Zamkati
- Gawo 1: Diso kumthupi
- Gawo 2: Diso kumaso
- Gawo 3: Voice to voice
- Gawo 4: Dzanja ndi dzanja
- Gawo 5 & 6: Dzanja ndi phewa, & mkono mpaka mchiuno
- Gawo 7 & 8: Pakamwa pakamwa ndi pamutu
- Gawo 9: Manja thupi
- Gawo 10: Kukamwa Kwa torso
- Gawo 11: Chimaliziro chomaliza
Kodi kukondana ndi chiani? Kodi ubale wapamtima ndi chiyani? Mafunso awa akhoza kukhala ochepa kwa anthu omwe amakhala ndi zochitika zochepa zogonana kapena ayi. Kuzindikira magawo azokondana kwambiri muubwenzi ndikukhazikitsa ubale watsopano ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa banja.
Magawo abwenzi apamtima pachibwenzi ndi njira yomwe imafotokoza zomwe timakumana nazo tikamakula ndi anzathu omwe timakonda.
Masitepe amayamba kukhala owongoka komanso owoneka ngati wamba pakati pa alendo - ndikukula ndikukhala okondana kwambiri pakati pa okwatirana - kugonana.
Choyenera kudziwa pamagawo abwenzi ndikuti ndiwothandiza kuwunika komwe muli pachibwenzi.
Zingakuthandizeninso kudziwa momwe mungasinthire ubale wanu ndi magawo atsopano okondana ngati zikuwoneka kuti zikuyenda pang'onopang'ono, kapena mnzanu akuwoneka wamanyazi makamaka. Kuti mugwiritse ntchito mumaphunzira magawo aubwenzi ndikusuntha modekha ndi mnzanu.
Koma tisanatanthauzire izi, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti ngakhale magawo azibwenzi angakuthandizeni kuti mukhale olimba mtima pomvetsetsa malire a mnzanu ndi mnzanu, bwenzi lanu sangakhale ndi chidziwitso chokhacho.
Atha kukhala osadzidalira, kapena ofunitsitsa kupita patsogolo mgulu laubwenzi momwe mungakhalire. Nawa maupangiri ochepa amomwe mungapangire ubale wapamtima pachibwenzi chatsopano komanso momwe mungachitire chibwenzi mgawo lina mwakuthupi.
Pangani kulankhulana koona mtima nthawi zonse
Ndikofunika kuti musakakamize kufuna kwanu kwa ena ngakhale mutafufuza kapena kuphunzira kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, kuti magawo azakugonana agwire ntchito muubwenzi watsopano, ndikofunikira kulemekeza wokondedwa wanu ndikugwira ntchito yopanga kulankhulana momasuka komanso moona mtima nthawi zonse.
Polemekeza kuti nthawi yomwe mnzanuyo akupanga pakukhala pachibwenzi ikhoza kukhala yosiyana kwambiri ndi yanu. Kuleza mtima kungafunike.
Gawo 1: Diso kumthupi
Gawo loyambirira pamagawo abwenzi apabanja ndi 'maso ndi thupi'. Ili ndiye lingaliro loyamba, pomwe mumazindikira thupi la munthu. Ngati mukufuna kupita pagawo lotsatira, mudzadutsa gawo ili poyamba.
Ndipo ngati mukufuna kuwonetsa chidwi mwa winawake muwalole iwo akuwoneni mukuyang'ana maso anu kuthupi lawo. Ngati akuwonetsanso zomwezo kwa inu, ndikusunthira ku sitepe yotsatira, mukudziwa kuti mwapeza wina amene amakusangalatsani.
Gawo 2: Diso kumaso
Gawo lachiwiri m'magawo obwenzi apabanja ndi 'diso ndi diso' - Ngati mwadutsa gawo loyamba, ndipo tsopano mukuyang'anizana, zikomo! Mwakonzeka kuti muwone gawo lotsatira.
Kumbukirani, ngati mukufuna kuwonetsa winawake kuti mumamukonda, onetsetsani kuti mwawawona mutayang'ana thupi lawo!
Gawo 3: Voice to voice
Gawo lachitatu m'migawo yakukhala pachibwenzi ndi 'Voice to Voice' - Tsopano mwayang'anitsana, ndipo mwayang'anana m'maso, chotsatira ndikulankhulana.
Ngati mupita patsogolo mtsogolo popanda gawo ili, zimapangitsa kuti chidwi chanu chisamve bwino. Choncho musanakhudze munthuyo, yambani kucheza naye.
Iyi ndi gawo momwe kupita kwanu kumatha, kukondana sikutsimikizika. Simungadutse moni, ngati simudutsa moni, uzisiyeni ziziyenda kwa munthu wotsatira, yemwe angakupezeni kukhala wokongola monga momwe mumawachitira.
Gawo 4: Dzanja ndi dzanja
Gawo lachinayi pamagawo abwenzi apabanja ndi 'Dzanja ndi dzanja (kapena mkono)' - Tsopano kupita patsogolo m'magawo kumatha kuyamba kuchepa. Magawo atatu oyamba atha kuchitika mwachangu, koma simukufuna kuthamangira kukhudza dzanja la mlendo, kapena dzanja.
Muyenera kupitiliza zokambiranazo, khalani ndi nthawi yodziwana bwino ndikulimbitsa kulumikizana kwanu komanso ubwenzi musanayambe kukhudza.
Mukakhala okonzeka kuwona ngati munthu amene ali ndi chidwi akukukhudzani, yesetsani kuwagwira kapena kuwunika dzanja lawo mosasamala.
Kapenanso kutsuka / kukhudza mokoma dzanja lawo pokambirana, lolani kuti dzanja lanu likhale kwakanthawi motalika kwambiri (koma osati modetsa nkhawa!) Ndipo muwone ngati angavomereze izi. Amatha kukukhudzani.
