Zamkati
- 1. Yambani molawirira kuti muzilankhulana bwino
- 2. Pangani ndalama poyera ndikuzikamba
- 3. Vomerezani kuti zoipa zimachitikira anthu abwino
- 4. Kondani mopanda malire
- 5. Mverani mokoma mtima
- 6. Kudalira ndikofunika
Palibe amene angakonzekere ukwati tsiku lina kupatukana. Koma, ziwerengero zakusudzulana zikuzungulira 50%, ndikofunikira kulingalira zakusunga thanzi laubwenzi. Chikhulupiriro chakuti kukondana sikudzatha popanda kuyesetsa kumasiya ngakhale mabanja omwe ali odzipereka kwambiri atha kusokonekera m'banja. Ndi zovuta zambiri pabanja, maanja okondana atha kukhala kuti akukumana ndi mavuto azaumoyo, azachuma komanso kudalirana.
Anthu okwatirana omwe akuchita bwino m'banja mwawo amadziwa kuti nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta. Chofunika kwambiri, amazindikira chikondi chopanda malire, kudzipereka, kulumikizana komanso kuseketsa ngati njira yopewera kusweka kwa ubale ndipo chifukwa chake, chisudzulo.
Mosiyana ndi izi, chisudzulo chimalumikizidwa ndi kulumikizana kwamavuto, ziyembekezo zomwe sizinakwaniritsidwe, mikangano yazachuma komanso kuwonongeka kwa chidaliro. Ngakhale onse omwe ali pabanja komanso omwe pamapeto pake atha kusudzulana atha kukumana ndi zopinga zomwezi, omwe amathetsa zovuta zimawonetsa kufunitsitsa kupeza zothandizirana, kukambirana za mavuto ndikuchita nawo zoyesayesa zakukhazikitsanso kukhulupirirana.
Nawa malingaliro ofotokoza zaubwino kuti banja lanu lipite patali:
1. Yambani molawirira kuti muzilankhulana bwino
Ngakhale kulumikizana kumawoneka ngati chinthu chomwe tonsefe tiyenera kudziwa momwe tingachitire bwino, kukhumudwa kukakhala kofulumira, momwe timafotokozera timatha kukhala chinthu choyamba chomwe chimawonongeka. Nthawi zambiri, olankhula, okoma mtima amadzipeza okha akudzudzula, mawu opweteka posonyeza kukhumudwa. Kuyambira tsiku loyamba, monga banja, mumvana chimodzi momwe mungathetsere kusamvana. Pangani lonjezo kuti mudzapewa kuitana mayina ndi machitidwe achipongwe. M'malo mwake muziyang'ana kuti mudziwe vuto lanu, kukhala ndi momwe mumamvera ndi mawu oti "Ine" ndikufotokozera zomwe mukufuna kuti mukhale bwino. Osawopseza kupatukana mukamakangana.
2. Pangani ndalama poyera ndikuzikamba
Ngakhale anthu anene zochuluka chotani, "Sizokhudza ndalama" zikafika paukwati ndi chisudzulo, zitha kukhala "zonse za ndalama". Ndalama zochepa, kusiyana kwa ndalama zomwe zimaperekedwa pazinthu zonse zapakhomo, kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama komanso kusagwirizana pazachuma kumayambitsa mikangano. Izi sizokambirana zomwe zikuyenera kudikirira mpaka mutati, "Ndikutero". Kambiranani za ndalama poyera komanso nkhawa, nkhawa kapena chisangalalo chomwe chimayenda nawo.
3. Vomerezani kuti zoipa zimachitikira anthu abwino
Malumbiro aukwati amaposa kungolemba chabe zochitika zachikondi. Ndizofunikira. Kumbukirani kuti pali kuthekera kwenikweni kuti m'modzi wa inu kapena nonse mwina mungadwale matenda, ngozi kapena chokumana nacho cholakwika chomwe chingakulepheretseni kugwira ntchito. Ndikosiyana kulumbira kuti mudzayimirira limodzi ndi mnzanu mukudwala kapena muli ndi thanzi labwino koma ndizosiyana kwambiri kukhala wosamalira. Mavuto akuthupi ndi amisala amaika mavuto ena m'mabanja. Ndikofunikira kupanga khoka lotetezedwa lomwe lili ndi zachuma, zam'malingaliro ndi zakuthupi zokuthandizani ngati china chake chalakwika. Osadikira kuti zinthu zoipa zichitike.
4. Kondani mopanda malire
Tikakhazikitsa ubale wabwino, wodzipereka, timapanga chisankho chovomereza munthu wina wopanda zofunikira. Izi zikutanthauza kuti timavomereza kuti bwenzi lathu silili langwiro ndipo nthawi zina timachita zinthu zomwe sitimagwirizana nazo. Osangokhala ndi chiyembekezo choti mutha kusintha zinthu za mnzanu zomwe simukuzikonda. M'malo mwake, kondani kwathunthu - zolakwitsa ndi zonse.
5. Mverani mokoma mtima
Anthu ena akamadzinena kuti ndi olankhula bwino, amatanthauza kuthekera kwawo kufotokoza zosowa zawo komanso momwe akumvera. Chofunikanso chimodzimodzi, ndiko kutha kumvera mnzanu momumvera chisoni. Pewani kupanga mayankho anu pomwe mnzanu akulankhulabe chifukwa izi zimalowetsa kumvetsetsa zakukhosi ndi zosowa zanu.
6. Kudalira ndikofunika
Anthu amachita zinthu zomwe zimawononga kukhulupirika osakumbukira. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amati, "Sindikudziwa momwe zidachitikira". Izi ndizolakwika. Kaya ndi kuchita chibwenzi, kukhala ndi ngongole popanda mnzanu kudziwa kapena kusunga zinsinsi, mavutowa ndi zotsatira za zisankho ndi zisankho zambiri. Khalani ozindikira pa zomwe mumanena ndi kuchita. Mabanja anzeru amaonekera poyera zisankho zawo, momwe akumvera, ndi zosowa zawo. Mnzanuyo ayenera kukhala woyamba kudziwa ngati mukukumana ndi zovuta ndipo osasiyidwa pachiwopsezo chokunva za wina.
Maukwati omwe amapita kutali amakhala ndi anthu omwe amalankhula momasuka, amayamikira kudalirana komanso kuchita zinthu mokoma mtima. Thanzi ndi ubale wabwino zimadalira pamakhalidwe okondana.