Zamkati
Anthu nthawi zambiri amalumikizana Mimba zosakonzekera ndi iwo omwe sanayende pamsewu koma kuthana ndi mimba yosakonzekera ndi vuto lomwe mabanja amakumananso nalo.
Kuyankha koyamba atamva nkhani yokhudza kutenga pakati mosakonzekera muukwati, mwina kungakhale kuphatikiza ndi kudandaula ndikutsatiridwa ndi funso, "Tichite chiyani?"
Yankho la funsoli 'momwe angathetsere mimba yosakonzekera?' ndizofotokozera mwatsatanetsatane zomwe zimatengera momwe zinthu zilili.
Sipadzakhala kuchepa kwa malangizo osayembekezereka oyembekezera kapena upangiri wosafuna pathupi, koma muyenera kuganizira zomwe mungasankhe ndikutsatira zomwe zimakuthandizani kwambiri kuthana ndi mimba yosakonzekera.
Kubweretsa mwana padziko lapansi sichinthu chomwe okwatirana akufuna kukumana nacho mwadzidzidzi koma ngati zichitika, palibe kuchitira mwina koma kuphunzira momwe angathetsere mimba yosafunikira m'njira yabwino kwambiri.
Mnzanu alipo nanu
Chinthu choyamba kukumbukira momwe mungachitire ndi mimba yosayembekezereka ndikuti simuli nokha. Muli ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mnzanu wodabwitsayo yemwe amakhala pomwepo panjira iliyonse.
Kungozindikira kuti pali winawake amene akugawana chilichonse chododometsa ndi nkhawa kumapangitsa kuti mtima ukhale m'malo. Thandizo ndi chilichonse.
Munthawi yoyamba iyi ya kuthana ndi mimba yosayembekezereka kumbukirani kuti ndibwino kumva momwe mukumvera.
Kaya mukuchita mantha m'malingaliro mwanu, kutuluka misozi, kapena kukhumudwa kapena kukwiya, muli ndi ufulu wokhala ndi malingaliro amenewo komanso mnzanu.
Kuwaphimba kumangokupweteketsani kumapeto. Kwa ambiri, malingaliro oyambilirawa atafotokozedwa, nkhani yomwe ndi yosayembekezereka mwina ingakhudze kwambiri zomwe akutuluka.
Onetsetsani kuti musaweruze zomwe mnzanu akunena pakadali pano chifukwa monga tonse tikudziwa; ena amachita bwino ndi zosayembekezereka kuposa ena.
Cholinga chanu chachikulu ndikuyamba ndikusunga mgwirizano womwewo chifukwa mudzafunika mnzanu paulendo wonse wapakati, ndipo adzakusowani.
"Mutha kumva choncho" ndi yankho labwino kwambiri. Imati, "Ndili pano" kwinaku ndikulola kutulutsa zomwe anali nazo poyamba.
Khalani ndi zokambirana zingapo kuti mupange pulani
Kuchita ndi pakati kosafunikira muukwati pamafunika zochulukirapo kuposa kukhala pansi. Pambuyo poti inu ndi mnzanu mwakhazikika ndipo mwayamba kukumana ndi nkhani, kambiranani zingapo zotsatirazi.
Losavuta, "Wokondedwa, tichita chiyani?" mpira udzagudubuza. Kutengera ndi momwe zinthu ziliri, zinthu zingapo zimatha kupangitsa kuti mimba yosafunikira ikhale yovuta kwambiri.
Inu ndi mnzanuyo mungakhale ndi ana pakhomo ndipo simungamvetse lingaliro lothandizira mwana wina kupatula kupereka chisamaliro chomwe chimafunikira.
Zina zomwe zikudetsa nkhaŵa zimaphatikizapo kulephera kuthandiza mwana pazachuma kapena kusowa malo okhala, kungotchulapo ochepa.
Mavuto akulu okhudza kuthana ndi mimba yosafunikira amayenera kukambirana kaye. Kuti muchite izi bwino ndikukhala ndi zokambirana zingapo zopindulitsa, pangani malo abwino pazokambiranazi.
Asanapite patsogolo ndi zokambiranazo wina anene kuti, “Ndikudziwa kuti tili ndi zambiri zoti tichite pakadali pano.
