Zamkati
- 1. Chotsani zonyenga
- 2. Khalani tcheru kwa wina ndi mnzake
- 3. Kukambirana
- 4. Konzani, konzekerani, konzani
- 5. Samalani thanzi lanu komanso mawonekedwe anu
- 6. Kuthana ndi zovuta
- 7. Osasiya kuyesera
Kodi mudayamba mwadzifunsapo kuti ndi chiyani chomwe chimapangitsa okwatirana kukhala osangalala ndikukondana kwa nthawi yayitali?
Simuli nokha, ndipo funso lonena za momwe mungakhalire ndi banja losangalala lakhala likulu la zokambirana komanso maphunziro ambiri padziko lonse lapansi.
Chifukwa chake sizosadabwitsa kuti malingaliro ndi mayankho ake ndi ambiri komanso osiyanasiyana, banja lililonse lomwe likuchita bwino lili ndi chopangira chawo. Komabe, pali mfundo zina zapadziko lonse lapansi zomwe zitha kupititsa patsogolo ntchito yolimbikitsa kugonana kwanu.
Nkhaniyi tiwona zisanu ndi ziwirizi za 'zinsinsi zogonana kwabwino' zomwe sizobisika kwenikweni.
Malangizo abwinowa okhudzana ndiukwati samangokhala malingaliro ogonera. M'malo mwake, ndi zizolowezi zabwino zoyenera kukulitsidwa ngati mukufuna kusangalala ndi moyo wosangalala wogonana ndi chikondi cha moyo wanu.
1. Chotsani zonyenga
Gawo loyamba lachiyanjano chogonana ndichabwino, ndikukhumudwitsidwa, kapena mwanjira ina, kuchotsa malingaliro anu.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikuluzikulu zomwe zingakulepheretseni kukhala ndi moyo wogonana kwambiri ndikuganiza kuti mukapeza mnzanu wangwiro, mudzangokhala ndi moyo wosagonana kwanthawi zonse.
Mofananamo, itha kukhalanso chinyengo kuganiza kuti mukamachita zogonana, chibwenzi chanu chili pachiwopsezo. Izi sizongokhazikitsidwa zenizeni, ndipo monga china chilichonse, chomwe ndichofunika mmoyo uno, muyenera kuyesetsa.
Poleza mtima, kupilira, ndikugwira ntchito molimbika, inu ndi mnzanu mutha kukhala ndi chisangalalo chenicheni, chakuya komanso chokhalitsa muukwati.
2. Khalani tcheru kwa wina ndi mnzake
Kutchera khutu ndizomwe zimakhudza kugonana kosangalala.
Ndipo, monga anthu, aliyense wa ife amalakalaka chisamaliro mwanjira ina. Kuwonedwa ndi kumva, kuvomerezedwa, ndikuyamikiridwa ndizomwe aliyense amafuna.
Kumbukirani momwe mudayang'anizana, ndikumangomvera mawu aliwonse omwe okondedwa anu amalankhula?
Ngati mwasiya kuchita izi kwinakwake, ino ndi nthawi yabwino kuyambiranso ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi moyo wabwino wogonana.
Mukamayang'ana kwambiri kukhala tcheru kwa wina ndi mzake, kutenga nthawi kuti muwone zazing'ono zomwe zanenedwa kapena kuchitidwa, kapena zomwe sananenedwe kapena osazichita, mudzadziwana zosowa ndi zomwe zimayambitsa. Osanyalanyaza kuusa moyo kotopa pamene mkazi wanu akutsitsa makina ochapira.
Pitani mukamuthandize, ndipo mwina mungadabwe ndi momwe angatsitsimutsidwire (komanso mwatsopano) pambuyo pake. Kapenanso kusakasaka kopweteketsa phewa kwamwamuna wanu kungatanthauze kuti amafunika kutikita bwino ndikuthira msana, zomwe zingayambitse zina.
3. Kukambirana
Mumatani ngati simukukhutitsidwa ndi zogonana?
Lankhulani za izi ngati mukuyembekezera ubale wosangalala.
Ndipo, ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinsinsi zachiwerewere zapamwamba za mabanja osangalala. Palibe njira ina yabwinoko yolimbikitsira kugonana kwanu kuposa kungolankhula za izi.
Izi zitha kukhala zovuta kwa mabanja ena, koma mukangolowera ndikuthetsa manyazi ndi manyazi anu, mupeza kuti mumayamba kumvana kwambiri.
Ngati mukufuna kumvetsetsa zomwe wokondedwa wanu amasangalala nazo, zosowa zake, ndi zokhumba zake pabedi, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyankhulapo.
