Zamkati
Pali nthano yodziwika kuti amuna amaganiza zogonana pamasekondi asanu ndi awiri aliwonse, koma kodi izi zili kutali bwanji ndi chowonadi?
M'zaka zaposachedwa pakhala maphunziro owonjezereka okhudza kuchuluka kwa malingaliro azakugonana omwe amuna ndi akazi amakhala nawo m'moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku. Kupatula kuganizira zakugonana, kafukufuku adawonetsa kuti amuna nawonso amaganiza chimodzimodzi za chakudya ndi tulo.
Zikuwoneka kuti pali zinthu zingapo zomwe zimakhudza zomwe amuna amafuna zogonana. Physiology yamwamuna ndi neurochemistry imalumikizidwa mosiyana ndi momwe mkazi alili. Zolakalaka zina zakugonana zimatsimikiziridwa ndi DNA ya munthu, kuchuluka kwa testosterone, komanso malingaliro akunja achikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe.
Terri Fisher, wofufuza kuchokera ku yunivesite ya Ohio, adachita kafukufuku pa ophunzira 283 aku koleji, poyesera kupeza kuti ndi kangati komwe amuna amaganiza zogonana tsiku ndi tsiku.
Anapeza kumapeto kwa kafukufukuyu kuti abambo amaganiza pafupifupi pafupifupi nthawi khumi ndi zisanu ndi zinayi patsiku, pomwe azimayi amangoganiza za khumi okha. Woyankha wamkulu pa kafukufukuyu anaganiza zogonana maulendo mazana atatu mphambu makumi asanu ndi atatu mphambu zisanu ndi zitatu tsiku limodzi lokha.
Thupi limalilakalaka
Mosiyana ndi azimayi, omwe amakhala ndi malingaliro komanso malingaliro akamayandikira kugonana, chikhumbo chamwamuna chimangoyendetsedwa ndi thupi lake chifukwa chakuchuluka kwa testosterone komwe kumatulutsa ndikudutsa mumitsempha yake yamagazi.
Amuna achichepere amakhala ndi zovuta nthawi yomweyo ndipo amaganiza zambiri zakugonana chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa testosterone kopangidwa ndi matupi awo.
Mulingo wochepa wa testosterone umangotanthauza libido yotsika.
Libido yamwamuna imapezeka m'magawo awiri am'mutu, omwe amatchedwa cerebral cortex ndi limbic system. Zokopa za neural zomwe zimayambitsa kudzuka mthupi la munthu zimapezeka mu ubongo, pomwe zoyeserera ndi chilakolako chogonana zimapezeka mu limbic.
Testosterone ndiye hormone yomwe imathandizira pakukula kwa ziwalo zogonana zamwamuna pomwe mwana wakhanda ali mgulu lake, kukula kwa tsitsi la thupi, kukula kwa minofu, ndikupanga umuna.
Amuna nthawi zambiri amaganiza za cholinga chawo m'moyo, koma chilengedwe chimayika kutengera zomwe zili pamwamba pamndandanda.
Zimapopera ego
Thupi la munthu ndimakina omwe amafuna kuti azingoyenda nthawi zonse. Izi zimayankha chifukwa chomwe amuna amaganizira zogonana.
Kuganizira zakugonana imayendetsa zikhumbo zam'madzi komanso zamtopola, kukankhira amuna kuzolinga ndi zokhumba zawo.
Izi zitha kukhalanso zosintha chifukwa kuganizira zambiri zakugonana kumatulutsa testosterone yambiri, zomwe zimatanthauzanso mphamvu zambiri kukwaniritsa ntchito.
Mwamuna akakumana ndi mkazi ndikumupeza kuti angakhale mnzake, malingaliro osiyanasiyana amayamba kutuluka m'malingaliro ake mthupi poyesa kupereka testosterone yochulukirapo kuti munthu akhale wolimba, mwakuthupi ndi mwamaganizidwe.
Sosaiti
Ngakhale tanena kuti kukwezeka kwa testosterone komwe kumachitika chifukwa cha malingaliro azakugonana mu psyche kumatha kuwonedwa ngati chinthu chosinthika, tifunikanso kuganizira momwe zinthu zimakhalira munthawi yomwe munthu amakhala wokakamira nthawi yayitali.
Kukwaniritsa maudindo pakupanga banja, kukhala ndi ana, ndikukwaniritsa limodzi mwa malamulo omwe anthu amupatsa mochulukirapo ndi gawo limodzi la zomwe amafuna. Chifukwa tikukhala pagulu lokhala ndi akazi okhaokha, kusankha mnzanu wamuyaya kuyenera kukhala kamodzi posankha moyo wonse.
Kwa mamuna, kusankha mnzake wothandizana naye mwakuthupi komanso mwamalingaliro ndizovuta, ndipo izi zimapereka mpata wosowa zosowa, zomwe zimalipilidwa ndikupanga zongoyerekeza.
Kugonana kuli paliponse
Zoyeserera zowoneka zokhudzana ndi kugonana zikupezeka paliponse m'magulu amakono.
Zotsatsa zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zithunzi zakugonana komanso tanthauzo lakukula kwamalonda. Kutsatsa kwamakono kuli kodzaza ndi kugonana, ndipo izi zimatenga gawo lalikulu pamaganizidwe azilakolako zomwe zimawonekera m'maganizo a amuna. Kukhala otengeka kwambiri ndi zotsatsa kumangotanthauza phindu lochulukirapo kumakampani omwe amatsatsa malonda awo ndi zithunzi zakugonana.
Ngakhale zimawoneka kuti amuna samangoganiza zogonana nthawi zonse monga momwe amanenera, amaganizira kwambiri za iwo kuposa akazi. Sikuti pafupipafupi momwe mungaganizire, koma zimangodalira payekha komanso momwe zinthu zilili.