Zamkati
- Kodi Baibulo limati chiyani za matenda amisala muukwati?
- Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito zolemba
- Yesetsani kuvomereza momwe mnzanuyo alili
Matenda amisala afalikira ndipo amakhudza anthu omwe timawadziwa, kuwakonda ndi kuwayang'anira.
Katherine Noel Brosnahan, yemwe amadziwika kuti Kate Spade, anali mayi wabizinesi waku America komanso wopanga. Adadzipha podzipachika ngakhale anali ndi mwamuna wokonda komanso mwana wamkazi.
Ndiye nchiyani chomwe chidamupangitsa kuchita izi?
Kate Spade anali ndi matenda amisala ndipo anali atadwala kwa zaka zambiri asanadziphe yekha. Zomwezi zidachitikanso ndi wolemba kuphika komanso wawayilesi a Anthony Bourdain, wosewera waku Hollywood a Robin Williams komanso a Sophie Gradon, nyenyezi ya "Love Island" yemwenso adamwalira atalimbana ndi nkhawa komanso kukhumudwa.
Anthu otchuka omwe timawadalira, ndipo anthu omwe atizungulira nthawi ina adakhalapo ndi matenda amisala.
Tiyeni tiwone zachipembedzo poyesa kumvetsetsa zomwe Baibulo limanena pankhani yolimbana ndi matenda amisala m'banja.
Kodi Baibulo limati chiyani za matenda amisala muukwati?
Kodi mungatani mutazindikira kuti mnzanu ali ndi matenda amisala? Mutha kuwopa kuti matendawa atha kubweretsa chisokonezo m'banja? Chinthu chabwino kuchita ndi izi ndikuthandiza mnzanuyo ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa mavuto omwe akukumana nawo. Kukwatiwa ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda amisala kungatanthauze kuti muli ndi maudindo ambiri paphewa panu. Kulimbana ndi matenda amisala komanso maukwati palimodzi sichinthu chophweka koma Baibuloli lili ndi chidziwitso kwa inu. Dziwani zomwe Baibulo limanena pa nkhani yokwatira munthu amene ali ndi matenda amisala.
Baibulo limathetsa mavuto aukwati ndi matenda amisala ponena kuti:
Mwanzeru
“Musamade nkhawa ndi kanthu kalikonse, koma pa chilichonse, mwa pemphero ndi pembedzero, pamodzi ndi chiyamiko, zopempha zanu zidziwike kwa Mulungu. Ndipo mtendere wa Mulungu wakupambana chidziwitso chonse, udzasunga mitima yanu ndi maganizo anu mwa Khristu Yesu. ” (Afilipi 4: 6-7)
Kodi Baibulo limati chiyani za kukwatira kapena kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene ali ndi mavuto azaumoyo?
Limati palibe chifukwa chokhalira ndi nkhawa kapena kuda nkhawa. Ngati mupemphera ndikuchitira mnzanu zabwino, Mulungu amvera mapemphero anu ndipo adzakutetezani ku zovuta zilizonse kapena zovuta zilizonse.
Limbikitsani mnzanu kupeza chithandizo chofunikira chamankhwala ndi zamaganizidwe. Thandizo lanu ndi kuleza mtima ndi mnzanu ndizofunikira.
Masalmo 34: 7-20
“Olungama akalira, Yehova adzawamva, nadzawapulumutsa m'masautso awo onse. Yehova ali pafupi ndi iwo a mtima wosweka, apulumutsa iwo a mzimu wolapadi. Masautso a wolungama mtima ndi ambiri; Amasunga mafupa ake onse; Ndipo palibe fupa ngakhale limodzi limene lathyoledwa. ”
Monga tanenera m'mavesiwa, Mulungu samanyalanyaza anthu omwe ali ndi matenda amisala. Baibulo limatchula mavuto amene munthu amakhala nawo ali ndi nkhawa. Pali njira zothanirana ndi zovuta zamatenda amtunduwu ngakhale kukula bwino.
Kodi Mulungu amati chiyani za anthu omwe ali ndi matenda amisala? Nthawi zonse amakhala nawo, amawapatsa mphamvu ndi kuwongolera
Ngakhale mpingo wamasiku ano usankha kuyankha nkhaniyi pafupipafupi sizitanthauza kuti Baibulo silikamba za izi. Ngati muli muukwati ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi vuto lamisala, pali zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti muwathandize pamavuto.
Matenda amisala atha kukhala ovuta kuthana nawo koma inu ndi mnzanu mumatha kugwira ntchito limodzi, kukhala msana wa anzanu munthawi yovuta, ndikukhalabe ndi ubale wabwino komanso wachimwemwe.
Langizo pothandiza mnzanu yemwe ali ndi matenda amisala
Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito zolemba
Kutcha mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu kuti "wodwala matenda amisala" sikuthandiza konse ndipo kumawononga.
M'malo mwake, muyenera kufotokoza zizindikirazo, phunzirani zambiri zamatenda omwe angayambitse ndikuyamba pulogalamu yamankhwala nthawi yomweyo. Osalanga mnzanu chifukwa chokhala ndi matenda amisala. Matenda amnzanu sakusankha, koma ndichinthu chomwe chingathe kusamalidwa ndikuchiritsidwa.
Yesetsani kuvomereza momwe mnzanuyo alili
Othandizana nawo ambiri amalephera kuphunzira zambiri zamavuto awo ena okhudzana ndi thanzi lam'mutu.
Kusankha kukhalabe wokana ndikudziyesa kuti kulibe ndikulakwa. Mukamachita izi, mukutseka mnzanu nthawi yomwe amafunikira kwambiri. M'malo mwake, khalani pansi ndi akazi / amuna anu ndikuwapempha kuti anene zakukhosi kwawo momasuka.
Dziphunzitseni nokha za matenda awo ndipo phunzirani momwe mungalankhulire nawo kuti awathandize kumva kuti akuwathandiza.
Funsani mnzanu ngati angafune kuti awunikidwe. Kuyezetsa ndi kupeza matenda kumatha kuthandiza mnzanu kupeza njira zoyenera zamankhwala. Limbikitsani mnzanu kuti apite kwa dokotala ndipo mwina kukafunsira uphungu.
Ganizirani zokhazikitsa malire; Kukhala muukwati kumatanthauza kunyamula zofooka ndi zovuta za mnzanu, koma sizitanthauza kuti mumatha kufooka kumeneku. Matenda amisala ndichinthu chovuta kudutsamo koma ndimachiritso.
Kodi baibulo likuti chiyani za thanzi lam'mutu?
Mukamasamalira mnzanu panthawi yakusowa kwawo, ndikofunikira kuti mukhale ogwirizana ndi Mulungu. Baibulo limanena za matenda amisala; mwina osati mwakuya momwe tikufunira kuti zichitikire, koma zidziwitso zabwino zili mmenemo, komabe. Ngati mwataya chiyembekezo, kumbukirani vesi ili “Kutaya pa Iye nkhawa zanu zonse, pakuti amasamala za inu.” (1 Petulo 5: 7)