Zamkati
Kusakhutira pogonana, kumamveka bwino, sichoncho? Ndizofala kwambiri kuti angapo adutse gawo ili. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimalimbikitsa kusakhutira pogonana; Komabe, zambiri mwazo zimatha kuyendetsedwa ngati awiriwo ayesetsa ndikugwirira ntchito limodzi. Ngati mukudutsa motere, simuyenera kuchita mantha.
Onetsetsani zizindikiro zanu ndikuyesetsa kuti muchepetse.
Kodi mumatani ngati simukukhutira ndi zakugonana? Tiyeni tiwone:
Vuto: Kulankhulana
Nchifukwa chiyani kulankhulana kuli kofunika? Ndi chifukwa mtundu wa ubale umadalira izi. Zotsatira zakulankhulana sizingatsutsike. Zimapangitsa wokondedwa wake kumverera okondedwa ndi osamalidwa. Zinthu izi ndizofunikira pankhani yopanga chikondi. Ngati mnzanu sakukondedwa, palibe njira yoti agonane nanu mosangalala.
Ubale wathanzi wachimwemwe komanso wachikondi umabweretsa kugonana kwabwino, ndipo kuti mukhale ndiubwenzi wosangalala komanso wathanzi, mufunika kulumikizana bwino. Mukamagonana mokakamizidwa kapena ngati ntchito, pamakhala zosakhutira pang'ono kapena zosatheka zomwe zimabweretsa kusakhutira ndi kugonana. Zotsatira zake ndizokhumudwitsa mnzanu.
Yankho
Ngati simuli wamkulu pakulankhulana koma mukufunabe kuyesetsa, yambani pang'ono. Mutha kungokhala limodzi kuti muwonere kanema ndikukambirana. Mupatseni mnzanu tsiku lanu kapena muziyesera kukambirana naye tsiku lililonse.
Izi zikadzakhala chizolowezi, mudzayamba chizolowezi chofunsa mnzanu za tsiku lomwe adakhala nalo, kapena zomwe zimawadetsa nkhawa.
Izi zikhala ndi zotsatira zabwino kwa iwo, ndipo zotsatira zake zidzakhala zogonana zomwe zimadzazidwa ndi chikondi kapena, chisamaliro osati kungokakamizidwa.
Vuto: Kutanganidwa kwambiri
Sikovuta kuyendetsa ntchito, nyumba, ndi ana nthawi imodzi koma osakhudza moyo wanu. Kupsinjika konseku ndi kupsinjika kumabweretsa mavuto kwa munthu, ndipo chinthu choyamba chomwe chimakhudzidwa ndi izi ndi moyo wakugonana. Kuyendetsa kugonana kumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndimapanikizidwe a munthu.
Kugonana si matupi awiri omwe amagwirira ntchito limodzi ngati makina, zimangokhala ngati zokhumba ndi zokhumba zimakumana ndikupanga matsenga, ndipo matsenga awa sangachitike ndi kupsinjika ndi mikangano yomwe ikubwera kumbuyo kwa malingaliro anu.
Kuphika, kuyeretsa, kusamalira ana, komanso kusamalira nyumbayo kumatha kutopetsa mayi mosavuta. Lingaliro la kugonana kumapeto kwa tsiku lotopetsa kwambiri si lingaliro lotsitsimula.
Yankho
Yesetsani kuchepetsa katunduyo. Mutha kuchita izi pokonzekera ndikuyika patsogolo. Musaganize kuti muyenera kuchita zonse lero. Mukayika patsogolo, zinthu zimawonekera bwino; mumvetsetsa kuti pali zinthu zomwe zitha kutsalira tsiku lotsatira.
Kuchepetsa katundu kudzakuthandizani kupumula bwino. Kukhala ndi nyumba yaukhondo ndikofunikira, koma moyo wanu wogonana ndiwofunika kwambiri.
Vuto: Palibe vuto
Anthu amene akhala m'banja kwa nthawi yayitali amataya mphamvu; moyo wawo wogonana umakhala ngati ntchito kapena ntchito. Muyenera kutero chifukwa muyenera. Palibe chilakolako, palibe chikhumbo, kapena m'mawu ofanana, palibe kuthetheka. Kugonana kopanda mphamvu sikumakhutiritsa.
Mukufuna chinthu chomwecho pomwe onse atenga nawo mbali kuti akhutira mokwanira.
Kugonana komwe kwakhala ntchito posachedwa kutsogolera kuti "tichite mawa." Mawa mwina silidzabwera nthawi imeneyo.
Yankho
Chitani khama, ndizo zonse zomwe mukusowa. Yesani ndikuchita zinthu zomwe simunachitepopo monga kuphatikiza kuvala, nyimbo zolaula, ndi makandulo. Palibe chomwe chimasinthitsa malingaliro kuposa makandulo onunkhira. Kusokonezeka kosangalatsa kumakopa mnzanu. Kubwera palimodzi, ndiye kuti kudzakhala kwakuthupi komanso kotopetsa kuposa kale. Chisangalalo cha kusintha chidzatenga zokhumba mpaka pachimake.
Uphungu wina wopanda nzeru ungakhale kuyesera maudindo osiyanasiyana; izi zidzafunika kulumikizana komanso kutenga nawo mbali kuchokera mbali zonse. Zotsatira zake zidzakhala zabwino ndikuchita zachiwerewere ndipo ena akuseka nawonso.
Mfundo yofunika
Kugonana si ntchito; si ntchito yomwe muyenera kuchita chifukwa ndinu okwatiwa. Kugonana kuli kopitilira apo; ndikumverera kokongola komwe kumabweretsa chisangalalo chenicheni mukachita bwino. Musalole kuti banja lanu lizimira chifukwa chakusakhutitsidwa pogonana, yambirani ndikupanga matsenga.