Zamkati
- Chikondi chimapezeka paziwonetsero zazing'ono
- Osamangokhalira kutsatira zoipa
- Osamangotenga wina ndi mnzake mopepuka
- Kudzisamalira koyamba kuti mutha kuwonekera ngati mnzanu wabwino kwambiri yemwe mungakhale
- Sewerani pamphamvu zanu
- Kutsutsana
- Koma musagone mutakwiya
- Kugonana. Osanyalanyaza izi
M'masiku amakono amakono nthawi zina timanyalanyaza nzeru zakale, poganiza kuti zomwe timawona pa intaneti ndizothandiza, zowoneka bwino kwambiri, zogwirizana ndi zokonda za makono.
Koma miyambo yakale imakhalabe pachikhalidwe chachikulu pazifukwa: zimakhala zomveka. Malangizo omwe amaperekedwa m'mibadwo yonse amakhala olimba chifukwa amalankhula nafe komanso momwe timakhalira. Monga mwambi umanenera, 'palibe chatsopano pansi pano ", ndipo izi ndi zoona makamaka momwe zimagwirira ntchito m'banja.
Anthu m'mibadwo yonse akhala akukwatirana pazifukwa zomwezi: kulumikizana m'modzi ndi m'modzi ndi munthu wapadera amene wakusangalatsani, malingaliro ndi moyo wanu.
Tiyeni tiwone ena mwa maupangiri okwatirana omwe akhala mzaka zonsezi, ndipo akugwiranso ntchito masiku ano monga momwe analili zaka 100 zapitazo. Chifukwa ngakhale ma hemline ndi masitaelo amasapato amasintha, zoyambira zachikondi sizisintha.
Chikondi chimapezeka paziwonetsero zazing'ono
Makanema amatipangitsa kuganiza kuti pokhapokha ngati chikondi chikuwonetsedwa kudzera pamawonekedwe akulu, sichikondi kwenikweni. Ndi makanema angati omwe amationetsa malingaliro apabanja opangidwa kudzera pa ma intercom apandege, kapena "Ndimakukondani, Irene" yofalitsira pa Jumbotron pamasewera a baseball?
Koma okwatirana omwe ali okwatirana kwa nthawi yayitali amadziwa izi, ndizochepa zomwe mumachita tsiku ndi tsiku zomwe zimawonetsa ndikulimbikitsa chikondi chanu kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Kuyambira pakumupangira kapu ya khofi momwe amawakondera m'mawa, mpaka kukhala ndi chikwangwani chomwe amachikonda ngati chosadabwitsa "chifukwa".
Zabwino zazing'ono izi zimapatsa mnzanu chidwi chamankhwala abwino a hormone dopamine, omwe amapangitsa mayankho osangalatsa amenewo, kuwakumbutsa kuti inunso ndinu munthu wapadera.
Osamangokhalira kutsatira zoipa
Maanja achikulire angakuuzeni kuti chinsinsi chaubwenzi wawo wautali ndichakutisamakhala konse pazinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimawasokoneza za wokondedwa wawo.
M'malo mwake, adayang'ana pazabwino zonse zomwe adawona. Chifukwa chake mukayamba kung'ung'udza chifukwa mnzanu waiwala kutenga zobwezeretsanso kuzotchinga, ziyikeni pambali ndikukumbukira kuti amakonda kusewera ndi ana ndikuyankhula baseball ndi abambo anu.
Izi sizitanthauza kuti simukuyenera kuyambitsa nkhani yomwe ili yokhumudwitsa, koma osangokhala madzulo pamenepo. Chosavuta "O, wokondedwa, kodi tingathe kudziwa kachitidwe kake kuti zobwezeretsazo zizichotsedwa panthawi yake?" adzachita.
Osamangotenga wina ndi mnzake mopepuka
Anthu amakonda kuyamikiridwa.
Wokondedwa wanu amakonda pamene amamva kumuwona, kumumva komanso kumuzindikira. Chifukwa chake khalani ndi nthawi tsiku lililonse kuwathokoza.
Kuyambira kuwathokoza chifukwa chokhala othandizira mnyumba powauza kuti ndinu okondwa kukwatiwa nawo, sikuyenera kukhala kuyankhula kwakukulu. Kungonena mawu ochepa kungathandize kwambiri kuti lawi la chikondi liyake.
