Zamkati
- 1. Munakumana bwanji ndi amuna anu?
- 2. Kodi ntchito zanu zosiyana zimakupangitsani bwanji kukhala ogwirizana?
- 3. Kodi zovuta zina zakukwatiwa ndi wina aliyense mwa malamulo ndi ziti?
- 4. Zolemba zonse zomwe zalembedwa kutengera amuna anu ndi ntchito yanu?
- 5. Kodi maluso aukwati ndi ati, omwe amathandizanso pantchito yanu yolemba?
- 6. Ndi zinthu zinayi ziti zofunika kwambiri muukwati uliwonse?
- 7. Malangizo othandizira ntchito yolenga ndi banja labwino?
Devri Walls ndiye wolemba waku US komanso wogulitsa padziko lonse lapansi. Atatulutsa mabuku asanu mpaka pano, amakhazikika pazinthu zonse zongopeka komanso zamatsenga. Devri amakhala ku Meridian, Idaho ndi amuna awo ndi ana awiri. Mwamuna wake amagwira ntchito yazamalamulo komanso limodzi, ngakhale panali kusiyana kwakukulu pantchito yawo, zovuta komanso kusankha kosankha bwino komwe adakwanitsa kupanga paradiso wachikondi ngati mgwirizano wosangalala, wokwatirana. Nawa ochepa mwa mayankho omwe adafunsidwa naye omwe angakuthandizeni kukhazikitsa zolinga zazikulu m'banja lanu.
1. Munakumana bwanji ndi amuna anu?
Ndinakumana ndi amuna anga ali ndi zaka makumi awiri ndipo ine ndinali makumi awiri ndi awiri. Pa nthawiyo tonse tinali kumpoto kwa New York ndipo tinagunda nthawi yomweyo. Ndikukhulupirira msonkhano woyamba udayenda pang'ono chonchi. Ndikuwona mnyamata atanyamula thumba la switi m'manja mwake. “Hei, ukufuna kugawana nawo zofunkha zako?” (Ndidulireko pang'ono, anyamata. Ndidali ndi njala), adatero mnyamatayo akudula maso ake kumbali ndikuyamba kumwetulira mosazindikira.
“Sindikuganiza kuti unganene izi kwa ine.” Amayendetsa galimoto, ndikutulutsa switi kukamwa kwake. Ndasiyidwa pampando wanga, ndikumanjenjemera, "Si zomwe ndimatanthauza! Booty, monga achifwamba zofunkha! ” Zinali zovuta kuzizunza kwazaka zambiri titakwatirana. Tsiku lomwe ndidapeza chikwama cha zikwatu za Pirate m'sitolo ndidachichotsa pashelefu ndikufuula, "Onani! achifwamba zofunkha! ”
2. Kodi ntchito zanu zosiyana zimakupangitsani bwanji kukhala ogwirizana?
Kuti tonse tizichita zomwe timachita bwino, payenera kukhala kusiyana pakati pa umunthu ndi malingaliro. Ndiwosamala, wodekha, komanso wamutu. Ndipo ndili bwino, ndine wolemba. Mukuganiza kuti ndili bwanji? Wotanganidwa, wachisokonezo, wokonda kwambiri mtima. Koma anthu otsutsanawa amakhala olingana. Ndimakhala wodekha nthawi zina zomwe sali. Ndipo makumi asanu ndi anayi mphambu asanu ndi atatu pa zana a nthawiyo, iye amandichititsa ine kutonthoza mtima. Ndikosakaniza kwabwino kwambiri.
Nthawi zina amagwiritsanso ntchito machenjerero apolisi kukonza banja lathu. (Izi sizikuphatikiza nthawi yomwe adayesa kundimanga pakati pausiku tulo tikucheza. Zinali zoopsa pang'ono.) Titangokwatirana kumene ndikukangana, amandiyankha modekha kamvekedwe kuposa kamene ndimagwiritsa ntchito. Ndingafanane mosazindikira kukula kwake ndi mphamvu zake. Amatsikanso mpaka pamapeto pake, timakhala tikutsutsana kwathunthu kwinaku tikunong'onezana. Pambuyo pake, adavomereza kuti inali njira yophunzitsira apolisi kuti athetse mavuto. Ngakhale zidandikwiyitsa pang'ono kuti "ndalakwitsa," izi zidasinthiratu banja lathu kukhala labwino, ndikukhalanso kwamuyaya. Sitimangokhalira kukangana ndipo pafupifupi konse, timafuula konse.
