Zamkati
- Phunzirani kusintha
- Konzaninso kapangidwe kamagonana
- Sinthani kuchokera kuzolowera
- Malingaliro onena zamtsogolo
- Ubwenzi wapamtima
- Kusangalala pamodzi
- Phunzirani kuika wina ndi mnzake patsogolo
Kukondananso pambuyo poti banja latha kupatukana ndi munthu wabwino kwambiri kuposa onse omwe ali pachibwenzi omwe angayembekezere. Nkhani yabwino? Mukamaliza bwino, kupatukana kumatsitsimutsa kukondana muukwati. Kodi izi ndizabodza? Ayi konse! Ngakhale banja lolimba limatha kukumana ndi nsanje, kusakhulupirika, zolinga zosiyana, komanso kusowa chikondi cha wina ndi mnzake. Zopinga izi zitha kupangitsa maanja kumva ngati kukonza ubale wawo ndicholinga chopanda chiyembekezo. Chowonadi ndichakuti maanja omwe amapatukana nthawi zina amapeza kuti amabwezeretsedwanso limodzi ndikufunitsitsa kuposa kale kuti athetse mavuto awo ndikuyesetsa kuti azikhala oyamba m'banja. Umu ndi momwe kupatukana kumatsitsimutsira chikondi mu mgwirizano wamabanja.
Phunzirani kusintha
Zimatengera awiri kuti athetse chibwenzi. Nthawi yopatukana amakhala otakata ndipo zimakhala zovuta kutenga udindo pazomwe zidasokonekera muukwati. Koma, kuphunzira kusintha ndikofunikira pakukhazikitsanso chidwi cha banja lanu.
Polekana ndi mnzanu, mumatha kukhala ndi nthawi yophunzira panokha ndikuphunzira kusiya kupsinjika, nkhawa, komanso mkwiyo womwe mumakhala nawo paukwati wanu. Nthawi zina kutalikirana kwamthupi ndi kuthupi kumatha kuyambitsa nyengo yabwino yomwe nonse mumafunikira. Izi zimakuthandizani kuti mubwerere limodzi ndi mitu yoyera ndikuwunikanso zaubwenzi wanu, ndikupanga zosintha zofunika
Konzaninso kapangidwe kamagonana
Nthawi zonse mumafuna zomwe simungakhale nazo. Pa nthawi yopatukana kwanu, mumalakalaka mutagonana. Mwina simangakhale ndi mnzanu poyamba, koma mukayamba kukambirana ndi kukonza zaubwenzi wanu, chidwi chanu chogonana chimayambiranso. Monga kuti mudali pachibwenzi, mwadzidzidzi dzanja lanu motsutsana ndi iye kapena kungotchulapo zakugonana mukukumana ndi chidwi, chiyembekezo, komanso chisangalalo chogonana. Mabanja ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yosangalatsayi kuti akhale pachibwenzi kuti afufuze zachiwerewere limodzi.
Kuchepetsa umunthu wanu wogonana kumatanthauzanso kulankhula za kugonana. Zomwe mukufuna, momwe mukufunira kuti zichitikire, zomwe zidagwira ntchito m'banja lanu kale komanso madera omwe akufunika kuti agwire ntchito. Yang'anani pazabwino za moyo wanu wakale wogonana ndikuyembekezera mwachidwi zatsopano zomwe zikubwera.
Sinthani kuchokera kuzolowera
Monga banja, mudaganiza kuti mwazindikira zonse. Munali ndi chizolowezi chapakatikati pa sabata yomwe munakonzekera mpaka mindandanda yazakudya komanso kanema wanu Lachisanu usiku.Anthu ena amawona kuti kukhala ndi moyo wamtunduwu kukhala kotonthoza komanso kopindulitsa, koma ena amawona kuti ndi wamba. Kulekana kumatsitsimutsanso chilakolako chaukwati chifukwa chodziwikiratu kuti ndichinthu chatsopano.
Pakulekanitsani mwaponyera wrench m'miyoyo yanu yomwe mudakonza mwanzeru ndikununkhira zinthu, ngakhale zitakhala zosokoneza banja lanu. Kuchotsa njira zopanda pake kumatha kugwedeza zinthu ndikupanga chiyembekezo chaubwenzi wanu, kulumikizanso ndi mnzanu, ndikugwira ntchito paukwati womwe mumalakalaka nthawi zonse kukhala wosangalatsa.
