Zamkati
- 1. Ikani nthawi pamodzi
- 2. Mikangano ilibe "wopambana" kapena "wotayika"
- 3. Khalani patsamba limodzi lokhudza kulera ana
- 4. Pezani zifukwa zambiri zosekera
- 5. Phunzirani kumvetsera kwa wokondedwa wanu
- 6. Muziyamikira mnzanu
Mawu opanda nzeru anzeru omwe makolo angapereke kwa ana awo
Upangiri Wokwatirana Kwanthawi Zonse
Upangiri Waubwenzi Wochokera Kwa Makolo
Pomwe nthawi zimasintha ndipo mibadwo imakhazikitsa zikhalidwe zawo, zinthu zina sizisintha. Tenga mwachitsanzo zinthu zopangira banja losangalala. Malangizo aukwati osatha awa sanakhalepo ndipo sangasinthe posachedwa.
Malingana ngati anthu akukwatirana, pali zinthu zina zomwe angachite kuti akhale ndi mwayi wokhala ndi banja labwino.
Ana a digito omwe angaganize kuti awa ndi malangizo achikale, koma akuyenera kudziwa zina mwazinthuzi pamene akukonzekera kuchoka pachisa ndikupanga mabanja awo achimwemwe.
Nawa maupangiri aubwenzi wosatha wa makolo omwe angathandize mbadwo watsopano kuthana ndi banja lawo ngati katswiri.
1. Ikani nthawi pamodzi
Ndi malangizo ati omwe angakhale abwino kwanthawi zonse kwa ana kuposa kusankha nthawi yocheza? Patulani nthawi sabata iliyonse kuti mukhale nokha ndi mnzanu. Sichiyenera kukhala chinthu chapamwamba- tsiku lodyera, kupita kokayenda kapena kujambula kanema.
Chilichonse chomwe mungakonze, onetsetsani kuti mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu m'banja lanu ngati mukufuna kuti liziyenda bwino.
2. Mikangano ilibe "wopambana" kapena "wotayika"
Nthawi zina kukangana sikungapeweke.
Komabe, muyenera kukumbukira kuti ndinu othandizana nawo kotero mumapambana kapena kutaya limodzi. Nthawi zonse zimakhala bwino kuphunzira momwe mungapewere mikangano yochulukirapo pomwe mukugwira ntchito limodzi kuti mupeze yankho.
Ili ndi limodzi mwa malangizo abwino kwambiri okwatirana nthawi zonse omwe mungapeze kuchokera kwa makolo anu.
3. Khalani patsamba limodzi lokhudza kulera ana
Ana, makamaka achinyamata, amakonda kukankhira malire kuti awone ngati angathe kuwongolera kuti athe kuchita zomwe akufuna.
Chinyengo chodzakhala pamwamba nthawi zonse kukhala patsamba limodzi ndi mnzanu ndikupeza njira zokuthandizani kulumikizana ndi ana anu. Sankhani limodzi malamulo omwe ana ayenera kutsatira komanso zotsatirapo zakusamvera malamulowo.
4. Pezani zifukwa zambiri zosekera
Upangiri wina wamabanja wosatha ndikupeza zifukwa zokwanira zokaseka mokweza ndi mnzanu.
Kuseka ndiko kununkhira kwa moyo ndipo ngakhale pang'ono ya iyo imapita kutali.
Ngati mukulimbana ndi zovuta kapena mukumangokhala osiyana, pezani china choti museke. Kugawana mphindi zachisangalalo ndi mnzanu kumatha kubweretsa kuchepa ndi chisangalalo muukwati wanu, kuchepetsa mavuto ndikuthandizani kulumikizanso.
5. Phunzirani kumvetsera kwa wokondedwa wanu
Ngakhale ambiri a ife timafuna kumvedwa ndi kumvedwa, sitimakhala omvera. Timalola malingaliro athu kuyendayenda ndipo timangodikirira nthawi yathu yoti tilankhule, nthawi zina ngakhale mopupuluma kudula amuna kapena akazi athu pakulankhula.
Phunzirani kumvetsera ndikupezeka kwathunthu pamene wokondedwa wanu akulankhula. Izi zikutanthawuza kuyika foni yanu pansi, kuyang'ana kwambiri malingaliro anu, kufunsa mafunso komanso kuwonera zolankhula zawo. Kumvetsera kwa mnzanu kumatsimikizira momwe akumvera komanso kumawapangitsa kukhala amtengo wapatali.
Ndipo inde! Awa ndi amodzi mwamawu osasinthika anzeru omwe makolo angapatse ana awo.
6. Muziyamikira mnzanu
Osamutenga mnzanuyo ndi zomwe amachita mopepuka.
Pezani njira zochepa zowasonyezera kuti mumawayamikira. Komanso, nenani kuyamikira kwanu mwa mawu mwa kunena kuti zikomo ndi kuwadziwitsa kuti amatanthauza chiyani kwa inu komanso momwe mumayamikirira chifukwa cha zomwe ali komanso chifukwa cha zomwe amachita.
Izi zikutsimikizira kuti amayamikiridwa komanso kukondedwa, kuwalimbikitsa kuti apitilizebe kuyanjana.
Ana athu 'akula munthawi yomwe machitidwe ambiri amachitidwe ndi anthu pazithunzi. Komabe, kuti akhale ndi maukwati akulu, ayenera kuphunzira momwe angaikire zofuna za ena patsogolo pa zawo komanso ngakhale kutsatira malangizo am'banja osasinthika omwe athandiza maanja ambiri m'mibadwo yambiri.