Zamkati
- Chepetsani muubwenzi
- Kulephera kugona
- Mitundu yotsutsana ya kulera
- Nthawi yochepa yogonana
- Kutha kwa nthawi
- Zakudya zabwino
- Chitani masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi mnzanu
- Chithandizo cha mikangano ya makolo
Monga momwemo kapena ayi, pali zopinga zambiri zaubwenzi ndi mikangano yatsopano ya makolo yomwe makolo amakumana nayo akabweretsa mtolo wa chisangalalo kunyumba kwawo. Kotero, ndi mikangano iti yomwe imakonda kwambiri?
Nthawi zambiri makolo akamasemphana m'mene angalerere mwana pamakhala mikangano yambiri m'mabanja.
Kuyang'ana kutanthauzira kopitilira muyeso kwa mikangano, itha kufotokozedwa mwachidule ngati boma pomwe pali mikangano yayikulu komanso yosatha, ndikufuula pamasewera osagwirizana.
Kuchita ndi okwatirana nawo ampikisano, kusagwirizana pakati pa makolo, kulepheretsa mikangano ya makolo ndi ana ndi zina mwazinthu zambiri zomwe makolo amalephera kusokoneza ubale wachimwemwe kwa makolo atsopano.
Ngakhale kubwera kwatsopano ndikuwonjezeranso zabwino mgawuniyi, mwanayo amafika kwa makolo akugwira ntchito kutopa, kuda nkhawa, komanso kusatsimikiza zambiri zakomwe angakwaniritse udindo watsopano womwe akukumana nawo m'moyo.
Nthawi zina, mwana amatha kusokoneza mosazindikira omwe akuphunzira kupanga malo ndikusintha mawonekedwe ena.
Ngati inu ndi okondedwa anu mukukumana ndi mavuto amgwirizano ndi mikangano ya makolo atsopano ndi mwana wakhanda, pali chiyembekezo.
Pano pali chidule cha zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano yatsopano ya makolo ndi malangizo amomwe mungathetsere kusamvana ndi okwatirana.
Chepetsani muubwenzi
Kudya ndi kugona kwa mwana kumatha kuchepetsa nthawi ndi mnzanu.
Ngati mayi amakhala "akupopa" nthawi zonse, ndipo abambo nthawi zonse amagwedeza ana kuti agone, pangakhale nthawi yocheperako komanso mphamvu zotsalira pachibwenzi.
Yankho lake?
Pangani nthawi yolumikizana. Pangani malo okondana.
Pemphani thandizo la abwenzi ndi abale anu kuti muthe kukhala ndi mwayi wolumikizana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Palibe vuto kuchoka ndi mnzanu kumapeto kwa sabata kapena kupitilirapo kuti malumikizowo achitike. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, khazikitsani usiku wamadzulo.
Kamodzi pamlungu, zivute zitani, inu ndi mnzanuyo muzikhala usiku umodzi kuti muzimasuka, kucheza, ndi kulumikizanso.
Kulephera kugona
Ngakhale kuti mwana wakhanda akugona mokwanira m'masabata oyamba amoyo wake, sipanatenge nthawi kuti m'mimba, kupweteka kwa mano, ndi malungo olimba asungire chisangalalo nthawi zonse. Kulephera kugona ndi komwe kumayambitsa mikangano yatsopano pakati pa makolo.
Ngati mwana wanu wamwamuna wangwiro ali nthawi zonse usiku, inunso mudzakhala muli nthawi zonse usiku. Kusowa tulo kumapeto kwake kumadzetsa ubale wabwino pakati pa inu ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Chinsinsi cha tsoka lomwe layandikira!
Kodi pali anecdote ku droopy eye blues? Kumene. Gawanani izi ndi mnzanuyo. Ganizirani zodumphadumpha malinga ndi nthawi yanu.
Ngati mungalole kuti muzisangalala pang'ono, lolani agogo ndi agogo anu kuti atengeko kakang'ono kanu madzulo. Tulo tabwerera, mzanga. Khulupirirani.
Mitundu yotsutsana ya kulera
Khulupirirani kapena ayi, maanja amabwera mkangano waukulu chifukwa chosiyana njira zakulera.
Ngati kholo limodzi likulimbikitsa kulimbikitsidwa ndipo kholo linalo likukhala ndi zotsatira zabwino, onse awiriwo adzawonongeka ndikupweteketsa zomwe zingayambitse mikangano yayikulu ya makolo.
Chinsinsi chakuwongolera masitayelo osiyanasiyana olera, ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira zomvera mwachidwi kuti mupeze yankho losokonekera.
Kungakhalenso kothandiza kwa omwe akuchita nawo kafukufukuyu kuti adziwe njira zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kafukufuku wasayansi wolimba kwambiri.
