Zamkati
Zabwino zonse! Mudati inde kwa yemwe mumamukonda kwambiri, ndipo tsopano mukukonzekera ukwati wamaloto anu! Inu ndi mnzanu wamtsogolo mudzakhala miyezi ingapo ikukonzekera chochitika chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wanu (ndipo mwachiyembekezo ndikukhala kokasangalala kokongola!). Ngakhale ndizosavuta kutenga nawo gawo pakukonzekera ndi kusungitsa nthawi, musaiwale gawo lofunikira kwambiri patsiku labwino kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Inde, maluwa, kavalidwe, malo, zokoma, chakudya chamadzulo, ndi nyimbo zonse ndizofunikira. Koma "tsiku labwino koposa" ndi maola makumi awiri mphambu anayi okha. Ukwati wanu, Komano, ndi wamuyaya. Tikukhulupirira kuti tsiku limodzi lokha lidzakhala zonse zomwe mukuyembekezera, koma osatayika mukukonzekera ndikuyiwala kukonzekera mtima wanu ndi malingaliro anu pazofunikira kwambiri: kuyenda moyo wanu wonse pambali pa womwe mumamukonda.
Mfumukazi yovina
Monga mkwatibwi amene adzakhalepo, pali zosintha zambiri zatsopano komanso zosangalatsa zomwe zikuchitika. Osangokhala kuti ndiye wosamalira banja, komanso mudzakhala gawo logwirizana. Udindo wanu ngati "mfumukazi yovina" idzakhala kukuthandizani inu ndi mnzanuyo kupita kuntchito yofulumira. Monga banja mudzayenera kuphunzira momwe mungavinirane wina ndi mnzake mumitundu iwiri. Mudzafunika aliyense kudziwa masitepe a mnzake koma muzitha kulumikiza masitepewo kukhala gule wosalala komanso wamadzi. Komano, komabe, mudzafunabe kukhala kwa anthu omwe akuchita nokha. Izi sizoyipa kwenikweni. Kupatula apo, ubale wolimba komanso wathanzi umakhudza anthu awiri odziyimira pawokha omwe adadzipereka kuti akhale chinthu chimodzi chogwirira ntchito limodzi. Kungakhale kovuta kutenga, koma ndi imodzi yomwe, mutaphunzira, ili ngati kukwera njinga. Zidzangobwera mwachibadwa.
Perekani ndi kutenga
Ukwati ndiwopereka ndi kutenga mofanana. Kwa mkazi, izi nthawi zambiri zimatanthauza kuti kupatsa kwathu kumabwera monga chakudya, kuchapa, chidwi, komanso kukondana. Kupereka kwathu sikungokhala pazinthu izi, koma izi ndizomwe zimafunikira kwambiri. Pobwerera, mudzapatsidwa chidwi ndi nthawi, onse ndi mnzanu kapena wopanda. Zina mwazabwino kwambiri kukhala mkazi ndi zomwe mudzakhala nokha ndikusangalala ndi kusungulumwa komanso mtendere wamgwirizano. Banja labwino liyenera kukhala lopanda chikaiko kapena liwongo pamene mmodzi kapena onse awiri asankha kuthera nthawi yocheza ndi mnzake. Nthawi ino kupatukana sikuyenera kupitilira nthawi yochezera limodzi, koma munthu aliyense ayenera kukhala womasuka kuchita zinthu zina kunja kwa banja.
Zalangizidwa - Njira Yokwatirana Yoyambira Pa intaneti
Wills osati zitini
Ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu kuyembekeza yankho lachangu ngati mufunsa mnzanu funso la 'can' osati funso la 'chifuniro'. Funso la 'can' ndi lomwe mungafunse ngati angathe kuchita kanthu. Zachidziwikire, ngati mukufunsa, ali ndi kuthekera kwakuthupi ndi m'maganizo kutero. M'malo mongozisiya mwamwayi, fotokozani pempho lanu pogwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti 'chifuniro' m'malo mongonena kuti 'mungathe'. Kusintha kosavuta kwa chilankhulo sikungokulitsa luso lanu lolankhulana ndi mnzanu, komanso kungasinthe momwe zopempha zanu zimalandilidwira. M'malo mongomverera kuti akufuna kuti achite zinazake, mnzanu amamva ngati wapatsidwa chisankho ... Ngakhale sizingakhale choncho!
Mtsikana ali pamavuto
Monga mkazi, mwakhala kuti mwakhala nthawi yayitali mukukhala wodziyimira pawokha komanso wofunitsitsa kudzisamalira. Monga mkazi, tsopano mudzakhala ndi anthu awiri kapena kupitilira apo (malinga ndi momwe mungasankhire kukhala ndi ana kapena ayi). Izi sizikutanthauza kuti uyenera kukhala woposa akazi (ngakhale uli bwino mwina). M'malo mwake, izi zimakupatsani mwayi wosewera mtsikana ali pamavuto. Panali nthawi muubwenzi wanu pomwe mumamverera kuti mwasesedwa ndi mapazi anu ndi amuna anu. Bwanji osalola kuti kumangokupitilizabe kupatsa mnzanuyo mwayi wokutetezani? Inde, ngati mkazi wolimba, wodziyimira pawokha, mumatha kuthana ndi zinthuzi panokha. Koma zitha kuchititsa kuti ubale wanu ukhale wabwino kukhala ndi chizolowezi chololeza mnzanu kuti azichita ngati Prince wopulumutsa nthawi iliyonse.
Malangizo abwino kwa mkwatibwi kuti akonzekere ukwati womwe wakhala zaka zambiri akulakalaka, ndi osavuta: kuyembekezera zamtsogolo m'malo mongoyang'ana mphamvu zanu tsiku limodzi. Ukwati wanu ndi waufupi, koma ukwati wanu ndi wa moyo wonse.