Kutha kwanga kuwona zamatsenga muzinthu zamtundu wina kwamulimbikitsanso pang'ono. Mwamunayo adatinso timange munda wamaluwa. Ndinachita kumufunsa kuti abwerezenso.
3. Kodi zovuta zina zakukwatiwa ndi wina aliyense mwa malamulo ndi ziti?
Iyi si ntchito yovuta kwa aliyense wa ife. Ndizovuta kwa iye, zovuta kwa ine, komanso zovuta kwa ana. Koma amawakonda. Ndidaganiza kale kuti zovuta ndizoyenera kumupatsa kuthekera kochita zomwe amakonda. Kupita kuntchito ndikukonda ntchito yanu ndi mphatso yomwe ambiri alibe. Ndipo ndimamufunira iye, monga amafunira ine. Maola ake ndi amisala. Ndimapumira pakati pokhala mayi wopanda kholo ndikukhala ndi mwamuna wanthawi zonse.
Kukonzekera konse kuyenera kuchitidwa mwanjira yoti ndimakwanitsa kuchita izi ndekha, ndipo ndikakhala kuti ali kunyumba, amatha kulowererapo kuti athetse mavuto ena. Chifukwa cha izi, ndiyeneranso kutengera mitundu iwiri yosiyana yaukadaulo yomwe ndidaphunzira kuyimitsa-njira ya amayi osakwatiwa ndipo tiyeni tikambirane izi ndi mnzanga. Zinthu zomwe amawona tsiku ndi tsiku kuntchito zimatikhudza nthawi zonse. Zimakhudza momwe iye amalerera ana athu. Malo omwe timasankha kudya. Komwe ndimakhala tikamapita kukadya. Zomwe timakhala omasuka ndi ana athu akuchita kapena komwe amapita.
Ndizovuta kumukumbutsa kuti akuyenera kundiuza zomwe akuwona. Akufuna kunditeteza ku mbali yakuda ya dziko lapansi, yomwe ndi yachilengedwe, ndipo ndikuyamikira. Komabe, kuchuluka kwa kusudzulana pakukhazikitsa malamulo ndikokwera kwambiri chifukwa chachikulu cha izi. Kusungira zomwe zili theka la zomwe mwakumana nanu kumayika mlatho wosadutsa pakati panu ndi dongosolo lanu lothandizira. Samandiuza chilichonse, koma aphunzira kundiuza zinthu zambiri kuti kulumikizana kutseguke komanso kulumikizana. Ndipo ndiyenera kusiya nkhanizo kuti zisadandaule nthawi zonse. Ngati wina wa inu adandidziwa, mukadadziwa kuti "kuzisiya" sizomwe ndimachita. Koma pa thanzi langa, banja langa komanso chisangalalo cha mamuna wanga, ndiye njira yokhayo.
4. Zolemba zonse zomwe zalembedwa kutengera amuna anu ndi ntchito yanu?
Kutengera ndi mamuna wanga, zowona. Koma ndinganene zochepa, "kutengera," ndi zina, kutengera. Bukhu lirilonse likuwoneka kuti limakhala ndi mkhalidwe wowuma kwenikweni, wonyoza wokhala ndi mtima wagolide, kaya ndiyambe ndi cholinga chimenecho kapena ayi. Kukhala ndi amuna anga zaka khumi ndi zisanu zapitazi kwandipatsa digiri ya master pakunyoza kowuma. Ndipo zolemba zanga zonse ndizabwino.
Ntchito - ndizovuta pang'ono. Yankho langa loyambirira linali ayi. Koma kenako ndinazindikira Otsutsa: Matsenga Amamasulidwa ndi nkhani ya achinyamata awiri omwe amapita kumalo ena osangalatsa, komwe azikakhazikitsa malamulo. Mwachiwonekere, ine mosadziwa ndinatero.
