Zamkati
- 1. Phunzirani njira zatsopano zowonera zenizeni kuchokera kubanja lanu latsopanoli
- 2. Sinthani msinkhu wa ana anu opeza
- 3. Musayese kulolera m'malo mwa kholo lanu lenileni
- 4. Osatsutsa zofuna ndi malamulo a kholo loberekayo
- 5. Osalowerera pakati pa mnzanu ndi mikangano ya ana awo
- 6. Osapereka ufulu wambiri kapena kulolera mopitirira muyeso
Chifukwa chake, mudadzipeza mutakhala kholo lopeza? Ndipo mukuwona kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito upangiri wakulera khwerero limodzi? Ndi mkhalidwe wovuta, womwe ungafune nonse kuti musinthe ndikuwona momwe mungachitire ndi maudindo anu atsopanowa. Koma, monga luso lina lililonse m'moyo, kulera ana opeza ndichinthu chomwe chitha kubweretsa ungwiro ndi khama komanso chidwi chofuna kuphunzira.
Nayi malangizo ofunikira aubereki omwe muyenera kutsatira kuyambira koyambirira kwa banja lanu latsopano
1. Phunzirani njira zatsopano zowonera zenizeni kuchokera kubanja lanu latsopanoli
Kumbukirani, mabanja okhala ndi ana opeza nthawi zambiri amakhala ovuta ndipo nthawi zina amavutika kuthana nawo, koma amakhala osiyana kwambiri komanso olemera. Osati kuti ichi chikhale chinthu choyamba chomwe chimabwera m'maganizo mwanu mukakhala pakukangana m'banja, koma yesetsani kuganizira izi mukakhala chete.
Mosasamala yemwe amapanga banja lanu latsopano, mulimonsemo, nonse muphunzitsana wina ndi mnzake njira zatsopano zowonera zenizeni. Ndipo uwu ndi mwayi wopatsa chidwi.
2. Sinthani msinkhu wa ana anu opeza
Khalidwe lanu liyenera kusinthidwa kufikira zaka za ana anu opeza atsopano. Ngati mwanayo ndi wocheperako, zimakhala zosavuta kuti aliyense akhazikike. Mwana wamng'ono akhoza kukhalabe munthawi yomwe kupanga maubwenzi atsopano ndi zomata kumakhala kosavuta. Ngakhale ngakhale banja lomwe langopangidwa kumene limakumana ndi zovuta, sizingafanane ndikukhala kholo lopeza la wachinyamata.
Achinyamata amakhala ochepa okha, osanenapo ngati siinu. Osanena za njira zingapo zokuwonetsani momwe simukukhutira ndi zomwe ali nazo.
Upangiri wabwino panthawiyi ndikuti mulemekeze zomwe mwana akuyesetsa kukhazikitsa. Sakusowa wina woti amenye nkhondo pompano. M'malo mwake, malingaliro osabisa komanso ochezeka amatha kugwira ntchito bwino.
3. Musayese kulolera m'malo mwa kholo lanu lenileni
Musayese kukakamiza kuti muzitchedwa Amayi kapena Abambo, ndi zonse zomwe zimabwera ndi izi. Pali mitundu yambiri ya chikondi, osati yokhayo yomwe mwana amamvera kholo lake lobadwa. Mwana wanu watsopano akhoza kukukondani mu gawo lanu, komanso m'njira yoona komanso yapadera kwa nonse awiri. Chifukwa chake, osayesa kulowa m'malo mwa wina, koma pezani malo anu m'malo mwake.
4. Osatsutsa zofuna ndi malamulo a kholo loberekayo
Pamene kholo lobadwira likana mwana chilolezo chopita kuphwando lakubadwa, zingakhale zokopa kuti atolere mfundo zina posangovomereza, komanso kumugulira zovala zake zatsopano zoti adzavale pamwambowu, kulandira mphatso yamtengo wapatali, ndi kuyendetsa mwana kumalo. Komabe, uku ndi kulakwa kwakukulu komwe kumadzetsa mavuto kwa aliyense wokhudzidwayo.
M'malo mwake, bwererani mmbuyo, ndipo kumbukirani kuti ukwati pakati pa mnzanu ndi wakale ndi womwe udasokonekera, komabe ndi kholo la mwanayo. Ulemu wotere umathandiza aliyense kupeza malo awo mosavuta.
5. Osalowerera pakati pa mnzanu ndi mikangano ya ana awo
Zitha kuwoneka ngati mwayi wabwino kutenga nawo mbali, koma ndichinthu chomwe akuyenera kuthana nacho ndikuphunziranso kuthana ndi mavuto am'banja. Wokondedwa wanu komanso mwanayo atha kulowererapo chifukwa chovuta komanso chosafunikira. Wokondedwayo angamve ngati mukukayikira luso lawo la kulera (lomwe mwina amakayikira panthawiyi), ndipo mwanayo akhoza kumangomangirira.
6. Osapereka ufulu wambiri kapena kulolera mopitirira muyeso
Inde, simuyenera kulanga mwana wopeza mopitirira muyeso, koma simuyenera kukhala ololera mopanda malire, mwina, chifukwa izi sizingafanane ndi zomwe mumayembekezera. Mvetsetsani kuti mwanayo amangoyenera kupitiliza kuzolowera, ndipo ayenera kutero mwachangu. Adzayesa malire, opanduka, awone zomwe angapeze kuchokera kwa inu, ndi zonse zomwe zimakonda kuchitika mzaka zakukula limodzi.
Khalani oleza mtima, ndipo musayese kugula chikondi ndi ulemu; ibwera ndi nthawi komanso pazifukwa zoyenera. Ndipo upangiri womaliza - kumbukirani, zikhala zovuta, koma palibe amene ali wangwiro. Dzichepetseni pang'ono pazolakwa zomwe muyenera kupanga, ndikuwona banja lanu latsopano ngati njira yophunzirira. Nonsenu muyenera kusintha kuti musinthe momwe zinthu zilili, ndipo ngakhale maso onse atakhala pa inu pano, aliyense ali ndizovuta. Ndipo aliyense asintha pakapita nthawi ndikukhala ndi udindo watsopano. Chifukwa chake, musataye mtima ngati zinthu sizikuwoneka bwino - pamapeto pake.