Zamkati
- 1. Kodi “inu”
- 2. Ganizirani zochita zanu; Osati zake
- 3. Dzipereka kukhulupirika kwanu
- 4. Konzekerani pasadakhale
- 5. Lolani kuti likhale lofatsa
Pamene okwatirana akulimbana muukwati wawo, chinthu chotsiriza chomwe akufuna kuganizira ndi tsiku lawo laukwati. Ndipo mafunso amayamba kuzungulira mozungulira m'malingaliro awo:
Kodi tipita kukadya limodzi?
Kodi ndimupezere mphatso? Khadi?
Kodi nditani ngati akufuna kugonana?
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Zikondwerero zaukwati zingayambitse mantha ndi chisokonezo banja likakhala povuta. Zingatipangitse kukayikira chilichonse chomwe timaganiza kuti ndife amayenera kuchita kapena zomwe tachita zaka zapitazo.
Nazi njira zisanu zopulumutsira tsikulo, kusamalira momwe mukumvera, kukhalabe wokhulupirika kwa inu nokha, kulemekeza zosowa zanu ndipo mwina kusangalala nazo:
1. Kodi “inu”
Konzekerani kena kake kodzisamalira nokha patsiku lanu lobadwa. Osati za inu ngati okwatirana, koma za inu panokha, kuti mutha kukhala m'malo opumira pazomwe tsiku lonse lingakhale. Pitani ku spa kuti mukalalikire kwa nthawi yayitali. Pindani ndi khofi wamkulu, bulangeti lotentha, ndi buku labwino. Idyani nkhomaliro ndi bwenzi lanu lomwe lakhala likukukondani komanso kukuthandizani.
2. Ganizirani zochita zanu; Osati zake
Nthawi zina pakakhala kusamvana pakati pa maanja patsiku lokumbukira tsiku lawo, amawopa kuti sangachite zokwanira kuvomereza tsikulo koma amazengereza kupereka zochulukirapo ndipo mwina atha kutumiza uthenga wolakwika. Zikatere, chitani zomwe zikukuyenderani bwino, osaziyerekeza. Osadandaula kuti azimasulira bwanji zochitikazo kapena momwe adzazimvere. Zomwe amachita kapena kutanthauzira kwake sizochokera kwa inu; cholinga chanu ndikutsata zomwe zikukuyenderani ndi bizinesi yanu.
3. Dzipereka kukhulupirika kwanu
Dziwonetseni nokha momwe mumamvera komanso zomwe mumatha kuchita munthawi iliyonse. Khalani owona mtima kwa inu nokha pazomwe mukufuna ndipo musachite mantha kuuza ena izi, kuti athe kukonzekera zosowa zanu. Pomaliza, nenani chilungamo pazomwe mumalankhula kwa mnzanu; ingogawana malingaliro achikondi omwe akumva kukhala owona mtima komanso odalirika kwa inu kuti musadzipereke nokha.
4. Konzekerani pasadakhale
Ganizirani za inu mutatsamira mutu wanu pamtsamilo kuti mupite kukagona usiku wokumbukira tsiku lanu. Pamene mukuyamba kugona, ndi mawu ati atatu ofotokozera omwe amafotokoza momwe mukufuna kumva munthawiyo: Zamkatimu? Kunyada? Wapulumutsidwa? Ndikuyembekeza? Wamtendere? Yambani tsikulo mwa kukhazikitsa cholinga chakuti tsikuli likakwaniritsidwa, mudzamva momwe mumafunira kumva ndipo mudzakhala kuti mwadziwonetsera ngati mkazi yemwe mukufuna kukhala lero.
5. Lolani kuti likhale lofatsa
Mukudziwa momwe mumapangira kukakamizidwa konse kwa Chaka Chatsopano chaka chilichonse ndikupanga mapulani akulu osakhumudwitsidwa? Ngakhale zitakhala zosangalatsa, zimawoneka kuti sizikukwaniritsa kukakamizidwa komanso kukakamizidwa. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi tsiku lanu lokumbukira pamene banja lanu likuvutika. Osayikakamiza kwambiri mwanjira ina. Musaganize kuti zidzakhala zodabwitsa kapena zosokoneza. Osayika kulemera kokonza zomwe zaphwanyidwa tsiku limodzi. Lolani kuti likhale lofatsa. Lolani kuti liwoneke mwachilengedwe. Lolani kuti lizikhala ngati losamalira komanso lodzaza ndi mwayi wonse momwe zingathere
Tsiku limodzi silidzachiritsa miyezi kapena zaka zowawa m'banja, kutero kumakhazikitsa kulephera komanso kukhumudwa. Litha kukhala tsiku, komabe, pomwe mumadzichitira nokha ndi ubalewo mokoma mtima, chifundo, kuwona mtima, komanso cholinga. Litha kukhala tsiku lomwe limakupangitsani kunyadira momwe mudadzichitira nokha. Litha kukhala tsiku lomwe lingatsegule mwaulemu mwayi woti chaka chamawa chaukwati wanu chikhale chosiyana kwambiri ndi chaka chatha chaukwati wanu.