Tiyeni tilole wina ndi mnzake kuti azilankhula momasuka komanso moona mtima za komwe malingaliro athu ali pakadali pano kuti tipeze pulani yomwe ingagwire ntchito pabanja lathu. Tili ndi zovuta patsogolo koma tithana nazo limodzi. ”
Kuchokera pamenepo, onse awiri atha kugawana zomwe zili m'maganizo mwawo, kuuzana zakukhosi kwawo ndikupitiliza kusankha zomwe angachite kenako.
Kwa ambiri izi zithandizira kupulumutsa ndalama, kutembenukira kubanja kukathandizidwa ndikuthana ndi vuto lakunyumba. Kumbukirani kuti pali njira nthawi zonse.
Kutengera momwe banja likuyendetsedwera, m'modzi kapena onse awiri atha kupeza ntchito ina kapena kugwira ntchito maola owonjezera.
Ngati wokwatirana amakhala kunyumba atha kuyamba bizinesi yaying'ono yakunyumba kuti apeze ndalama zowonjezerapo, kulera osamalira ana (ndiye banja ndiye), ndikuphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito malo mnyumba moyenera ngati kusamuka sichotheka.
Dongosolo likayamba kukula, kumbukirani kuti chifukwa chakuti chinthu chovuta sichitanthauza kuti nchoipa. Mphatso zokongola kwambiri sizibwera phukusi zokopa kwenikweni.
Mukamakambirana zambiri kuthana ndi mimba yosafunikira, mudzamva bwino. Mantha nthawi zambiri amakhala osakhalitsa ndipo chisangalalo chimayamba posachedwa.
Kulankhula za mimba kumapangitsa okwatirana kusintha kuchoka pakusakhulupirira ndikukhala ovomerezeka. Ngakhale ambiri amatha kusintha mwachangu, ena satero.
Ngati mayankho okhumudwitsa achedwa, yambani kusokoneza moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, kapena m'modzi / onse awiri atatsekedwa samazengereza kufunsa akatswiri. Izi zitha kukhala ngati upangiri kapena chithandizo chamankhwala.
Unikani zosowa
Mutatha kuyankhula ndikupanga kusintha kofunikira kuchokera pakusakhulupirira ndi kudabwitsidwa ndikuvomera, ganizirani zosowa zomwe mukufuna. Choyamba pamndandandawu ndikuwona dokotala.
Pofuna kuti mayi ndi mwana akhale athanzi, pamafunika kuwachezera pafupipafupi kuti zitsimikizire kuti zonse zikuyenda bwino. Atazindikira kuti ali ndi pakati mosayembekezereka, anthu okwatirana akuyenera kupita kukakumana limodzi.
Sikuti maimidwe okha amangodziwitsa mwamuna ndi mkazi wake koma zimapangitsa kuti zinthu zizikhala zenizeni. Ngakhale nthawi yomwe madokotala amalembetsa ndi yayikulu, maanja nthawi zambiri amasangalala kukhala limodzi nthawi imeneyi.
Mwamuna ndi mkazi wake amakambirana paulendo wapita kumbuyo ndi kubwerera, kucheza mu chipinda chodikirira, mwina kugawana kuseka pang'ono ndikukhala ndi mwayi wosangalala ndi mwanayo panjira.
Kamodzi mbali yathanzi la mimba amasamalidwa posowa china ndikusunga ubalewo kukhala wathanzi. Ino ndi nthawi yolimbikitsa ubale.
Ganizirani zaukwati, kusamalirana, ndipo nthawi zonse musakhale ndi pakati mwangozi muubongo. Pitani kutali ndi izo. Chilichonse chikhala bwino. M'malo mwake, yang'anani paukwati.
Mwachitsanzo, mutapita ku nthawi yokumana, pitani kumalo anu odyera omwe mumawakonda kuti mukakhale ndi chakudya chamasana mwachisawawa, konzani masiku chifukwa, komanso onjezerani chilakolako (ingokhalani otetezeka pokhudzana ndi kugonana).
Kuthetsa nkhawa ndikuseka komanso kukondana kumasintha malingaliro kukhala abwinoko. Monga mukuwonera, mimba yosakonzekera muukwati sikuyenera kukhala yovuta.
Zodabwitsa za moyo ndi zomwe mumapanga. Mukakhala ndi zokambirana zokhudzana ndi pakati, pangani dongosolo, ndikuwunika zosowa. Maganizo amatha kusintha ndipo pamapeto pake, chisangalalo chidzakwaniritsidwa.