha kukuyikani pachiwonetsero choti mutha kumadzikayikira.
Mwina sakufuna kuti mukayikire kudzidalira kwanu koma mosazindikira muzichita. Njira yabwino yothanirana ndi izi ndikupitiliza kudzidalira, zivute zitani.
Tengani zonse zomwe akunena ndi mchere wambiri ndipo muvale kumwetulira kumaso. Amangokhala ngati sizitanthauza kuti samakukondani konse.
Kukambirana
Ndikofunikira kuti muzitha kukambirana bwino mukamayesetsa kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire ndi wolemba nkhani. Pali zinthu zingapo zomwe ndizololera ndipo zina sizili choncho. Ndi kwa inu komwe mumalemba mzerewo.
Onetsetsani kuti simumawachitira nkhanza kwambiri mukamajambula mzerewu ndipo simuli omvera kwambiri.
Muyenera kuphunzira kukambirana m'malo osiyanasiyana ndikuwapangitsa kumvetsetsa. Zitha kumveka zopanda pake nthawi zina koma ayenera kudziwitsidwa za izi akamawoloka mizere.
Kuwona
Kuwona ndichinsinsi chakuchita bwino. Inde, n’zoonadi. Ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse nthawi yomwe akuwoloka mzere komanso nthawi yomwe mukuyenera kukweza mbendera. Izi zitha kuchitika pokhapokha mukawawona moyenera.
Atha kumangochita mopupuluma koma ndiudindo wanu kuwatsogolera moyenera. Wolemba zamatsenga amatha kukuimba mlandu pazinthu zomwe simunachite. Koma simukudziwa chilankhulo chawo mwina mutha kudziimba mlandu pazomwe zachitika.
Chifukwa chake, phunzirani zolankhula zawo, ziwoneni ndikumvetsetsa kulumikizana kwawo kopanda mawu kuti mumvetsetse bwino.
Kudziimira pawokha
Wolemba zamankhwala angafune kuti muzidalira kwathunthu. Komabe, izi sizingakhale zabwino kwenikweni kwa inu. Muyenera kuphunzira kudziyimira pawokha. Mu chibwenzi, sizabwino kwenikweni kudalira wina.
Nthawi zonse kumakhala kofunikira kuti musunge malingaliro anu abwino ndikukhala pawokha.
Simungadziwe koma atha kumakulemekezani chifukwa chodzidalira komanso kudziyimira pawokha.
Kumanga ego
Inde, zitha kugwira ntchito! Popeza kuti wankhanza amangoganiza za iwo okha ndipo amadziona kuti ndiotengeka, sikulakwa kukulitsa malingaliro awo, koma moyenera. Apatseni mayamiko nthawi ndi nthawi. Adziwitseni kuti mumayamikira khama lawo.
Mwanjira imeneyi, pomwe mukukulitsa kudzidalira kwawo moyenera, mukuwathandizanso kuti akuyamikireni.
Kuyamikiraku kungapangitse moyo wanu kukhala wosavuta komanso wosalala.
Kuzindikira zochitika zowunikira gasi
Kuunikira kwamagesi kumakhala koona zikafika pothana ndi wolemba nkhani. Amatha kukusungirani zofunikira ndipo atha kuzisinthanitsa ndi zabodza. Popeza ndiwofunika kwambiri ndipo mumawakhulupirira chifukwa cha zomwe ali, mutha kuwakhulupirira.
Komabe, samalangizidwa kutero. Muyenera kudziwa kuthekera kwa kuyatsa gasi ndikuyesera kuti mupeze chowonadi pakukambirana kwawo. Kukhulupirira mwakhungu zonse zomwe akunena kungakupangitseni ku zovuta.
Mukamakonda munthu mumamulola kuti alowe. Komabe, mukamakondana ndi wamisala, mfundo zomwe tatchulazi zikuthandizani kuwongolera momwe mungakhalire ndi wamisala. Onetsetsani kuti ndinu anzeru mokwanira kuti muwazindikire pa nthawi yake ndikuchitapo kanthu moyenera kuti mukhale ndi moyo wathanzi komanso wokongola.