Zamkati
- Unikani banja lanu loyamba
- Dziwani bwino mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu watsopano
- Khalani osatetezeka
- Pezani uphungu
- Chotsani mphamvu zotsalira muukwati wanu woyamba
- Sinthani momwe ziliri
- Onetsetsani kalembedwe kanu
- Ganizirani moyenera maudindo azachuma
Ukwati wachiwiri ndi mwayi wabwino wopanga chiyambi chatsopano m'moyo wanu. Nthawi ino muli ndi chidziwitso, zokumana nazo, komanso nzeru zakudzipereka zomwe simunakhale nazo nthawi yoyamba. Chifukwa chake ndizomveka kugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso ichi ndi chidziwitso kuti muthe kupanga banja lanu lachiwiri kukhala lamuyaya.
Nawa ena mwa malangizo abwino kwambiri okwatirana omwe mungapeze. Zonsezi zikuthandizani kuti banja lanu lachiwiri likhale lolimba, losangalala komanso lathanzi.
Unikani banja lanu loyamba
Onetsani zolakwa ndi zofooka zanu zomwe munapanga mu banja lanu loyamba, ndipo musazibwereze muukwati wanu wachiwiri.
Mukhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi banja lachiwiri labwino ngati mungadziwe zomwe mudalakwitsa m'mbuyomu.
Dziwani bwino mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu watsopano
Dziperekeni kuphunzira momwe mungadziwire mnzanu mozama kwambiri. Izi zikutanthauza kukambirana zinthu ndi mnzanuyo ngakhale muli ndi manyazi, mantha kapena manyazi.
Ngati mukufuna kuti banja lanu lachiwiri likhale lolimba, muyenera kukhala owona mtima, ndipo pakunena zowona, mupanga malo omwe kuwona mtima ndi kukondana kwenikweni kuli ponseponse!
Khalani osatetezeka
Chitani nawo banja lanu lachiwiri; Uwu ndi upangiri wovuta waukwati wachiwiri chifukwa kukhala womasuka, wowona mtima komanso wosatetezeka nonsenu kumakhala kovuta kwambiri.
Koma ngati mungathe kuchita izi, mudzapeza zabwino muukwati wanu wachiwiri kuposa zomwe mumalakalaka kwambiri. Lowani mkati, khalani olimba mtima ndikudziwonetsa.
Pezani uphungu
Nthawi yabwino yolandila uphungu musanakhale ndi mavuto. Mwanjira imeneyi mumapanga ubale ndi phungu wanu yemwe atha kuyamba kukumvetsetsani inu ndi mnzanuyo komanso mphamvu za banja lanu.
Zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mukamagunda miyala kapena muli ndi china chake chovuta kuthana nacho, mumakhala ndi mlangizi yemwe 'amakufikitsani' ndipo amakhala wokonzeka kukuthandizani kuyendamo.
Chomwe tikudziwa ndichakuti, sitidziwa chilichonse, sitidziwa chinthu chabwino kuchita m'malo onse m'moyo wathu kuphatikiza ukwati, koma mlangizi wazamabanja amadziwa zambiri komanso amadziwa bwino kuthana ndi mavuto omwewo omwe mungakumane nawo pafupipafupi.
Chifukwa chake kulandira upangiri ndikutenga njira yachangu yotetezera banja lanu ndikusunga chilichonse kukhala chosangalala. Ngati anthu angazindikire izi aliyense azichita!
Chotsani mphamvu zotsalira muukwati wanu woyamba
Musayambe ukwati wanu watsopano m'banja lomwelo kapena m'dera lomwe mudathetsa banja lanu lomaliza. Musalole mphamvu ndi mizukwa yam'mbuyomu kulowa muukwati wanu watsopano. Ngakhale mutakhala wokondwa kukhalabe komwe mnzanuyo sangakhale.
Ngakhale mukuganiza kuti ndinu osangalala sizitanthauza kuti mphamvu za banja lomaliza sizingatayike muubwenzi wanu mwanjira ina.
Tetezani ukwati wanu zivute zitani ndikuuyambitsa bwino, kuyambira ndi zatsopano m'nyumba yatsopano.
Sinthani momwe ziliri
Yesetsani kulumikizana ndi mnzanuyo ndikukhalitsa moyo wanu kuti muthandizire izi pakukhazikitsa zizolowezi zatsopano ndi zizolowezi zomwe zimapanga moyo womwe mukufuna.
Bwanji osaganizira zokambirana izi ndi mnzanu ndikupanga dongosolo limodzi - zochitikazo zikulimbikitsani kugawana, kulumikizana, kukulitsa kulumikizana kwanu ndikuwongolera moyo wanu komanso tsogolo lanu limodzi.
Onetsetsani kalembedwe kanu
Kusintha momwe mumayanjanirana, kubweretsa kusintha kwatsopano ku banja lanu lachiwiri - inde, uwu ndi upangiri wabanja wachiwiri womwe ungakuthandizeni bwino pamaubwenzi onse, osati achikondi chokha.
Khalani osinthasintha, otseguka kuti musinthe, ololerana, kupepesa ndikupanga zosintha mosalekeza mbanja lanu kuti nonse mukhale ogwirizana komanso kuyenda ndi nthawi.
Mukamachita izi, mupeza njira zatsopano, zosangalatsa komanso zopindulitsa zofotokozera zomwe mwina simunaganizirepo kale.
Ganizirani moyenera maudindo azachuma
Maukwati ambiri ndi ovuta chifukwa padzakhala zopereka zowonjezera zowonjezera ndalama monga ndalama zothandizira ana, zoperekera ndalama, ndi zina zambiri.
Ngati mavuto azachuma angakulepheretseni kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu, kambiranani izi ndi mnzanu wamtsogolo ndikupempha upangiri wosudzulana limodzi.
Kenako khalani ndi nthawi yokonzekera zachuma chanu limodzi kuti muwonetsetse kuti nonse mukudziwa zomwe mukupanga.
Kukhumudwa nawo mtsogolo, kapena kunena zinthu monga 'tikhoza kuchita x ngati sitinayenera kulipira mwana wanu kapena alimony' kumangobweretsa mavuto ndipo kungawononge kukhulupirirana ndikuyendetsa pakati panu.
M'malo mwake, zikhale zanu monga zanu, monga zina zomwe simungasinthe zomwe munagwirizana musanalowe m'banja ndikukonzekera moyo wanu moyenerera.