Zamkati
- Maukwati osalephera
- Momwe mungapulumutsire banja
- Dziyang'anireni nokha
- Kulankhulana ndikofunikira
- Chotsani ma vibes olakwika
- Njira zopulumutsira banja lanu ku chisudzulo
Maukwati osalephera
Anthu awiri akalumikizana ndikukhala limodzi m'banja, amalumbira kuti adzakhala limodzi kwa moyo wawo wonse ndikulonjeza kuthana ndi chilichonse chomwe chingawachitikire. M'kupita kwa nthawi, kupatulika kwa ukwati kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kusunga.
Mavuto amayamba kuchepa, ndipo posakhalitsa, onse awiri amayang'ana ukwati wawo ukuwonongeka pamaso pawo. Pamenepo, kumakhala kofunikira kuti onse awiri azindikire zinthu zoti muchite kuti mupulumutse banja izo zinamangidwa pa maziko a chikondi ndi kudalirana.
Nthawi zambiri anthu omwe amavutika muukwati amati 'Ndikumva kuti palibe chiyembekezo m'banja langa'. Kudzimva wokhumudwa kotereku kumachokera mumtima mwanu, zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva kuti palibe chomwe mumachita ndichokwanira, ndipo mulibe banja.
Komabe, ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuti ukwati sikungoyenda paki kapena masiku osangalatsa a usiku ndi utawaleza kumwamba. Ukwati ndi mgwirizano wapakati pa anthu awiri womwe umafuna chikondi, kudzipereka komanso ndalama zambiri kuti ugwire ntchito.
Ngati mukuwona ngati ubale wanu ndi mnzanu ndi wosasunthika, ndipo mukufuna kudziwa Njira yabwino yopulumutsira banja, kungakhale kudziyang'ana nokha ndikuyang'ana mkati mwa mavuto anu.
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Momwe mungapulumutsire banja
Ngati mukufunafuna maupangiri oti musunge banja losalephera, kapena zomwe mungachite kuti mupulumutse banja, ndiye kuti muli pamalo oyenera. Pali malangizo ambiri omwe mungatenge kuti banja lopanda chiyembekezo likhale labwino.
Komanso Penyani:
Nazi zinthu zingapo zomwe zingathandize kuti banja lisasokonezeke:
Dziyang'anireni nokha
Choyamba, ndikofunikira kuyang'ana mkati ndikuwona zovuta zomwe zikukukhudzani. Nthawi zambiri, maubale ogwira ntchito amamangidwa ngati wina amadziyang'anira pawokha ndikuyesera kukhala munthu wabwino kwa ena ofunika.
Ngati mukumva ngati simukudziwa kuti ndi chiyani, muyenera kupita ku gawo lina, lomwe ndikufunsa mnzanu zomwe akuwona kuti ndizolakwika.
Kulankhulana ndikofunikira
Kwambiri Njira yabwino yopulumutsira banja mungakhale kulankhulana ndi mnzanu.Nthawi zambiri, kusalumikizana ndi mnzake kumabweretsa kusamvetsetsana komanso kusokonezeka.
Simungayembekezere wina wanu wofunika kudziwa momwe mukumvera kapena kuganiza momwe akumvera pazinthu zina.
Izi ziyembekezo sizibereka zipatso ndipo nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa mikangano ndi ndewu. Pofuna kuthana ndi malingaliro olakwika amtundu uliwonse, muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino yolankhulana ndi mnzanu ndikulankhula zomwe zimawakhumudwitsa ndikuwadziwitsa zomwe zimakukwiyitsani.
Khalani achindunji mukamayankhula ndi wokondedwa wanu pofotokoza mavuto omwe mukukumana nawo mbanja mwanu. Mukapanga zambiri, sizingabweretse kumveka kwa aliyense wa inu ndipo mudzasokonezeka kwambiri kuposa kale.
Mukamalankhula momasuka ndi mnzanu, nonse mumadziwa bwino zomwe mukufuna ndikuyembekezera kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake, ndipo zimawonekeratu kuti mwazindikira komwe mwalakwitsa.
Komanso, mvetserani bwino ndikuyesetsa kudziyesa nokha kuti mumvetsetse momwe zinthu zilili. Ukwati ndi wa "ife" ndi "ife", osati "Ine" ndi "ine".
Chotsani ma vibes olakwika
Ngati mukuganiza choti ndinene kupulumutsa ukwati, nsonga iyi ndi yanu. Musasunge mkhalidwe wakupha pomwe mumangokhalira kukangana ndi mnzanu, kukangana nawo nthawi zonse, kapena kuwalamulira m'malingaliro.
Ngati mungakhazikitse malo okhala ndi kusasamala ndi nkhanza, simudzatha kukula ndi kukondana kapena kumanga nyumba yosamalira ana anu. Muyenera kukhala oleza mtima ndi odekha ndikuyesetsa kukhala munthu wabwino m'banja kuti mupulumutse banja lanu.
Mawu osavuta achikondi, okoma mtima, ndi achifundo, kufunsa mnzanu momwe tsiku lawo layendera, kuwawuza kuti mwawaphonya ndi zinthu zochepa zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti mumasamala za wokondedwa wanu ndipo mukufuna kukonza banja lanu lomwe likufooka.
Njira zopulumutsira banja lanu ku chisudzulo
Ngati mukumva ukwati wanu ukutha, mwina chifukwa cha inu! Musanayambe kuimba mlandu, dziyang'anani nokha ndi kusanthula chomwe chinalakwika kuti banja lanu lili pafupi kutha lero.
Kodi mnzanu sakukondweretsaninso? Nchiyani chinamupangitsa kuti akhale motalikirana ndi inu? Kodi mwakhala mukumupatsa nthawi yokwanira kapena chisamaliro chokwanira, kapena simunamuthandize?
Osanenapo za chisudzulo ndi mnzanu, tengani magawo khumi mmbuyo ndikuganiza modekha komanso mozama musanasunthe. Simukufuna kuti kutenthedwa maganizo kuthe zomwe muli nazo ndi mnzanu, ndipo zomwe mumachita nthawi zambiri zimanong'oneza bondo pambuyo pake.
Kutenga
Pazonse, ngati mukukhala wopanda chiyembekezo muukwati, ndipo mukumva kuti mutha kutaya mnzanu, malangizo opulumutsa mabanja ndi anu. Osataya mtima pano, yesetsani kukhala munthu wabwino komanso lpezani kukhululuka ndi kuyiwala.
Ukwati umangokhudza za chifundo, chikondi, ndi kunyengerera. Ngati banja silikufuna kuti mukhale munthu wabwino, mwina mnzanuyo si munthu woyenera.
Koma ngati mukufunitsitsa kuchita zoposa pamenepa kuti mupulumutse banja lanu lomwe likulephera, muyenera kuganizira zodzikongoletsa nokha kuyang'ana mkati kuti mupeze kusintha mbanja lanu. Pali chiyembekezo nthawi zonse.