Zamkati
- Kuyankhulana kwenikweni, koona sikukuchitika
- 1. Ganizani musanalankhule
- 2. Ikani chifundo patsogolo
- 3. Mukafunsa momwe tsiku la mnzanu lidayendera, tanthauzo lake
- 4. Kunena zabwino tsiku ndi tsiku tsiku ndi tsiku, osapempha
- 5. Nenani zomwe akuopa, kuda nkhawa kapena kuda nkhawa
- 6. Funsani ngati mungathandize
- 7. Chitani zinthu zazing'ono kuti musangalatse mnzanu, osakufunsani
- 8. Pezani nthawi ya banja limodzi kuti mukambirane zomwe zili zofunika kwa inu nonse
Anthu okwatirana kwa nthawi yayitali amatha kulumikizana mwachidule.
Nthawi zambiri maanja amamaliza kulingalira wina ndi mnzake ndikudzaza mwakachetechete zomwe zidasoweka mitu yawo, poganiza kuti akudziwa zomwe wokondedwa wawo akunena.
Izi zitha kukhala kukugwedezeka ndi mayankho achidule komanso m'malingaliro olakwika ngati simusamala.
Mukakhala ndi "zosakambirana" izi mumangoziyimbira foni.
Kuyankhulana kwenikweni, koona sikukuchitika
Posakhalitsa kapena kenako mudzayamba kumva kuti mulibe kulumikizana. Imani ndi kulingalira za izo kwa kamphindi.
Ndi liti pamene inu ndi mnzanu mudalankhula za chinthu chozama komanso chowonadi? Kodi zokambirana zanu masiku ano zimangopeka kwambiri ndipo zimangokhala zochitika zatsiku ndi tsiku, kuyendetsa nyumba, ndi zina zambiri?
Kodi ndi liti lomaliza lomwe mudalankhula mwachikondi ndi mnzanu ndikulankhula zomwe nonse mumaganizira komanso momwe mumamvera? Ngati kwakhala kanthawi sichizindikiro chabwino.
Ngati mukumva ngati inu ndi mnzanu mulibe zokambirana zabwino kapena kuti simukukondana ndi kukhala okoma mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake, mpata wabwino kuti mnzanu amve chimodzimodzi.
Nonse mwina "mungokakamira" mu chizolowezi kapena chizolowezi chomwe chakugawani popanda kuzindikira. Imeneyi ndi nkhani yoyipa. Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti, mutha kukonza nkhaniyi ndikusintha pang'ono pazomwe mumachita ndi mnzanu ndikupangitsa kuti kulumikizana kwanu kukhale kwachikondi, kosamala komanso kokwanira kwa nonse.
Nazi njira zina zosavuta kusonyezera chikondi mu ubale wanu wonse
1. Ganizani musanalankhule
M'malo moyankha mwachizolowezi, imani kaye ndikuganiza kwakanthawi ndikuyankha mokoma mtima.
Nthawi zambiri titha kukhala osazindikira kwambiri, ofupikitsa, kapena osazindikira.
Onetsetsani kuti wokondedwa wanu akudziwa kuti zomwe akufunsani / kukuuzani ndizofunikira kwa inu.
2. Ikani chifundo patsogolo
Ganizirani zomwe muyenera kunena komanso momwe mnzanu angamvere.
Khazikitsani mayankho amkati ndikukhala pang'ono pang'ono.
Sizovuta kuchita ndipo zimapangitsa kusiyana kwakukulu.
3. Mukafunsa momwe tsiku la mnzanu lidayendera, tanthauzo lake
Tengani nthawi yowayang'ana m'maso ndikudikirira yankho lawo.
Osayankha, ingomverani.
Ichi ndichinsinsi chenicheni cholumikizirana.
4. Kunena zabwino tsiku ndi tsiku tsiku ndi tsiku, osapempha
Sindikulankhula zongonena "mukuwoneka bwino"; muyenera kukhala kuti mukuchita kale.
Uzani mnzanu china chabwino chomwe angatenge nawo tsiku lawo lonse.
Auzeni kuti mumanyadira ntchito yomwe amachita, kapena momwe adasamalira zovuta ndi ana. Pangani kusiyana mu tsiku la mnzanu powakweza ndi kuwalimbikitsa.
5. Nenani zomwe akuopa, kuda nkhawa kapena kuda nkhawa
Kugawana nkhawa za wina ndi mnzake / kapena zolemetsa ndi njira yakubweretserani pafupi.
6. Funsani ngati mungathandize
Musaganize kuti wokondedwa wanu akufuna kuti muwakonzere zinthu, akusowa uphungu kapena malingaliro anu.
Nthawi zina amangofuna thandizo lanu komanso chilimbikitso chanu. Aliyense wa inu ndi munthu wokhoza, wokwanira.
Pewani msampha wa kudalirana pomalola wina ndi mnzake kudziyimira pawokha komanso malingaliro ndi zochita zawo.
Nthawi zina yankho limakhala kuti “ayi, musathandize”, lolani kuti zikhale bwino musakhumudwe.
7. Chitani zinthu zazing'ono kuti musangalatse mnzanu, osakufunsani
Mphatso zazing'ono; thandizani ntchito zapakhomo, osafunsidwa kuti mupume, kapu ya khofi kapena chakudya.
Bweretsani kunyumba mchere, vinyo kapena chotukuka chomwe mumakonda. Atumizireni uthenga wothandizira pa nthawi yayitali yogwira ntchito kapena ntchito. Mudzadabwitsidwa ndi momwe manja ocheperako angabweretsere chisangalalo kwa mnzanu.
8. Pezani nthawi ya banja limodzi kuti mukambirane zomwe zili zofunika kwa inu nonse
Lankhulani za ziyembekezo zanu, maloto anu, mapulani anu ndi malingaliro anu.
Onaninso nthawi zambiri chifukwa zinthu zimasintha. Sangalalani ndikusangalala ndi kukhala limodzi ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi imeneyo kulumikizana ndikuwonetserana chikondi wina ndi mnzake.
Kusiya zizolowezi zina kumakhala kovuta, ndipo nthawi zina kumakhala kovuta.
Khalani oleza mtima wina ndi mnzake komanso nokha chifukwa mutha kusazindikira mayankho anu mosazindikira. Itanani wina ndi mnzake pamene mutero, ndipo mokoma mtima kumbutsani mnzanuyo kuti mukuyesetsa kusintha zizolowezi zakale ndikupanga zina zatsopano.
Imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri zokondera wokondedwa ndi kupereka malingaliro kwa mnzanu, mumakhala ndi zokambirana zenizeni zenizeni ndikuponyera chilankhulo chamtundu ndi chachikondi mmenemo monga chikumbutso.
Mukuzindikira posachedwa momwe mumayanjanirana pomwe nonse mutha kukhala okoma mtima komanso okoma wina ndi mnzake chifukwa chazolowera.
Ndicho chizolowezi chabwino kukhala nacho!