Zamkati
- Wodzikonda → Wodzikonda
- Waulesi → Kutchera khutu
- Wokamba → Womvera
- Magawano → Umodzi
- Kenako → Tsopano
- Ine → Ife
Zizolowezi zadyera zimavuta kusiya, ndipo zomwe zimachitika m'banja nthawi zambiri zimasokoneza kapena kusakhutira. Kusintha zizolowezi zanu kuti musangoganizira za mnzanu kungakhale kovuta, koma ntchitoyi imatheka mosavuta ndi mtima wofunitsitsa komanso kuyesetsa ndi mtima wonse. Tiyeni tiwone njira zisanu ndi imodzi zomwe mungasinthire posintha malingaliro anu.
Wodzikonda → Wodzikonda
Kusintha kuchoka pa kukhala wodzikonda mpaka kukhala wosadzikonda mu banja lanu sikophweka nthawi zonse momwe kumamvekera. Kwa aliyense amene amadziyimira pawokha komanso kudzidalira, ndizosavuta kukhala ndi chizolowezi komanso kapangidwe kake. Ukwati umasintha chizolowezi chimenecho. Palibe kukayika kuti kusadzikonda nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta, koma kuyesetsa kuyika zosowa za mnzanu kuposa zanu kungakhudze banja lanu. Sikuti ungwiro umafunikira - kungokhala wofunitsitsa kuyika mnzanu patsogolo.
Waulesi → Kutchera khutu
Kusamuka pamalingaliro aulesi ndikukhala tcheru kwathunthu, mofananamo, kumakhala kovuta. Kusinthaku nthawi zambiri kumayenera kuchitika kangapo paukwati pomwe awiri amakhala omasuka ndi zomwe amachita. Ulesi sizitanthauza kuti mukunyalanyaza kapena kupewa mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu; Kungakhale mkhalidwe wokhala womasuka kwambiri ndi zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku za banja lanu. Pangani khama lotseguka komanso lodzipereka kuti musinthe mawonekedwe anu ndikusungabe ubale wanu mwatsopano. Khalani tcheru kwa mnzanuyo popanga mphindi iliyonse komanso lingaliro lililonse m'malingaliro mwake.
Wokamba → Womvera
Kusintha kwina komwe kumayenera kukhala kwachidziwitso komanso kwachangu ndikumasintha kuchokera kwa wokamba nkhani kukhala womvera. Ambiri a ife timafuna kumvedwa koma zimawavuta kumvetsera pamene ena amafuna kuti timve. Kuyesera kusinthaku sikungothandiza muukwati wanu wokha komanso ndi maubale ena komanso anzanu. Kumvetsera sikutanthauza kungomva mawu akuyankhulidwa, koma ndi lingaliro lazidziwitso kuti mumvetsetse uthengawo. Sikuti nthawi zonse pamakhala kuyankha, kapena chiyembekezo choti nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi yankho lolondola. Zikungosunthira kuchoka pa kukhala amene amalankhula ndikukhala womvera.
Magawano → Umodzi
Ndikofunika kuti banja lanu likhale lolankhula za umodzi osati magawano. Kusintha kuchokera pakuwona mnzanu ngati wotsutsana ndi mnzake ndikofunikira kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino. Mnzanu akuyenera kukhala wachinsinsi kwa inu - munthu amene mumamuyang'ana kuti mumupatse malingaliro, kuti mumulimbikitse, kuti mumulimbikitse. Ngati banja lanu ndi lomwe limakhutiritsa kapena kupikisana chifukwa cha chidwi, zingakhale bwino kukambirana poyera za ziyembekezo ndi ziyembekezo zanu monga njira yowonjezera luso lanu logwirira ntchito limodzi.
Kenako → Tsopano
Siyani zakale m'mbuyomu! Zomwe zidachitika kale, ngakhale muubwenzi wanu, zomwe zakhululukidwa ziyenera kusiyidwa zokha. Malamulo omenyera mwachilungamo akuwonetsa kuti chilichonse chomwe chakhululukidwa sichikhala pamiyeso ya mikangano, kusagwirizana, kapena kufananitsa. “Kukhululuka ndi kuyiwala” si lingaliro lomwe, monga anthu, titha kukwaniritsa. M'malo mwake, kukhululuka ndikoyesetsa tsiku ndi tsiku kupitilira ndikusiya zakale. Mosiyana ndi izi, kuchoka pamalingaliro a "ndiye" kupita ku "tsopano", kumatanthauzanso kuti m'modzi kapena onse awiri azipewa kubwereza zomwe ena akuwona kuti ndizokhumudwitsa kapena zokhumudwitsa. Kukhululuka ndikukhalabe munthawi ino ndi njira yomwe imafunikira onse awiri.
Ine → Ife
Mwina kusinthana kofunikira kwambiri ndikupanga kuchokera pamalingaliro a "ine" kupita ku malingaliro a "ife". Lingaliro ili limakhudza mbali zonse za moyo wa banja, ndipo ndikufunitsitsa kuphatikiza okondedwa anu nthawi zonse pazisankho, zochitika, ndi mphindi zapadera pamoyo wanu. Kukhala wofunitsitsa kuphatikizaponso mnzanu wa m'banja sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kusiya ufulu wanu. M'malo mwake, kumatanthauza kukulitsa kudziyimira pawokha posankha kuphatikizira wina m'moyo wanu, mwina, sangakhale ndi chonena pantchito zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku.
Kusintha zizolowezi zanu zatsiku ndi tsiku sizovuta kuchita, koma ndizotheka. Apanso, ndiwe munthu. Mnzanu ndi munthu. Palibe nonse wa inu amene angakwaniritse ungwiro muubwenzi wanu, koma kusintha malingaliro ndikukhala ofunitsitsa kutero kumatha kukhala ndi moyo wabwino m'banja.