Ichi ndi chisonyezo kuti nonse mumakondana. Ngati chidwi chanu sichikukhudzani ndipo akuwoneka wokhumudwa kapena wosakhudzidwa ndikumugwira kwanu, mungafunike kutenga nthawi yayitali polankhula munthuyo asanakonzekere.
Gawo 5 & 6: Dzanja ndi phewa, & mkono mpaka mchiuno
Gawo lachisanu ndi chisanu ndi chimodzi m'magawo oyandikira kwambiri muubwenzi ndi 'mkono wamapewa ndi' mkono m'chiuno '.
Kupita patsogolo pamagawo awa kuwonetsa kuwala kobiriwira kuti china chake chikule.
Ngakhale mutamudziwa kale winawake (ngati mnzake), ubale wanu ukhoza kukhala wokwanira kwambiri kuti muthane motere popanda chilichonse chokhudzana ndi chibwenzi.
Osamawerenga molakwika uthengawo.
Ngati simukutsimikiza, kambiranani za izi, mnzanu amene ali ndi chidwi ndiwosangalala kuti mwawalemekeza mokwanira kuti mukambirane nawo izi!
Ngati mwakwanitsa kufika pamagawo kenako ndikupita patsogolo mpaka pano, mwina mukuyamba kukondana.
Ngati mwafika kuno, mutha kuganiza kuti simuli m'dera la anzanu ndipo kumpsompsona kuli m'makhadi posachedwa! Masitepe awiri otsatirawa akalongosola magawo a kumpsompsona mu chibwenzi.
Gawo 7 & 8: Pakamwa pakamwa ndi pamutu
Gawo lachisanu ndi chiwiri ndi lachisanu ndi chitatu m'migawo yakukondana kwakuthupi pachibwenzi ndi - 'pakamwa pakamwa; ndi 'dzanja kumutu.' Ngati mukupezeka kuti muli pano, mwakwanitsa kupitapo pang'ono. Ino ndi nthawi yoti musunthire.
Mutha kuwona ngati kusunthaku kuli koyenera powerenga magawo omwe ali pamwambapa ndikuwona kuti mwadutsamo. Tsamira kuti mumpsompsone mnzanu ndipo ngati atsagana nawo, sangalalani ndi nthawiyo.
Zomwe zimabwera mukapsompsonana mu chibwenzi ndi gawo 8, kusunthira sitepe 8 ndikosavuta kuchokera pagawo 7 ndipo nthawi zambiri kumachitika mukapsompsonana. Gawo lotsatira lomwe tiyenera kuyembekezera ndi 'dzanja kumutu.'
Ngati simayika dzanja lanu pamutu wa anzanu nthawi zambiri, ino ndi nthawi yoyesera. Ma subliminal amuthandiza mnzanu kukhala womasuka ndikutsogoleredwa ndi inu.
Koma ngati apa ndi pamene mukufuna kuyima, kapena mukufuna kuima, chitani chomwecho. Musaganize kuti muyenera kudutsa magawo otsatirawa oyandikira thupi, kapena magawo aliwonse mwachangu.
Pakhoza kukhala kanthawi kuti inu kapena mnzanu musakonzekere kupita patsogolo, ndipo ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuti zinthu zina zimatha kumpsompsona.
Gawo 9: Manja thupi
Gawo lachisanu ndi chinayi m'migawo yakukondana kwakuthupi pachibwenzi ndi - 'dzanja lamthupi.' Uku ndiko kuyamba kwa zomwe timaganizira zakugonana komanso kuyamba kwa ziwonetserozo.
Ngati wokondedwa wanu ali wofunitsitsa, mutha kutenga nthawi kuti mufufuze matupi a wina ndi mnzake. Ngati nonse mukuchita izi, mutha kuganiza kuti mwangodutsa gawo lachisanu ndi chinayi.
Gawo 10: Kukamwa Kwa torso
Gawo lakhumi m'migawo yakukondana kwakuthupi pachibwenzi ndi - 'pakamwa pa torso,' ndipo ndipamene nyengo iyi imayamba kukhala yayikulu komanso yogonana. Mudziwa ngati izi zili bwino, ngati mwakwanitsa kuchotsa zovala m'chiuno, ndipo munthuyo amakulolani kutero.
Chinsinsi chazigawo zakukondana ndikupita patsogolo pang'onopang'ono komanso mwaulemu kuti mupatse mnzanu mwayi woti ayime ngati angafunike kutero.
Zachidziwikire, nthawi zonse zimakhala bwino kuyima ndikubwerera nthawi iliyonse, komabe, mukapitirira gawo lino, zitha kukuvutani chifukwa zingakhale zovuta kutero osasokoneza mnzanuyo.
Gawo 11: Chimaliziro chomaliza
Tengani nthawi yanu kupita patsogolo pagawo lomaliza mumagawo obwenzi apamtima pachibwenzi. Ngati simukufulumira kukafika kumapeto komaliza ndipo zokumana nazozo zimakhala zabwino komanso zosangalatsa nonsenu.
Munthawi imeneyi, ngati mumakhala olemekezana komanso osafulumira, mudzakhalanso ndi kukhulupirirana ndi kukondana komwe sikungogonana kokha, ndipo izi zimalimbikitsa kukondana pakati panu.
Mutha kapena simungapitiriretu panjira zonse zogonana muubwenzi ndi mnzanu mtsogolo.
Komabe, ngati muwona kuti mumakondana, koma zinthu zauma pokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa chibwenzi chanu, bwererani koyambirira kwaubwenzi wanu wapamtima ndikupeza njira yopitilira muyeso. Ikuthandizani kutsitsimutsa chilakolako chilichonse chomwe chatayika.