Kudzisamalira koyamba kuti mutha kuwonekera ngati mnzanu wabwino kwambiri yemwe mungakhale
Mabanja akulu amadziwa kuti ndiabwino limodzi komanso amakhala osiyana.
Wokondedwa wanu si mphunzitsi wanu, wothandizira wanu, kapena dokotala wanu. Ngati mukufuna thandizo kuthana ndi mavuto aliwonse amisala, pitani kwa mlangizi waluso.
Ngati mukufuna zina zolimbitsa thupi kuti muchepetse thupi kapena kuonda, tengani katswiri wakunja.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti mukufuna kukhala ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri kuti mugwire ntchito ngati wamkulu pakulingana ndi chibwenzi chanu. Izi zikutanthauza kuchita zomwe mungathe kuti mumve bwino m'maganizo ndi mwathupi. Umoyo wanu ndi thanzi la banja lanu ndilofunika kugwira ntchito.
Sewerani pamphamvu zanu
Mabanja ambiri amakono amaganiza kuti chilichonse chikhale chofanana muukwati 100%. Maola ogwira ntchito, ntchito yosamalira ana, ndalama, koma izi sizilingalira zamphamvu ndi zofooka zanu.
Chitani zowunika zenizeni za zolimba za wina ndi mnzake.
Ngati ndizomveka kuti mmodzi wa inu azigwira ntchito maola ochulukirapo kuti apite patsogolo pantchito ndipo winayo akuchita ntchito zapakhomo, pitani nazo. Malingana ngati nonse ndinu achimwemwe ndipo mukugwirizana pakukhazikitsa, palibe manyazi posagawa chilichonse pakati.
Kutsutsana
Inde, tsutsani. Mungaganize kuti kukangana ndi chizindikiro choipa mbanja.
C.Awiri omwe amatsutsana amakondana kwambiri kuposa maanja omwe amasunga chilichonse.
Chifukwa chake pitirizani kuyambitsa mikangano yopindulitsa pamene inu ndi mnzanu simukugwirizana pa nkhani. Umu ndi momwe mumagwirira ntchito. Umu ndi momwe mumalimbitsira banja lanu. Banja likamamasuka kuchotsa magolovesi ndikutsika ndikudetsedwa, zikutanthauza kuti amadalirana kuti akhale enieni osadzakanidwa kapena kusiya.
Malingana ngati kukangana kuli koyenera komanso kopindulitsa, musazengereze kukweza mawu anu nthawi ndi nthawi.
Koma musagone mutakwiya
Onetsetsani kuti mkanganowo uthetsedwa musanagwire msipu. Kugona wokwiya kumatsimikizira kugona kosayenera.
Chifukwa chake fufuzani chisankho, kupsompsona ndi zodzoladzola. Kugonana pambuyo pomenya nkhondo kuli ndi china chake, sichoncho?
Kugonana. Osanyalanyaza izi
Sizoona kuti kutentha kwachiwerewere kumatha zaka zambiri.
Pali njira zambiri zomwe zingapangitse kuti zilakolako zanu ziziyenda bwino, kapena kulipirira zolowetsa mu libido. Choyamba, zindikirani kuti nthawi zina pamakhala nthawi zina pamene simungamve, ndipo sizachilendo. Izi zingaphatikizepo ana ali achichepere pamene inu kapena nonse mukudwala, mavuto am'banja ndi makolo, kapena kungokhala otanganidwa.
Koma yesetsani kuti moyo wachikondi ukhale wolimba. Pitani kukagona limodzi. Snuggle ngakhale zitakhala sizitengera kugonana. Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi zopanda ana zogonana monga momwe mumachitira masiku oyambirira. Ndipo, ana akathawa chisa, pitilizani ndi malingaliro atsopano (zoseweretsa zakugonana, kusewera, zongoyerekeza).
Moyo wogonana kwambiri ndi umodzi mwamphamvu kwambiri-ubale womwe mungakhale nawo.
Zimakupangitsani kukhala pafupi komanso okondana ndikukukumbutsani chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe mwasankhira mnzanu wabwino kwambiri.