Zamkati
- Apa pakubwera womvera chisoni; yemwenso amadziwika kuti mchiritsi
- Zomwe zimayambitsa ubale woopsawo
- Kodi chibwenzi chawo chidzakhala bwanji?
- Yankho
Nthawi zina, pena pomwe amakula kuyambira ali mwana, munthu amadzimva wopanda pake komanso wopanda pake, ndipo chifukwa cha izi, amatha kufunafuna nthawi zonse kutsimikizika komwe amafunikira kwambiri.
Apa pakubwera womvera chisoni; yemwenso amadziwika kuti mchiritsi
Womvera chisoni amatha kuzindikira ndikumva kupweteka komwe wokondedwa wawo akumva ndipo amakonda kuzichotsa ngati kuti ndi zawo.
Ngati womvera chisoni sakudziwa malire ake ndipo sakudziwa momwe angadzitetezere, amatha kulumikizana ndi narcissist; ayesa kuthetsa ululu wawo ndikukonzanso zomwe zawonongeka.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe onse ochita zofananira ali ofanana ndikuti ndianthu ovulala pamaganizidwe.
Zomwe zimayambitsa izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta zaubwana zomwe zimawawononga moyo wawo wonse. Popeza akhala akumadziona ngati achabechabe komanso osayamikiridwa, amakhala ofunafuna nthawi zonse kuyamikiridwa ndi kutsimikizika.
Apa ndipomwe ma Empath amathandizira koma zabwino zomwe anthuwa amatha kuchita ngati kugwa kwawo ngati sakhala osamala.
Anthu awiriwa akamakopeka, zotsatira zake sizongokulirapo chabe koma ndi poizoni wodabwitsa.
Pitilizani kuwerenga kuti mupeze chomwe chimayambitsa ubale woopsawu.
Zomwe zimayambitsa ubale woopsawo
Zomwe zimayambitsa kuwopsa kwa ubale wapakati pa narcissist ndi kumvera ena chisoni makamaka chifukwa chamdima wamatsenga ali nawo. Mbali iyi nthawi zambiri imanyalanyazidwa ndi womvera chisoni.
Wolemba zamatsenga amatha kuyamwa moyo wa aliyense amene angafune kapena kukumana naye.
Amatha kutsimikizika ndikupangitsa anzawo kuti azimva kuti ndiosakwanira komanso osalimba kenako adzawagwiritsa ntchito mtsogolo.
Womvera chisoni amakhulupirira kuti aliyense ali momwe aliri, anthu inu mumawona zabwino za wina ndi mzake ndipo mumakhaladi athanzi. Kutengeka kumeneku komwe kumakhala mwa iwo kumatha kuyamikiridwa komanso kumawononga chifukwa si onse omwe ali owona mtima komanso abwino monga iwo alili.
Anthu osiyanasiyana ali ndi zosowa zosiyanasiyana komanso ma ajenda osiyanasiyana omwe angawavulaze.
Zolinga za wankhanza ndizongogwiritsa ntchito; amafuna kukhala ndi chiwongolero chokwanira cha wokondedwa wawo, ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito ena ngati chida chotsimikizira kuti akumva bwino ndikukhala pamwamba pawo. Zolinga za womvera chisoni ndikuchiritsa, chisamaliro ndi chikondi.
Chifukwa cha zolinga zawo zosiyanasiyana, anthu osiyanawa sangapeze malire.
Kodi chibwenzi chawo chidzakhala bwanji?
Ngati wamankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso womvera chisoni atha kukhala muubwenzi, kudzipereka kwawo kumangokhala koipa kosatheka kutuluka.
Chikondi chochuluka ndikumvera chisoni kudzawapatsa zochulukirapo pakuwongolera komwe wolemba nkhaniyo amve ndikumverera.
Izi, zimathandizanso kuti omverawo akhale ozunzidwa.
Womvera chisoni amakhala wosatetezeka ndikuvulazidwa; ayamba kumverera ngati wozunzidwayo, ndikupanga mikhalidwe yonga yomwe wamisili ali nayo.
Wolemba zamankhwala akamapeza mnzake womumvera chisoni wavulala amvetsetsa kuti atsimikiza; wokhumudwitsa komanso wovulazidwa kwambiri ndikamatsimikizira kuti wolemba nkhani zamatsenga amakhala wosangalala komanso wosangalala.
Impath yosakondweretsayo imasakira kumverera kothandizidwa ndi chikondi kuchokera kwa wamatsenga ndikufunafuna kutsimikizika. Pakadali pano muubwenzi, cholinga chonse cha omvera chisoni chidzakhala pakumva kupweteka komanso kufunafuna chikondi; adzakhala otanganidwa kufunafuna kuti asazindikire kuti kuwonongeka kukuchokera kwa mnzawo waukatswiri.
Sazindikira kuti mlanduwo uyenera kukhala pa iwo.
Nkhondo yowawa iyi imatha kutsatira ndikulanda moyo wa omvera. Adzakhala otengeka kwambiri; asaka zowonongekera mkati m'malo mwakunja. Pakadali pano, empath ayenera kuzindikira momwe aliri ndikuwuka.
Kuyesera kulikonse kolumikizana ndi wankhanza kudzakhala kopanda ntchito chifukwa sikungakhale kotonthoza aliyense.
Popeza ndiopusitsa kwambiri, amasiya chilichonse chomwe angafune ndikuwadzudzula okha. Adzadzudzula zowawa zomwe akumva komanso kuwadzudzula chifukwa chakumvera chisoni iwonso.
Womvera chisoni adzazindikira kuti ali pachibwenzi chowononga ndipo adzawona kufunika kakuimba mlandu chilichonse pa wankhanza, komabe; iyi si yankho.
Yankho
Njira yothetsera njira zoyeserera za wankhanza ndikuyenda kutali ndi zonse zomwe mudapanga ndikuthetsa chibwenzicho. Pamapeto pa tsikulo, zonse zomwe zimafunikira ndi momwe timaganizira kuti tiyenera kuchitiridwa.
Ngati womvera chisoni amakhalabe pachibwenzi ichi, ndiye chifukwa amaganiza kuti sayenera kuchita china chilichonse kuposa ichi. Komabe, pezani kulimba mtima ndi mphamvu kuti muchokere kwathunthu pachibwenzi chopanda tanthauzo ichi ndikuyamba zatsopano.