Zamkati
- 1. Khalani achikondi
- 2. Gwiritsitsani chikhulupiriro chanu
- 3. Tsindikani kufunika kwa maubwenzi
- 4. Phunzitsani maluso othetsera mavuto
- 5. Phunzitsani maphunziro amoyo wonse
- 6. Yamikirani thanzi ndi chitetezo
- 7. Chitsanzo cha umphumphu
Kholo lililonse limafuna kuchita bwino polera ana osangalala komanso okhutira omwe amakula mpaka kukhala achikulire, odalirika, komanso osamala.
Koma monga kholo lililonse limadziwira, zolinga zabwino izi sizimakwaniritsidwa mwachangu kapena mosavuta. Zowonadi, nthawi zina kulera ana kumawoneka ngati ntchito yovuta kwambiri padziko lapansi, ndipo munthu akhoza kulakalaka njira yolowera bwino kuti achite bwino.
Tsoka ilo, kulibe kulera kwabwino 'buku' kulipo.
Komabe, mwamwayi pali njira zambiri zolerera ndi luso la kulera zomwe zayesedwa ndikuyesedwa ndikudutsa zaka zambiri kuchokera kwa iwo omwe adapeza zinsinsi za kulera bwino.
Onaninso:
Nayi njira zisanu ndi ziwiri zakulera ndi njira zolerera ana zokuthandizani kuti muziyenda modutsa momwe mungakhalire kholo labwino.
1. Khalani achikondi
Khanda likafika m'manja mwanu ngati chisangalalo chopanda thandizo, pamakhala chinthu chimodzi chomwe chimafunikira koposa zonse, ndicho chikondi ndi chikondi.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti makanda omwe ali ndi amayi achikondi komanso osamala amakula kukhala achimwemwe, opirira, komanso osadandaula.
Kwa makolo ambiri, zimabwera mwachibadwa kupsompsona ndi kukumbatira mwana wawo wamtengo wapataliyo ndi kumusangalatsa kwambiri. Pamene zaka zimayamba kutha, nthawi zina mawu achikondi ndi achikondi amayambanso kutha.
Ndi zachilendo komanso zomveka kuti kholo lizolowere njira zatsopano zosonyezera chikondi kwa mwana wawo nthawi yowonjezera - pambuyo pake, achinyamata ena amachita manyazi makolo awo akawakumbatira pagulu.
Koma pali njira zambiri zolerera ndi njira zothandizira kulumikizana ndikulola ana anu kudziwa kuti mumawakonda monga momwe mumawakondera ali makanda.
2. Gwiritsitsani chikhulupiriro chanu
Makolo akakhala ndi chikhulupiriro chofanana chomwe amaphunzitsa ana awo, izi zimakhazikitsa maziko olimba mnyumba.
Monga mwambi wotchuka umati, 'banja lomwe limapempherera limodzi limangokhala limodzi.' Kukhala mgulu lachikhulupiriro kumathandizanso kuti mukhale okhazikika komanso kuti mukhale omasuka.
Pamene inu ndi ana anu mutenga nawo mbali mu miyambo ndi zochitika za chikhulupiriro chanu, zikhazikitsa ubale wolimba pakati panu.
Izi ndizowona mukamayesetsa monga banja kuthandiza ena, ndipo ana amaphunzira mphatso yakupatsa ndikuyamikira madalitso awo onse m'malo mokhala m'malo odzipangira okha.
3. Tsindikani kufunika kwa maubwenzi
Ubale ndi ndalama wamba pamoyo uno. Kuyambira pa mpweya woyamba womwe timapuma m'moyo, timaphulitsidwa ndikuzunguliridwa ndi anthu ena omwe tiyenera kuwadziwana nawo.
Choncho, kulera ana moyenera kumaphatikizapo kuphunzitsa ana anu kufunika kocheza bwino ndi ena.
Sizingatheke (kapena ngakhale kuyamikiridwa) kukondedwa ndi aliyense, koma ndikofunikira kuwonetsa ulemu ndi ulemu kwa onse.
Upangiri wathu pakulera momwe ungakhalire kholo labwino ungaphatikizepo kuphunzitsa ana maluso oyanjana bwino ndi ana anu.