Ngati mkangano sunathetsedwe, musazengereze kupempha thandizo kwa mlangizi wodalirika.
Nthawi yochepa yogonana
Ngakhale zingawoneke ngati zoyenera kuthana ndi kugonana pamutu wankhani wachikondi, nkhaniyi ili ndi miyendo yoyimirira yokha.
Pano pali zenizeni zokhudzana ndi mikangano yayikulu pakati pa makolo.
Mwana wanu amachepetsa kwambiri moyo wanu wogonana. Mukakhala otanganidwa kuyesa kuyika mbali zonse za moyo wa mwana mmalo mwake, mumakhala ndi nthawi yochepa yogonana ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Njira yokhayo yothetsera vutoli ndikupeza nthawi yolumikizana. Makandulo, mafuta odzola, ndi zina zotero zitha kukupatsirani mphamvu yothetsera zakugonana. Mverani mnzanu.
Ngati wokondedwa wanu ndi amene wamunyamula mwanayo, atha kufunsa kanthawi kuti alole kuti thupi lizidzilimbitsa pambuyo pobereka.
Osati, mulimonsemo, kukakamiza nkhani yokhudza kukondana ngati mnzanu ali ndi vuto la kusowa thupi.
Kutha kwa nthawi
Abwenzi omwe ali ndi ana ang'onoang'ono amakokedwa mosiyanasiyana.
Zovuta zakukhala pantchito, kukhala kholo, ndi zina zomwe mungadziperekezo zimatha kusiya kanthawi kochepa kakusamalira maubwenzi. Kukula kwa nthawi ndichowonadi. Nthawi zina, pamakhala zambiri zoti muchite. Dzichitireni zabwino. Lemekezani zomwe mnzanuyo walonjeza komanso udindo wake.
Nthawi zonse siyani nthawi yoti mudzisamalire bwino komanso kukonzanso zina ndi zina.
Kumapeto kwa tsikulo, kukhala wathanzi kumatanthauza ubale wabwino kwa inu ndi mnzanu ngakhale pamene "khanda" limafuna malo apakati.
Zakudya zabwino
Mwana akabwera m'moyo wanu, osanyalanyaza kusamalira thupi lanu.
Ngati mukufuna kuti kulumikizana kwanu ndi mnzanu kuyende bwino, osanyalanyaza kufunikira kodyetsa thupi lanu ndi zakudya zabwino.
Chifukwa chakuchulukana kwa nthawi, timakonda kufunafuna zakudya zosavuta m'malo mwa njira zabwino. Zipatso, ndiwo zamasamba, ndi mapuloteni owonda ndizofunikira. Phatikizani mnzanuyo pakusintha kwa moyo wanu.
Chitani masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi mnzanu
Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti inu ndi mnzanu mupitilize kusuntha mwana akabadwa. Dzichitireni zabwino ndikukhala ndi malo oyendetsa bwino.
Mutengereni mwanayo ndi mnzanu kuti muyende tsiku ndi tsiku kuti zokambiranazo zizikula bwino komanso kupopera magazi.
Kodi muli ndi zolemera zina zaulere? Pumpani chitsulo pang'ono nthawi ikalola. Mapindu ake ndi akulu kuphatikiza kuphatikiza mikangano ya makolo yatsopano.
Chithandizo cha mikangano ya makolo
Riboni yabuluu kapena yapinki ikafika pakhomo, banja limakhala losangalala ndipo mavuto am'banja amakhala omaliza kulingalira. Ambiri adzasangalala ndi mtolo womwe tsopano muli chipinda mnyumba mwanu komanso mpando wolemekezeka m'mitima yambiri.
Koma, mtolowo ukhoza kubweretsa zovuta kuubwenzi wanu.
Chofunikira ndikuti nthawi zonse muziyang'ana pakupanga malo ochezera, nthawi yolumikizana, kulumikizana momasuka, komanso kukulitsa kudzipereka. Kholo limodzi likapeputsa linzake kapena kulera kosagwirizana kumakhala chizolowezi, kusamvana m'mabanja kumakhala kovuta kwambiri.
Kuphatikiza pa malangizo atsopanowa a makolo, muyenera kusankha chithandizo chamankhwala, komwe mungapeze upangiri waluso pakukangana kwamabanja komanso ntchito zothandiza kuthana ndi kusamvana kwa mabanja kapena ntchito zothanirana ndi mabanja, zomwe zingasinthe nyanja ngati ubale wanu ndi chimwemwe chonse.
Ndili ndi malingaliro awa mudzakhala mukumenya mikangano yatsopano ya makolo nthawi yomweyo.