Zamkati
- Mukufuna kuti akuyang'anire ndi maso owoneka bwino?
- Q: Kodi kukondana kwenikweni ndikotani?
- Q: Kodi ndi mphatso ziti zachikondi zomwe mwalandira?
- Q: Ndi malingaliro ati achikondi kwa iye?
- Q: Ndi malingaliro ati achikondi kwa iye m'chipinda chogona?
- Q: Mukuganiza kuti aliyense ayenera kupita kuchipinda chotere?
- Q: Nanga bwanji zachikondi kunyumba? Zabwino kwambiri ndi ziti?
- Q: Mawu omaliza aliwonse pazokhudzana ndi iye?
Mukufuna kuti wokondedwa wanu akhale wofooka m'maondo? Mpatseni chibwenzi chomwe akufuna ndi izi zachikondi kwa iye.
Mukamawerenga momwe mumakondera maupangiri achikondi awa kwa iye momwe angakuthandizireni kulumikizana kwambiri ndi mnzanu.
Mukufuna kuti akuyang'anire ndi maso owoneka bwino?
Mupangitseni mzimu wake kumwetulira ndi maupangiri achikondi awa kwa iye.
Mukamawerenga nkhaniyi pa nkhani yachikondi, mupeza malingaliro okondana ndi iye masiku. Mkazi wapadera m'moyo wanu.
Aliyense amene ananena kuti kukondana kwamwalira sanakumaneko ndi Carole Nottingham.
Carole ndi wachiwiri kwa wachiwiri kwa prezidenti wa kampani ku banki yayikulu, koma chithunzi chotsimikizika chabanki yosasunthika sichitha kupitilira momwe Carole amakhalira moyo wake.
Carole amakhala ndikukhala pachibwenzi.
Iye ndi mwamuna wake mosamala amasankha kusunga chibwenzi monga gawo lofunikira m'miyoyo yawo.
Anthu omwe amagwira naye ntchito amadziona kuti ndiwokhazikika, wodalirika komanso wogwira naye ntchito. Anzake amati ndiwolingalira kwambiri pagulu lawo.
Zachikondi zadzaza dziko lake ndipo zimawoneka m'mafashoni ake komanso machitidwe ake. Kaya ndi malingaliro achikondi kwa iye kunyumba kapena maupangiri achikondi kwa iye, palibe kusowa kwa malingaliro olimbikitsa azimayiwo kukhala osangalala.
Tagwira Carole ngati katswiri wathu pazinthu zonse zachikondi.
Adzagawana malingaliro achikondi kwa iye, kuwulula momwe angabweretsere chikondi m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku ndi malangizo osavuta kutsatira pamalingaliro azachisangalalo kwa iye.
Kupititsa patsogolo, kukulitsa, kuwonjezera
Carole adakumana nafe m'chipinda chamisonkhano kulikulu la banki yake.
Atayang'ana mosavala mwinjiro wa suti yakuda yaku Armani, adakhala m'modzi mwa mipando yayikulu yazikopa yomwe idazungulira gome lalikulu lamsonkhano.
Adasuntha chiphaso chachikulu cha orchids waminyanga ya njovu kuti anthu asawonongeke.
Adayamba, "Ndili ndi mwayi waukulu kuti lero ndayitanidwa kuti ndidzayankhule nanu za mutu wapafupi komanso wokondedwa kwambiri pamtima panga, zachikondi.
Ndikufuna kugawana nawo malingaliro ndi malingaliro anga pamutu wofunika kwambiri wamalangizo achikondi kwa iye. Ndili ndi mawu amodzi akuti: "Kupititsa patsogolo". Tsopano tiyeni tifike mu Q ndi A.
Q: Kodi kukondana kwenikweni ndikotani?
Yankho: Funso labwino kwambiri kuyamba. M'malingaliro mwanga, kukondana ndikofunikira pamoyo wanga monga mpweya. Ndikuganiza kuti zachikondi zitha kutanthauziridwa m'njira zingapo.
Aliyense atha kukhala ndi lingaliro losiyana pang'ono pazomwe zimatanthauza kukondana, koma ndikuziwona chonchi. Kwa ine, ndikumverera ndi chisangalalo chokhudzana ndi chikondi.
Kukonda ndikulingalira za munthu wina.
Kukondana kumakulitsa mbali zambiri m'moyo. Malangizo achikondi kwa iye ndi okhudza kukumbutsidwa momwe ena amakondedwera ndikusamaliridwa.
Q: Kodi ndi mphatso ziti zachikondi zomwe mwalandira?
Yankho: Pakhala pali angapo. Nayi imodzi yamalingaliro amphatso zachikondi kwa iye.
Zomwe zimakhala zachizolowezi: maluwa, maluwa, chokoleti, makadi. Koma chomwe chimalongosola zachikondi kwa ine ndi mphatso zosayembekezereka: Limo kupita ku eyapoti asanakwere ndege akadziwa kuchuluka kwake komwe ndimadana nako kukwera basi, chakudya chamadzulo chodabwitsa chomwe amaphika, chakudya chamasana chodabwitsa chomwe chimatumizidwa kudesiki yanga kuntchito.
Mphatso siziyenera kukhala zodzikongoletsera kapena zokometsera, koma palibe cholakwika ndi china chake mopepuka!
Imodzi mwa mphatso zachikondi kwambiri zomwe ndalandira ndi kalata yolembedwa pamanja.
Anthu samakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolembera ndi mapepala, koma kungowona zolemba za chikondi changa, zimandibweretsa pamtundu wina wachikondi. Ndiwo malangizo amodzi achikondi omwe angabwezeretse kukondana kosangalatsa ndi chithumwa chakale.