Ndikofunikanso kuwunikanso mosadukiza - musaganize kuti zomwe adakhala nazo zaka ziwiri zapitazo ndichinthu chabwino kwambiri pakadali pano. Pamene nyengo za miyoyo yanu zisintha, inunso mutero, khalani otseguka kuti muyese zinthu zatsopano ndikuwona zomwe zikugwira ntchito bwino kwa aliyense wa inu.
Mutha kukhala ndi zokambirana zamtunduwu munthawi yopuma pomwe simukupanga chikondi, kenako mphindi ikakwana, zonse zomwe mukuyenera kuchita ndikutchula zina kapena zina zazing'ono zomwe zingakulimbikitseni.
4. Konzani, konzekerani, konzani
Winawake nthawi ina ananena kuti ngati mukulephera kukonzekera, mukukonzekera kulephera - ndipo izi zitha kukhalanso zowona komwe moyo wanu wachikondi umakhudzidwa. Mwinanso mukutsutsa kale ndimaganizo akuti 'kugonana kuyenera kukhala kwadzidzidzi; apo ayi, imakhala yovomerezeka komanso yolamulidwa ... '
Koma taganizirani izi kwa miniti; aliyense amakonda kupita kutchuthi, koma pali anthu ochepa kwambiri omwe angasankhe kukatenga ndege lero ndikupita kumalo omwe mumakonda kutchuthi.
Kwa ambiri a ife, tchuthi chapachaka chimakonzedwa mosamala ndikuyembekezera njira isanachitike. Nanga bwanji za zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda kuchita, monga kupalasa njinga, kuwedza nsomba, kuwerenga kapena kupita kukawonera makanema - simukuganiza zamtsogolo ndikukonzekera nthawi yomwe mudzachite zinthuzo?
Ndendende! Ndiye bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito gawo lofunikirali pokonzekera malo osangalatsa m'moyo wanu wachikondi, kuti mudzaze zinthu m'chipinda chogona?
Ngati mukudziwa kuti zichitika liti, nonse mutha kuyembekezera izi mosangalala ndikusangalala ndi chiyembekezero komanso kukhala ndi mwayi wogonana.
5. Samalani thanzi lanu komanso mawonekedwe anu
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwamalangizo oyambira kugonana kuti mukhale ndi banja losangalala. Ndikofunikira kuti muwonekere bwino, osati kokha kuti musangalatse anzanu, komanso inunso.
Ngati ukuwoneka bwino, uzimva bwino.
Kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi chogonana, chitani masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndikukhala athanzi momwe mungathere. Mwanjira imeneyo, mudzakhala ndi mphamvu ndi libido kuti musangalale ndi chisangalalo.
Chifukwa chake, chitani chilichonse chomwe mungafune kuti mumve bwino komanso zosangalatsa za inu nokha, ndipo mnzanuyo mosakayikira azindikiranso, ndipo mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti zidzakulitsa moyo wanu wachikondi.
6. Kuthana ndi zovuta
Limodzi mwamaganizidwe abwino kwambiri ogonana kwakanthawi yayitali sikuti musanyalanyaze zovuta zanu zakuthupi kapena zogonana.
Ngati muli ndi zovuta zina zakuthupi kapena zogonana, chonde musazinyalanyaze kapena kuvomereza ndikudziyesa mumtima mwanu, 'chabwino, ndi momwe ziyenera kukhalira ...'
Pali thandizo lochuluka lomwe likupezeka masiku ano m'njira zosinthira moyo wanu wogonana. Chifukwa chake, musazengereze kupeza zomwe mukufuna kuti chidziwitso chanu chogonana chikhale bwino kwambiri.
Kaya ndikulephera kwa erectile, kutaya msanga msanga, kuuma kwa nyini, kapena vuto lina lililonse, pali yankho lomwe lingabweretse mpumulo ndi chisangalalo kwa inu ndi mnzanu. Chifukwa chake, osakhazikika pazinthu zina zochepa pomwe mukufuna kukhala ndi chisangalalo chogonana.
7. Osasiya kuyesera
Pomaliza, chilichonse chomwe mungachite, osasiya kuyesera. Mukawona kuti ubale wanu wosangalala ukugwera mu mwambi 'chizolowezi, bwererani pang'ono ndikuyang'ana, ndikuyesanso.
Mutha kusanthula 'malingaliro ogonana kwa okwatirana' kapena 'maupangiri ogonana paukwati' pa intaneti, ndipo mutha kuyika malingaliro ena apadera ogonana kwa maanja omwe atha kukhala chipolopolo chamatsenga kwa inu.
Kumbukirani kuti kuphunzira kwa moyo wonse kudzakuthandizani kukhala osangalala komanso okondana wina ndi mnzake. Sangalalani ndi mwayi wopitiliza kuphunzira zatsopano za wokondedwa wanu ndikukondana mobwerezabwereza ndi munthu yemweyo.
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