Ndi pafupifupi Chaka Chatsopano, ndipo izi zikutanthauza zipewa zapaphwando, zakumwa zoziziritsa kukhosi ndi kupsompsona pakati pausiku.Zikutanthauzanso kuti mawu olimbikitsa a Hava Chaka Chatsopano ndi ochuluka. Bwanji osaganizira mawu olimbikitsawa ndikupanga nzeru zawo kukhala gawo laubwenzi wanu chaka chamawa?
"Lembani pamtima panu kuti tsiku lililonse ndiye tsiku labwino kwambiri mchaka" -Ralph Waldo Emerson
Mabanja omwe amayang'ana zabwino m'miyoyo yawo, maubale awo, komanso wina ndi mnzake, amakhala achimwemwe kuposa omwe amayang'ana kwambiri zoyipa. Ubale uliwonse umabwera ndi zovuta zake. Pofunafuna zabwino, mumathandizira kuchepetsa zoyipa ndikubweretsa mphamvu ku moyo wanu limodzi. Mukayang'ana zabwino mupeza zambiri. Ndizoyenda bwino zomwe zimapanga zizolowezi zabwino muchikondi chanu ndikuthandizani kuti muziyamikira wina ndi mnzake. Inu ndi mnzanu mudzakhumudwitsana nthawi ndi nthawi. Ndi zachilengedwe zokha. Mwinanso nyumba yanu siomwe mungakonde, kapena ndalama zanu sizili bwino. Zomwe zikuchitika, mutha kuthana ndi zovuta zenizeni muubwenzi wanu ndikukhalabe ndi malingaliro abwino ndikuyang'ana zabwino m'malo mwa zoyipa.
“Chaka chatsopano chimaimirira patsogolo pathu, ngati mutu m'buku, kudikira kuti chilembedwe. Titha kuthandiza kulemba nkhaniyi pokhazikitsa zolinga. ” -Melody Beattie
Zosankha za chaka chatsopano sizili za anthu okhaokha - khalani ndi nthawi yopanga ziganizo limodzi ngati banja. Kupanga zisankho za chaka chatsopano limodzi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yosanthula zomwe zili zabwino muubwenzi wanu ndikupeza njira zabwino zothandiziranso kusintha. Khalani ndi nthawi yopanga zokambirana limodzi mu Usiku Watsopano Watsopano. Mwinamwake mukufuna kuthera nthawi yochuluka pamodzi, kuyenda ulendo, kuyamba zosangalatsa, kugwiritsa ntchito bajeti yatsopano, kapena kuphunzira kulankhulana bwino. Chilichonse chomwe mungasankhe, khalani ndi nthawi yayitali chaka chonse kuti muwone momwe zolinga zaubwenzi wanu zikuyendera.
“Ndikhulupirira kuti chaka chikubwerachi, mudzalakwitsa. Chifukwa ngati mukulakwitsa, ndiye kuti mukupanga zatsopano "-Neil Gaiman
Dikirani, kodi tikunena kuti muyenera kulakwitsa muubwenzi wanu? Osati ndendende. Koma zolakwa ndizosapeweka. Inu ndi mnzanu ndinu anthu; nonse mudzakhala ndi masiku abwino ndi masiku oyipa, mudzakhala osasangalala, kapena mupange zolakwika pakuweruza. Momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito nthawizi zitha kupanga kusiyana konse muubwenzi wanu. Kodi mumamunyoza mnzanu? Kodi mumakwiya ndikuwakalipira kapena kuwakalipira ngati alakwitsa? Ngati ali osaganizira, kodi mumawoneka ngati adachita dala? Kapena mumatenga kamphindi kuti mumve chisoni ndikumvetsetsa kuti akuchita bwino kwambiri? Chitirani wina ndi mnzake mokoma mtima ndikukhululukirana, ndipo yesetsani kusasungirana chakukhosi kapena kusunga mphambu. Chibwenzi chanu chidzakhala chabwino kwambiri.
"Kupambana kwanu ndi chisangalalo chagona mwa inu. Tsimikizani mtima kuti mukhalebe achimwemwe. ” -Helen Keller
Gawo lalikulu la chisangalalo m'maubale ndi mgwirizano - koma palinso ntchito yodziyimira payokha. Ndizosavuta kupangitsa mnzanu kukhala ndiudindo wachimwemwe chanu, ndi kuwakwiyira ngati sakukwaniritsa chiyembekezo chimenecho. Koma apa pali chowonadi: Ndi inu nokha amene mumayambitsa chisangalalo chanu. Zikutanthauza chiyani potengera ubale wanu? Zikutanthauza kuti nonse mumakhala ndi nthawi yochita zinthu zomwe zimakusangalatsani m'malingaliro ndi thupi. Tengani nthawi yazokonda zomwe mumakonda, ndikuthandizana pakupanga nthawi yochitira. Muzicheza ndi abwenzi abwino kapena abale anu omwe amakukondani komanso amakuthandizani. Samalirani thanzi lanu lamaganizidwe. Mukadzisamalira bwino, mutha kupatsa wokondedwa wanu zabwino kuposa inu nonse.
"Lingaliro lathu la chaka chatsopano likhale ili: Tidzakhala komweko wina ndi mnzake" -Goran Persson
Ndikosavuta konse kulemedwa ndi ntchito, banja komanso kudzipereka ndikuyamba kutenga mnzanu mopepuka. Kupatula apo, amapezeka tsiku lililonse. Koma kutenga mnzanu mopepuka kumangobweretsa mkwiyo ndikuwononga ubale wanu. Mwasankha kugawana miyoyo yanu - zikutanthauza kuti mnzanuyo ayenera kukhala wofunika kwambiri m'moyo wanu, osati pambuyo pake. Pangani kudzipereka kuti mukhale othandizana wina ndi mnzake komanso okangalika kwambiri pamawu. Tengani nthawi yolumikizana ndi mnzanuyo kuti mudziwe zomwe zikuwachitikira, nkhawa zomwe ali nazo, ndi maloto awo. Nthawi yabwino yolankhulana, kulumikizana, ndi kumasuka popanda kupsinjika kapena kusokonezedwa kumalimbitsa ubale wanu.
Ndemanga za Chaka Chatsopano ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri kwa mabanja. Pangani kudzipereka kuti musunge mawu okondeka awa pamtima ndikuwonera ubale wanu ukukula mwamphamvu. Ndipo ngati mukufuna chikumbutso mwachidule, kumbukirani mawu anzeru awa ochokera kwa Benjamin Franklin:
"Limbanani nawo zoyipa zanu, khalani mwamtendere ndi anansi anu, ndipo chaka chilichonse chatsopano mupezereni mwamuna wabwino (kapena mkazi, pepani Ben)."