Onaninso:
Q: Ndi malingaliro ati achikondi kwa iye?
Yankho: Apanso, pali malangizo achizolowezi achikondi oti akwaniritse zomwe amakonda komanso zachikondi, mukudziwa, chakudya chamadzulo komanso kanema.
Palibe cholakwika ndi izo. Koma nthawi iliyonse mukakhala limodzi, payenera kukhala gawo lachikondi. Ngakhale ulendo wopita kunyumba Depot ukhoza kukhala wachikondi ngati muli ndi munthu amene mumamukonda.
Yang'anani kumwezi mukamadutsa pamalo akuluakulu oimikapo magalimoto ndipo kumbukirani kuti pali ma orchids osankhidwa ku Home Depots ambiri!
Ndimakondanso masanje ngakhale itakhala nyengo yanji. Chimodzi mwamalangizo omwe ndimakonda kwambiri kwa iye. Simungathe kuyenda molakwika ndi ameneyo.
Pali china chokhudza kudya panja mwina kukhala bulangeti pa kapinga kapena kukhala pa benchi, zomwe ndi zachikondi.
Limodzi mwa masiku athu achikondi pomwe tonse tidadzipereka kuthandiza kumanga nyumba za Habitat For Humanity.
Tonsefe timamva kuti tiyenera kubwezera, ndipo kuwona wina ndi mnzake kuthandiza kumanga nyumba ya banja loyenera inali tsiku limodzi lachikondi kwambiri lomwe sitinakhalepo nalo
Q: Ndi malingaliro ati achikondi kwa iye m'chipinda chogona?
A: Chabwino, tiyeni tiyambe ndi zodabwitsazi: makandulo ovota, kuyatsa kotsika, mtima wopangidwa ndi maluwa maluwa.
Zachidziwikire kuti onse ndi abwino, koma kuti muwerenge pang'ono yesetsani kuwonjezera nyimbo zosangalatsa.
Bedi lanu ndi lomwe liziwunika kwambiri mchipinda chanu, chifukwa chake lipangeni mwanjira yotanthauza kukondana nanu.
Ndiloleni ndilongosole.
Khoma loyera loyera kukhoma, kuyatsa pang'ono, maluwa oyera a cymbidium potted, migwalangwa iwiri. Zoyala pakama panga ndi zoyera za Frette. Chilichonse ndi choyera. Ndikuthawira kwanga kudziko lapansi, malo anga opumulirako, komanso malingaliro apamtima okondana kwambiri kwa iye.
Q: Mukuganiza kuti aliyense ayenera kupita kuchipinda chotere?
A: Monga anga? Ayi.
Aliyense ali ndi lingaliro losiyana pazomwe zimapangitsa chipinda chogona. Anthu ena amakonda mithunzi ya buluu kapena yofiira, kapena mwinanso mutu wanyumba kapena nthawi. Ziri pazomwe mungakonde komanso zimatha kusintha pakapita nthawi.
Pankhani yamalingaliro achikondi kwa iye, dziko lapansi ndi oyisitara wanu.
Q: Nanga bwanji zachikondi kunyumba? Zabwino kwambiri ndi ziti?
Yankho: Monga zipinda zogona, izi zimayenderana ndi makonda ndi bajeti.
Ndikhulupirireni, ndakhala m'malo opanda bajeti zokongoletsa zero, komabe ndidakwanitsa kukhala ndi mawonekedwe achikondi omwe ndidatsata. Nayi malangizo owonjezera pamalingaliro achikondi kwa iye: makandulo ovota.
Amawononga zopanda pake koma kungoganiza m'masiku anu ndi diso lofunitsitsa kuti adziwe zambiri, amatsogola mndandanda wamalangizo achikondi kwa iye.
Mutha kuziyandamitsa m'mbale zamadzi ndikuwala pang'ono, zimawoneka zachikondi m'zipinda zogona, zipinda zogona komanso mabafa.
Pakukongoletsa ndi nsalu, mnzake wina adagwiritsa ntchito zokongoletsa zochokera ku Indian saris zomwe adazitenga zotsika mtengo kwambiri. Zinkawoneka ngati zosakondana kwenikweni. Zokongoletsa zapakhomo ndizochepa chifukwa cha malingaliro anu ndi bajeti, zachidziwikire.
Q: Mawu omaliza aliwonse pazokhudzana ndi iye?
Yankho: Ngakhale mutakhala ndi zaka zingati kapena momwe zinthu ziliri, nkhani zachikondi ziyenera kukhala gawo limodzi m'moyo wanu.
Zimapangitsa chilichonse ngakhale ntchito wamba kuti zibweretse kukumbukira zachikondi. Ndiloleni ndikupatseni chitsanzo: Ndimaumitsa mbale zanga ndi matawulo tiyi omwe tonse tidatengera tchuthi chathu ku Ireland.
Ndimadana ndi kuyanika mbale, koma popeza ndimagwiritsa ntchito matawulo awa, amayamba kukumbukira zachikondi ndikundimwetulira ngakhale ndili mkati mochita ntchito yomwe ndimanyoza!
Pomaliza, pamene tikumaliza mndandanda wathu wamalangizo achikondi kwa iye, mverani chidwi chanu chonse, ndipo chenjezo lokhalo ndiloti musamupusitse.
Kumbukirani kuti bae ndi woyenera kukondedwa ndi kusamalidwa. Sayenera kupempherera nthawi yanu komanso chidwi chanu.