Maubale akutali akuchulukirachulukira; kaya ndizosintha pantchito, zofuna za mabanja, kapena kutumizidwa kunkhondo pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe maanja amatha kukhala mbali ziwiri zapadziko lapansi. Musakhulupirire onsewo; ngati ubalewo ndiwofunika, upambana. Ndizotheka, kungoti anthu awiriwo muubwenzi akuyenera kukhala ndi ulemu komanso kusamalira chiyanjano chimodzimodzi monga mnzake. Ndizovuta kuchoka pakuwona munthu amene mumamukonda tsiku lililonse ndikumuwona kangapo pachaka. Palinso mkhalidwe womwe anthu awiri amakondana koma sanakhaleko mumzinda umodzi. Mwanjira iliyonse, kukhala kutali ndi zina zofunika ndizovuta. Nawa maupangiri ochepa oti muthandizire:
1. Fotokozani ziyembekezo musanapatuke
Mosasamala kanthu kuti nkhani yakulekana idabwera musanachite kapena mutakhala pachibwenzi, ndikofunikira kuti mukambirane zomwe mukufuna. Tsiku lenileni logwirizananso simuli m'manja mwanu nthawi zonse, koma liyenera kukhala mutu wazokambirana ndi zomwe mukukonzekera ndikugwirira ntchito. Kulekanitsidwa kwamuyaya kumawonjezera kupsinjika kowonjezera komanso kusatsimikizika kwa ubale uliwonse. Kambiranani ndi kukhazikitsa malire okhudzana ndi abwenzi omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzanu ndipo mulemekeze zomwe muli pachibwenzi kapena zomwe simumasangalala nazo. Mvetsetsani zomwe ena akuyembekeza kuchitira limodzi kapena gulu limodzi ndikukonzekera momwe angalankhulire bwino.
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2. Dongosolo Lokhazikika "Mausiku Amasiku"
Chibwenzi sichiyenera kukhala pamasom'pamaso. Cholinga cha tsiku ndikudziwana bwino, kugawana zomwezo ndikusangalala. Kambiranani za momwe mungalumikizirane. Ngati bwenzi lanu litumizidwa kunkhondo, atha kukhala ochepa kwambiri pa nthawi yomwe amakulemberani. Ngati mnzanu akupita kukoleji kudera lina kapena paulendo wochulukirapo wa bizinesi, "masiku ausiku" wamba akhoza kukhala osavuta. Sankhani zomwe zingathandize kwa banja lanu ndi zomwe zili zoyenera malinga ndi mikhalidwe yanu. Ndikofunikira kuti musangoyang'ana pazomwe zimamveka bwino kwa inu, komanso kuti mumvetsetse momwe bwenzi lanu limamvera. Zomwe mukuyembekezera zitha kukhala zosiyana kwambiri chifukwa ndikofunikira kuti musinthe, kuchitapo kanthu moyenera, ndikutsatira!
3. Konzani Zochezera Kwa Anthu
Kuyimbira foni ndi maimelo nthawi zambiri sikokwanira kuti mukhalebe ogwirizana kwakanthawi. Kuyankhulana ndi gawo lofunikira, koma kucheza nthawi yofunikira ndikofunika kwambiri kwa anthu otomerana (momwe mungathere). Chitani zomwe mumakonda monga banja ndikukhala ndimakumbukiro ndi miyambo yomwe mumagawana limodzi.
Mukakhala pamodzi, sangalalani! Nthawi imadutsa koma onetsetsani kuti mwasankha nthawi yokambirana zaukwati, moyo (ntchito, ndalama, banja, ndi zina zambiri) ndi zovuta zilizonse zomwe zingachitike pakati pa inu nonse (zomwe nthawi zambiri zimathetsedwa pamasom'pamaso). Ngakhale kukhala ndi nthawi yokambirana nkhani zikuluzikulu kapena zovuta siosangalatsa, kuphunzira kutero kumalimbitsa banja lanu lamtsogolo. Ngakhale simukufuna kuti muchepetse nthawi yocheperako yomwe mungaonane pamasom'pamaso, ndikofunikira kukambirana momasuka pagulu.
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4. Khalani Opanga ndi Kuyanjana kwanu
Ganizirani njira zina zapadera zolumikizirana ndi mnzanu. Kudabwitsani bwenzi lanu ndi kutsatsa kwa "Ndimakukondani" mgawo la classifieds la nyuzipepala yakomweko. Siyani mauthenga amvekedwe kapena uthenga wa kanema kuti mnzanu akumve / akuwoneni. Usiku watsiku ndi tsiku, lendi kanema womwewo, muwone nthawi yomweyo ndikukambirana nawo pambuyo pake. Lembani makalata ndi kutumiza phukusi la chisamaliro. Sikuti bwenzi lanu lidzangokhala ndi china chakuthupi chomukumbutsa iye, koma izi zikuwonetsa kuti mudatenga nthawi yochulukirapo (pamwambapa kupitilira imelo kapena foni mwachangu) kuti mumve kuti ndiwofunika.
5. Khulupirirani ndi Kukhulupiriridwa
Ngakhale zitha kukhala zovuta nthawi zina, yesetsani kuti musalingalire za zomwe bwenzi lanu likuchita mukakhala kuti mulibe. Momwemonso, mukufuna kumupatsa zifukwa zonse zokhalira kukukhulupirirani. Musadziike nokha pangozi. Gwiritsani ntchito mwanzeru mukamacheza ndi anyamata kapena atsikana. Akanakhala kuti chibwenzi chanu chinalipo, kodi kulumikizana kumeneku kumamupangitsa kuti asakhale womasuka? Ngati yankho ndi lakuti inde, ndi bwino kupewa zinthu ngati zimenezi.
Mvetsetsani kuti anthu ndi zochitika zikusintha mosalekeza, ndikuti kulekanitsidwa kungatanthauze kuti nonse muli ndi zokumana nazo zosiyanasiyana. Lankhulani za izi ndikuphunzira kukula limodzi kudzera mukukumana nazo. Kulankhulana moyenera komanso pafupipafupi kuyenera kuthana ndi nkhawa zilizonse zomwe mungakhale nazo.
Kukhala wolumikizana ndi bwenzi lanu mutakhala patali ndizotheka. Ndikofunika kukambirana momasuka za malire ndi ziyembekezo zomwe aliyense ali nazo paubwenzi wawo ndikupitiliza kulumikizana momasuka. Ndipo kumbukirani, khalani opanga!
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