Malingaliro onena zamtsogolo
Kukhala wosakwatiwa kumawoneka kosangalatsa poyamba, makamaka ngati munanyozedwa kapena kunyozedwa ndi mnzanu. Komabe, ma single ambiri posakhalitsa amapeza kuti kukonzekera tsogolo lokha sikungakhale kosangalatsa monga momwe amaganizira kale. Kuganizira za tsogolo la Maholide osungulumwa, kulekanitsa ana, ngakhale lingaliro loyambiranso ndi watsopano tsopano zikuwoneka ngati zovuta. Malingaliro awa amakupangitsani kukumbukira nthawi zabwino zomwe munali nawo ndi mnzanu ndikuthandizani kuti muziyang'ana pazabwino za banja lanu. Kulekanaku kumayambitsanso kukondana muukwati ndipo kumakupangitsani inu nonse kuganizira njira zomwe mungabwerere limodzi ndikukonza zolakwika zomwe zachitika muukwati wanu.
Ubwenzi wapamtima
Kupatukana kumayambitsanso chidwi chaukwati makamaka chifukwa cha kusintha kwa machitidwe. Mukapatukana mutha kuyamba kukondananso, kuchitirana wina ndi mnzake monga momwe mumachitira nthawi yoyamba mukakumana. Chakudya chamadzulo chodabwitsa, chakudya chamadzulo chachikondi, chilakolako komanso chiyembekezo chogonana chitha kuyambiranso, koma gawo lofunikira kwambiri la 'chibwenzi' ndikuti mwayambiranso kukondana. Kukhala ndi nthawi yachinsinsi, yosangalala limodzi ndikugawana zokambirana mozama kumakuthandizani kuti muphunzire kukhala pachiwopsezo, kugawana zokumana nazo zopindulitsa, kuseka, komanso kusangalala ngati banja. Izi zimapangitsa kuti banja lanu likhale losangalala komanso labwino.
Kusangalala pamodzi
Ubale umayenera kukhala wosangalatsa. Pamene anthu awiri akuyesera kuthetsa ubale wawo wosweka, amafuna kusiya chidwi pa wokondedwa wawo akapeza mpata wokhala limodzi. Kupanga zokumana nazo zatsopano, kuchita zomwe mumakonda, ndikukonzekera zochitika pabanja kukutanthauza kuti zokumana zanu zonse pamodzi ndizosangalatsa komanso zopindulitsa. Zachidziwikire, mukudziwa kuti moyo watsiku ndi tsiku sudzakhala wodzaza ndi zochitika zatsopano komanso masiku osasintha, koma zokumana nazo zabwinozi zikuthandizani kusintha malingaliro anu pazomwe ubale wanu ungakhale ngati mutakhala kukumananso ndi ex wako.
Kutenga maulendo kumapeto kwa sabata, kukonzekera masiku ausiku, kuphatikiza ana anu usiku wam'banja, komanso kukhala ndi madeti odabwitsa a khofi kumakupatsaninso malingaliro amomwe mungapitilize kuwonongana mukabweranso limodzi. Makhalidwe amenewa amatsindikanso kufunikira kopitiliza kukhala ndi "Date Night" mukadzakumananso.
Phunzirani kuika wina ndi mnzake patsogolo
Kulekana kumayambitsanso kukondana muukwati chifukwa nonse mukuzindikira kuti muyenera kuyika wina ndi mnzake patsogolo kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino kachiwirinso. Kusokonekera pamalingaliro ndi kuwona mtima mwina zikusowa kwambiri muubwenzi wanu. Kukhala nawo mgawo latsopano laubwenzi wanu kungakuthandizeni kulumikizana wina ndi mnzake pamadongosolo omwe simunadziwepo kale. Tsopano mukuphunzira kulankhulana, mukufufuza momwe mukugwirira ntchito. Mukuyenera tsopano kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino limodzi, ndikusangalala ndi kusamvana kwamtundu woyamba monga kale. Iyi ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yobwezeretsanso chilakolako muukwati wanu womwe udasokonekera.