Zamkati
- Kusamuka ndikofunikira
- Sonkhanitsani zambiri zachuma
- Konzekerani kukhala nokha
- Konzani zinthu ndi ana anu
Kwa anthu ambiri, imodzi mwamasitepe oyamba pakusudzulana ndi kuchoka panyumba.
Nthawi zina kusamuka kumachitika modekha komanso mwanzeru. Nthawi zina zimakhala zowawa komanso zachiwawa. Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, ndibwino kutsatira mndandanda wachisudzulowu.
Kusamuka ndikofunikira
M'mayiko ambiri, kuchoka ndi gawo lofunikira mwalamulo kuthetsa ukwati. Ili ndiye gawo lofunikira kwambiri pamndandanda wachisudzulo wosunthira kunja.
Kusudzulana ndi kutuluka kunja ndizoyambirira kwa wina ndi mnzake. Mnzanu wina akachoka, banja limatha. Ndipo pambuyo pa chisudzulo, ndikofunikira kuti m'modzi mwa awiriwo achoke.
Mayiko ena amangopereka chisudzulo chopanda chifukwa banja likakhala patokha kwa a nthawi imatha kulikonse kuyambira masabata angapo mpaka kupitilira chaka.
Muyenera kufufuza zamalamulo mchigawo chanu, chifukwa ngati izi ndizofunikira muyenera kukhazikitsa nyumba yogona mwachangu momwe mungathere. Nthawi yopatukayi imagwira ntchito ngati nthawi yodikira yomwe imaletsa chisudzulo chomaliza mpaka boma likutsimikiza kuti banjali likufunikiradi kusudzulana. Izi zikuyenera kukhala pamwamba pa chisudzulo chanu posankha mndandanda ngati mukukhala m'boma ndi lamuloli.
Sonkhanitsani zambiri zachuma
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri pamndandanda wazomwe anthu atha kusudzulana. Kugawa katundu wa banja (kapena ngongole) ndi gawo lalikulu lakusudzulana.
Kungakhale kovuta kwambiri kugawa malowa musakudziwa kuti muli ndi zochuluka motani. Ndizodabwitsa kuti kawirikawiri m'modzi m'modzi samazindikira za chuma cha banjali. Choyipa chachikulu, m'mabanja ambiri, palibe wokwatirana yemwe amadziwa bwino zinthu.
Mukusudzulana, munthu yemwe ali ndi chidziwitso chabungwe nthawi zambiri amatuluka patsogolo. Kusiya loya wanu kuti akayang'anire mapepala anu azachuma, kapena ngakhale kupita ku khothi kukatenga zambiri kuchokera kwa okwatirana, zitha kukhala zodula kwambiri.
Mwamuna kapena mkazi yemwe ali ndi ndandanda yosudzulana yothetsera bwino mndandanda adzawonetsetsa kuti palibe chuma chomwe chikugwera ming'alu, ndipo palibe zolipirira zomwe sizikupezeka.
Konzekerani kukhala nokha
Ganizirani njira zomwe mumadalira mnzanu. Kodi muli ndi akaunti yakubanki yolumikizana? Mumagawana dongosolo lam'manja? Kodi aliyense ali ndi makiyi a galimoto yanu “yanu”?
Zinthu izi zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri mwadzidzidzi. Nthawi zambiri, akaunti yakubanki yolumikizana imayenera kuima mwachangu, koma nthawi yomweyo, simukuloledwa kukhetsa akauntiyo basi. Muyenera kupanga mgwirizano wamanthawi yayitali mpaka zinthu zitatsirizidwa. Kusamalira chuma kwakanthawi ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri pamndandanda wotsatira chisudzulo.
Izi zitha kufuna kuti makhothi alowererepo, koma maanja ambiri amatha kuthana nawo. Mwachitsanzo, akaunti yolumikizirayo itha kupitilirabe kulipira ngongole ngati yanyumba yanyumba, koma wokwatirana aliyense amaloledwa ndalama zina kuwonongera zina.
Mwinanso mukufuna foni yatsopano kuti mnzanuyo asaone zolemba zanu, ndipo nthawi zambiri mumafuna kuletsa mkazi wanu kuchita zinthu monga galimoto yanu. Chofunikira pakuwonjezera mndandanda wazakusudzulana.
Konzani zinthu ndi ana anu
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti ofufuza ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ana amatha kusintha patapita nthawi kusudzulana. Makolo sayenera kukhala pachibwenzi chosagwirizana ndi ana awo.
Izi zati, momwe mungachitire izi zimatha kusintha moyo wamwana. Muyenera kuyesetsa kukhala omasuka ndi ana anu, ndikuwapatsa chikondi komanso kuwalimbikitsa aliyense payekha ngakhale simungakwanitse kutero ngati banja. Yesetsani kuthetsa mkangano wanu ndi mnzanuyo kusiyana ndi ubale wanu ndi ana anu.
Sikuti ndi chilekano chokha chomwe chikuchotsanso mndandanda komanso mndandanda wa zosunthira pambuyo pa chisudzulo. Ngakhale kusokonekera kwamalingaliro kudzafunika nthawi kuti kukhazikike, ndi zofunika zachuma ndi zalamulo zitachoka, mungakhale ndi chinthu chimodzi chosadandaula ndipo mudzakhala gawo limodzi lakusunthira pambuyo pa chisudzulo.