Ngati inu makolo mukhale ndi ubale wabwino komanso wathanzi pakati pawo komanso ndi ena okuzungulirani, ana anu amaphunzira maphunziro ofunikira kwa inu omwe adzagwiritse ntchito mtsogolo.
4. Phunzitsani maluso othetsera mavuto
Chimodzi mwazinthu zotsimikizika zambiri m'moyo ndikuti padzakhala zopinga ndi mavuto panjira. Mavutowa nthawi zambiri amakhala madalitso obisika chifukwa amakuphunzitsa maphunziro ofunikira.
Mukalimbana ndikulimbana ndi vuto, mumakhala ndi mphamvu, zomwe zimakuthandizani kuthana ndi zopinga zazikulu kwambiri.
Imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri zolerera ndi njira zabwino zolerera ana ndi kuphunzitsa ana anu kuwona mavuto ngati vuto lomwe angathe kuthana nalo.
Awonetseni momwe angaganizire zosankha zawo ndikusankha njira yabwino yakutsogolo, kuwunika panjira ndikupilira mpaka yankho litapezeka.
5. Phunzitsani maphunziro amoyo wonse
Monga kholo, mosakayikira chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimakudetsani nkhawa kwambiri ndi maphunziro a mwana wanu.
Kuwona ana anu atakhala pa desiki ndi mabuku awo homuweki, kuphunzira mwakhama ndilo loto la kholo lililonse. Koma zambiri pamaphunziro ndi kuphunzira kuposa kungopambana mayeso ndikukwera m'makalasi.
Njira imodzi yofunika kwambiri polera ana ndikuyesa kupatsa ana awo chikondi chodziwa zambiri komanso kufunitsitsa kudziwa chilichonse ndi chilichonse, ngakhale sichikugwirizana ndi dziko lawo lamasiku ano.
Kuphatikiza pa izi, zomwe mungafune ndi mkhalidwe wophunzitsika. Ngati mutha kuphunzitsa mwana wanu chilakolako ndi chizolowezi chophunzira kwa moyo wonse, adzakhala paulendo wopita ku tsogolo losangalatsa.
6. Yamikirani thanzi ndi chitetezo
Zaumoyo ndi chitetezo ndizofunika kwambiri pabanja lililonse. Makolo angaphunzitse ana awo mfundo zofunika izi mwa kusamalira thanzi lawo komanso thanzi lawo.
Ana amakhala tcheru kwambiri ndikugwira machitidwe ndi machitidwe a anthu owazungulira, makamaka makolo awo.
Kutenga nthawi yochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kudya chakudya chamagulu, komanso kugona mokwanira ndi zina mwazinthu zomwe ana angaphunzire kuchokera kwa inu ndikuzitsanzira pamoyo wawo.
Pankhani yachitetezo, phunzitsani ana anu zoyambira za ngozi zomwe sakudziwa komanso thandizo loyamba. Ndipo onetsetsani kuti aphunzira kusambira adakali aang'ono kuti akhale otetezeka m'madzi.
7. Chitsanzo cha umphumphu
Ponseponse, njira yofunika kwambiri yolerera yomwe makolo angagwiritse ntchito polera ana awo bwino ndikungokhala chitsanzo cha umphumphu.
Mawu akale oti "chitani zomwe ndikunena, osati zomwe ndimachita" sizigwira ntchito ayi.
Ngati mukufuna kuti ana anu akule ngati anthu amakhalidwe abwino, muyenera kuwonetsa zomwe zikutanthauza m'moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku, mwachitsanzo.
Lolani ana anu akuwoneni mukugwira ntchito molimbika, mukusunga malonjezo anu ndipo simunama, mukulemekeza ena, makamaka mnzanu, ndikunena chonde ndikukuthokozani.
Ndi zinthu zazing'ono zomwe ana amazindikira ndikukumbukira, nthawi zina kwamuyaya.
Kulera ana ndi nsanja yomwe imasinthasintha m'badwo uliwonse watsopano, ndipo kutengera kufunikira kwake pamtundu wa anthu, makolo amtsogolo akuyenera kufunafuna njira zabwino zolerera.
Khalani malangizo othandizira kulera ana, kapena kungopeza maupangiri abwino olera, pitirizani kufunafuna njira zokulitsira luso lanu ndikuwonetsetsa kuti musasiye kukula ngati makolo.