5. Kodi maluso aukwati ndi ati, omwe amathandizanso pantchito yanu yolemba?
Ndikuganiza kuti muukwati chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite ndikusilira wina kuposa momwe mumafunira nokha. Mukatero, mudzayesetsa kuti munthuyo akhale wosangalala. Izi zikachitika kwa onse awiri, mumakhala ndi banja labwino. Ngakhale ndakambirana pazomwe ndadzipereka kuti ndimusangalatse, popanda zopereka zake, chikondi ndi chithandizo, palibe njira iliyonse yomwe ndingakhalire wolemba pakadali pano m'moyo wanga.
Mwamuna wanga ndi mbuye wodzichepetsa komanso wodzipereka. Adzagwira ntchito maola makumi asanu ndi limodzi ndikugwirabe ntchito kunyumba ndikunditsuka khitchini pakati pausiku, kutenga udindo ngati mayi ndikachoka m'tawuni kukasainira, kundithamangitsa m'nyumba kuti ndigwire ntchito mwamtendere amalimbana ndi ana. Wakhala wamapewa posachedwa kuti ndithamangitse malotowa. Ndipo amatero chifukwa amasamala za chisangalalo changa kuposa chake. Monga momwe ndimayiwalira nkhani zamasiku ake, kunyalanyaza maolawo ndikuchita zinthu ndekha masiku ambiri.
6. Ndi zinthu zinayi ziti zofunika kwambiri muukwati uliwonse?
Kudzichepetsa. Chikondi. Nsembe. Kukhulupirika.
7. Malangizo othandizira ntchito yolenga ndi banja labwino?
Ndaphunzira kusamala. Kusamala kumakhala kosasintha, ndipo ndikutanthauza nthawi zonse, kugwirabe ntchito. Kukhala wopanga kumatanthauza kuti palibe chomwe ndingasinthe kwa ine. Ubongo wanga umagwira nthawi zonse, makamaka ndikamalemba buku. Ndimayendetsa nkhani m'mabuku ndikuphika chakudya chamadzulo, ndikuyendetsa galimoto (osandilimbikitsa), ndi zina zambiri. Ndikosavuta kukulunga ndi chinthu china chomwe sungathe kuiwala ndikuiwala zozizwitsa zokongola zomwe zili patsogolo panu.
Ngakhale ndikugwirabe ntchito moyenera, ndikuganiza kuti kulumikizana momasuka ndikofunikira. Ndimakumbukirabe nthawi ina, zaka zapitazo, mwamuna wanga atatenga kale pang'ono kuti ndigwire buku langa, pamapeto pake adabwera komwe ndimagwira. Anagwada pafupi nane, kundidikirira kuti ndimalize mzere womwe ndimagwirako, ndikuyika dzanja lake pamkono mwanga nati mokoma, “Tikukufuna inunso wokondedwa. Osayiwala za ife, chabwino? ” Nthawi zina ndimamufuna kuti anene kuti, "Bwererani kwa ife." Kenako ndiyenera kukhala wofunitsitsa kumva, kumvetsera, ndikunena kuti, "Chabwino." Ndipamene ndimayesetsa kusintha ndikuwongolera pang'ono pang'ono.
Kukhala wopanga kumaperekanso mavuto apadera omwe anthu sazindikira. Tikakhala pansi kuti tilembere, kujambula, kujambula - chilichonse chomwe chingakhale — zinthu zimachita zomwe tikufuna kuti achite. Tili m'manja. Kuti tichotsedwe m'malingaliro amenewo ndipo mayendedwe ake ndi ovuta komanso opweteka. Dziko lenileni ndi losasintha; sizichita zomwe mumanena. Mfundoyi ndiyomwe imadyetsa malingaliro ambiri ojambula - monga osungulumwa osudzulana omwe amakhala mu studio yawo tsiku lonse akumamwa mowa wochuluka. Ambiri mwa ojambulawa amasankha kupewa zopweteka komanso kukwapula kosinthira pamoyo weniweni ndikukhala komwe kuli kosavuta. Koma moyo ndi zojambula sizitanthauza kanthu ngati palibe amene atsala kuti azikukondani komanso kukukondani.