Zamkati
Monga momwe anthu ena amayeserera, Ukwati ndi womwe umapanga tanthauzo komanso cholinga. Mwa kukwatiwa ndi winawake, mutha kuzipeza osati iwo okha komanso gawo lofunikira kwambiri lanu.
Mwakutero, anthu apeza momwe angakhalire akakhala pansi pa denga limodzi ndi lomwe amakonda.
Koma nthawi zambiri, anthu amaphonya mfundo imeneyi. Chifukwa amaganiza kuti ukwati ndi vuto limodzi pakati pawo, amawona ngati mgwirizano womwe uyenera kuthetsedwa limodzi.
Ngakhale izi ndi zoona, sizomwe zimachitika kuti timaiwala tokha tikalowa m'banja. Iwonetsanso zochuluka za ife kuposa iwo.
Ndi izi, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti ndife ndani m'banja komanso maudindo athu m'banja. Koma bwanji? Zosavuta - mothandizidwa ndi archetypes aukwati kapena maubwenzi.
Mosiyana ndi zomwe ambiri amakhulupirira, aliyense wa ife sali wosiyana ndi ena. Ngakhale titha kukhala ndi zikhalidwe komanso zokumana nazo zomwe zimatiumba mosiyana ndi omwe atizungulira, palinso ulusi womwe umalumikiza umunthu wathu pamodzi.
Pakutha kudziwa ulusiwu ndi tanthauzo lake, zimakhala zosavuta kuti tiziwongolera pamoyo wathu.
Pankhaniyi, ndi Kufufuza zochitika zakale zaukwati, titha kufikira bwino maubale omwe tili nawo m'banja ndikumvetsetsa maudindo athu m'banja. Pamene tikufuna kudziwa zambiri za ife tokha, tidzazindikira zokonda zathu, zolinga zathu, mantha athu, ndi zina zotero.
Onerani kanemayu kuti mumvetsetse maudindo ofunikira omwe amabweretsa ubale wabwino:
Wosamalira
Mu archetype yoyanjana, pamndandanda, woyang'anira ndi munthu amene amaika patsogolo zabwino m'banja kuposa china chilichonse. Powona ukwati ngati chinthu chomwe akuyenera kuteteza, A Guardian adzachita zonse zotheka kuti mnzake ndi banja akhale otetezeka.
Ndi izi, apereka nsembe zachete. Pofuna kupewa kugawana nawo anzawo, ayesetsa kuthetsa zonse momwe angathere. Chifukwa chake, amatha kupumula koma akuyembekeza kuti abweretse zotsatira zabwino.
Wokonda
Wokonda kuika wokondedwa wake patsogolo pa china chilichonse ndipo atha kupangitsa winayo kudzimva kuti ndiwofunika. Koposa china chilichonse, archetype iyi ndiyabwino kwambiri pakuwongolera malingaliro, malingaliro, ndi zochita za munthu momwe amabadwira kuti apange ubale wabwino.
Mwakutero, Wokonda nthawi zonse amatha kugwiritsa ntchito izi kupindulitsa. Ngakhale atha kukhala owongolera komanso kuwongolera, kuwonetsetsa kuti ali panjira yoyenera ndichinsinsi.
Ndi kuwunikiranso nthawi zonse zolinga zawo, adziteteza kuti asachite zolakwa zazikulu panjira.
Wonyenga
Ndi zithumwa zawo ndi nzeru zawo, zibwenzi zachinyengo zimatha kugonjetsa chilichonse. Kupatula apo, ngakhale mafumu ndi mafumu amakopeka ndi ma gypsy komanso ma geisha. Akakwatirana, wonyengayo amasungabe zinthu zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa chifukwa sizidzatha njira zokopa mnzake.
Poterepa, kuonetsetsa kuti ali okhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wawo ndi chimodzi mwazovuta zomwe akuyenera kuwonetsetsa. Powona kufunika kwa okondedwa awo, atha kudziteteza kuti asagwere mosafunikira ndi omwe amawatsatirabe ngakhale atakwatirana kale.
Wopatsa
Monga momwe maubwenzi amasamalirirana, Wopatsa ndi mawonekedwe apadera omwe amayang'ana kwambiri kuti apangitse wina kukondedwa ndikusamalidwa momwe akusamaliridwira.
Kwa archetype iyi, kutha kusamalira wokondedwa wawo ndiye chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe angapereke. Pochita izi, akukhalanso ndi archetypes awo.
Ngakhale izi zikuwoneka ngati zangwiro, woperekayo amakhala ndi mavuto. Pokhala pachiwopsezo chozunzidwa, opatsa nthawi zambiri amazunzidwa ndi anzawo omwe siwoyenera.
Anthu osayamika akagwiritsa ntchito mwayi wawo wowolowa manja komanso wokoma mtima, woperekayo amatha kukhala nsanza zomwe zatayidwa pambuyo pake.
Wokonda
Pozindikira maubale monga chimake cha kukhalapo kwaumunthu, Idealist nthawi zonse amafunafuna zabwino kwa iwo ndi anzawo.
M'magulu amtunduwu, adzaoloka kutalika konse kuti awonetsetse kuti ali bwino ndi anzawo. Mwakutero, amapanga zochitika pomwe ubalewo umangokhalira kutukuka.
Komabe, ayeneranso kukhala osamala mofananamo. Popeza kuti si malingaliro awo onse omwe ali abwino kwambiri kapena ena onse sagwirizana ndi enawo, amatha kuyambitsa kusamvana ndi mavuto mosavuta. Kuumirira pa zomwe akufuna, njira yabwinoko ndikumveranso anzawo.
Wophunzirira
Wokhoza kupanga zisankho zabwino kwambiri komanso zoyenera m'banja, Rationalist nthawi zonse amakhala bwenzi labwino kuti akule naye.
Popeza nthawi zonse amasankha zabwino ndi zabwino, zomwe zimakhudza ubalewo zimakhala zabwino. Mwakutero, kukula kwaumwini komanso kwa ubale sikungakhale kotheka.
Komabe, vuto limodzi ndi Rationalist ndiloti amakhala okhwima kwambiri. M'malo momvera anzawo, amakonda kutseka ndikungoyang'ana yankho lokhazikika.
M'kupita kwanthawi, izi zitha kuwononga chibwenzi mosazindikira monga winayo amafunikiranso mtundu wina.